Today, Zhang Liang announced the divorce, he posted: "I and Kou Jing have gone through divorce procedures in 2017, but it is only an internal family opinion, and the children have been raised together, I hope you don't speculate too much." Can such a large amount of information be guessed as a melon-eating masses? Where did the good family man who used to be handsome and warm in the "Where Did Daddy Go" show, who can bring a baby and cook, go? Envied, called "The Woman Who Saved the Galaxy", where did it go? Where did the couple who had a deep affection, a husband and wife, and a happy family go? What exactly made the fictitious marriage between the immortal couple last for 2 years?
Zhang Liang announced his divorce
Coincidentally, the divorce case of Li Guoqing and his wife was heard today. Li Guoqing said that it has been 2 years since the separation, and he has endured 23 years for his son, and once a successful person with a high-end atmosphere in our eyes, but behind the marriage is a chicken feather, is it as Zhang Ailing said: "Every Chinese dress is full of lice underneath"? Late at night on October 23, when founder Li Guoqing and his wife Yu Yu openly clashed on social networks. Yu Yu accused Li Guoqing of domestic violence and chaotic private life in the comments under Li Guoqing's circle of friends, what exactly made the marriage of the model couple we once envied become useless for 2 years?
Mr. and Mrs. Li Guoqing
In the debate in the "Strange Story" program hosted by Cai Yongkang and Xiao S: "If you have fear of marriage water, will you drink it"? In this way, we young people can only drink. When we are still looking forward to a beautiful love marriage, working hard to make money to buy a house and get married, marriage confirms what Wang Shuo said: "How to choose marriage is wrong, long-term marriage is to be wrong, so marriage is the graveyard of love", from his novel "No one applauds" We can summarize the 3 reasons why marriage has become useless.
Cai Yongkang and Xiao S hosted the "Strange Story" program
Wang Shuo's "No One Applauds" tells the story of Xiao Keping, who is intellectually elegant and artistic, and has a funny humor, and the promising aircraft engineer Li Mianning married a couple, which in our opinion is really a pair of gods and immortals, but after marriage, under the torture of tea rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea, they took off their gorgeous coats and saw the "lice" on each other, as Wang Shuo said: "Before marriage, one is greater than the other, and after marriage, they can't be found in the ordinary pile of people."
Writer Wang Shuo
Funny and humorous Li Mianning became the "doorman" of the Forbidden City, indulging in the game all day, ignoring his wife Xiao Keping, and Xiao Keping was not willing to be mediocre in his married life, always wanted to find the piano, chess, calligraphy, painting and poetry and tea when he was in love, in the face of her husband Li Mianping's non-cooperation, she became resentful and became a chattering housekeeper, and finally the contradictions between the two escalated, and divorced on the principle of intolerable and no longer needing to endure. But they also lived in a house like a husband and wife, just separated. Then there was Qian Kang, an upstart who pursued Xiao Keping, and Han Liting, a real-life woman who was obsessed with Li Mianning, and watched as the two immortal couples each found their own "better" destinations, but Qian Kang, who was well versed in human nature, reconciled them. Rather than saying that their reconciliation is due to Qian Kang's righteousness, it is better to say that they can be reconciled completely by The ingenuity of Wang Shuo's design, setting them up as divorced without separating the family, living together will be less suspicious and misunderstood, if they immediately separate after the divorce, they will already attack each other in the stage of having a new love for each other, and they will not tolerate each other, and they will be regarded as enemies. From being tortured by cai rice oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea, disgusting each other, and finally divorcing, to recognizing the essence of marriage, seeing each other clearly, and getting back together, we can come up with 3 reasons that make marriage deformed and useless.
Qiao Weidong and his wife reunited after divorce like Xiao Keping and his wife
Ancients Cloud: "Book by medicine also", is the medicine three points of poison, the same amount of substitution, is the book also three points of poison. For the beauty of love marriage, we almost all come from martial arts and romance novels, red dust as a companion Xiao Dashing, immortal couples, children's love for us at the beginning of the opening, good not envious. With the increase of age and experience, we see the handsome and sunny Zhang Liang in reality, the gentle and virtuous Kou Jing, the husband singing and the woman, completely in line with the appearance of the husband and wife in our minds; we see Li Guoqing and Yu Yu, who have achieved fame and success, and have a smooth career; we also see the male god Jia Nailiang, the goddess Li Xiaolu, their marriage is so beautiful, there is no chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea calculations, the male handsome, the female is beautiful, the child is obedient and sensible, it is really beautiful and not real.
Zhang Liang and Kou Jing were like gods and immortals
As the old saying goes: "The more you lack something, the more you show what you want", the poor are cautious and generous, the rich are stingy in a generous way, and we still remember the sweetness of Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu, zhang Liang and Kou Jing sprinkled "dog food" to us, but the happiness that is pretended will not last long. With the divorce of Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu, Zhang Liang and Kou Jing, let us soberly realize that the beautiful love marriage is in the fairy tale, we do not need to envy, do not need to be deliberately modeled, the essence of marriage is plain, see the truth in the plain, there is no high standard of comparison, suddenly found that our marriage is actually very beautiful, very happy, they are also very content, to be able to keep happiness is the greatest wish.
Li Xiaolu and Jia Nailiang show affection
Marriage is not like love, poetry and tea, it also includes accommodation, tolerance, submission, acceptance, adaptation, forgiveness, forgiveness, understanding, compromise, tenacity, and acceptance. The ancients said: "Life is not satisfactory in the world, we must always be pregnant with one or two", and marriage is the same. Don't look at the mountain higher than the mountain, and finally find that the mountain is better than the mountain, but it is too late. People have to die more than people, throw goods for goods, cold and warm self-knowledge in marriage, can not withstand comparison, do not let their lovers lose in the comparison of other people's husbands and wives, what they can have is the best, but many people have a good marriage, but do not know to cherish, and eventually nothing, leading to divorce.
Li Xiaolu, who does not cherish marriage
Zhang Liang and Kou Jing, Li Guoqing and Yu Yu, Li Xiaolu and Jia Nailiang, as successful people in our eyes, they occupy more public resources, face more temptations, and produce more conflicts of interest, if the two people have strong personalities, can not accommodate each other, tolerate, yield, contradictions can only intensify, by daily trivialities tormented all over the body, they can only end this marriage, to find their own new beginnings, but after entering another "siege", found that marriage is the same. "The most cherished thing in life is not to get and has been lost", what is not gained is always restless, but what is obtained is fearless, they are too easy to get, do not know to cherish, no matter how every good relationship is worth cherishing, let alone love? Although Ma Yili and the article are still divorced, the sentence she said is still worth learning from us, and we must do it and cherish it in marriage.
Ma Yili, who is good and cherished
Montaigne said: "A happy marriage is a sweet union in life, full of steadfastness, loyalty, and countless beneficial and reliable help and mutual obligations." Yu Yu, a strong woman in the shopping mall, runs her own business well, but her marriage is running in a mess; the sunny and handsome Zhang Liang and the gentle and virtuous Kou Jing run a model couple of love no matter what, but behind them are all chicken feathers; in Wang Shuo's "No one applauds", through the cries of the male and female protagonists, we know that a beautiful marriage is not innate, nor is it achieved overnight, nor is it deliberately created, but it is operated in a dull life one after another, and they have such a marriage that they do not have. As a tragedy of divorce, we can only say that they do not know how to run a marriage, or are not willing to run a marriage at all.
The strong woman in the mall will be married to run a chicken feather
Cershchenko said: "Before deciding to divorce, there is a long, painful, and difficult process of thinking about reasons, that is, the process of comprehensively proposing a basis for your decision from the perspective of personal needs, interests, opinions, and values", which shows that divorce is not blindly impulsive, but after careful consideration, a momentary decision is accumulated by long-term resentment and sadness, so in daily life we must know how to operate. Some people say that love is the union of two people, marriage is the union of two families, marriage is full of interests in the competition, many people will be divorced to their own too poor, lovers are poor and love rich, rather than sitting on the bicycle bitter, why not sit in the BMW and cry? People who know how to operate, even if they are plain life, they can live a colorful life, in fact, the husband does not require much, but tired and sleepy can have a wife who knows cold and knows heat, and the same wife is not necessary to let you achieve fame and fame, seal the shadow of the wife, but as a man, you have to hold up a piece of the sky for her, let her be safe.