Netizens have said that the relationship between Wu Yanzu and his wife is indeed very good, but Wu Yanzu directly exposed that he belonged to a sexless marriage in the past 10 years. This makes many netizens express incredible, because they never thought that such a situation would occur in Wu Yanzu's marriage, and even many people think that the best love will be consumed by the chai rice oil and salt after marriage. Sex is not the most important thing in marriage. It may be normal that there may be all kinds of passions between the two sides in the first few years, but after a long time together, life will eventually return to peace. After that, these things are not particularly important, as long as there is love between the two parties.
Wu Yanzu exposed himself to sexless marriage
Wu Yanzu has always been recognized by everyone as a male god, with high appearance, superior family and perfect marriage. After many years of marriage, there have been zero scandals, and the relationship between him and his wife is also very sweet and happy. However, I did not expect that when Wu Yanzu celebrated his wife's birthday on the social platform, he blew himself up and had been married asexually for ten years. In the entertainment industry, where temptations are everywhere, it is simply unbelievable.
Wu Yanzu and Lisa Selesner have been in love since 2002, and after eight years of love and long-distance running, they finally entered the palace of marriage in South Africa. After marriage, his wife gave birth to a lovely daughter for Wu Yanzu, named Wu Feiran. In order to have more time to spend with his wife and daughter, Wu Yanzu also faded out of the entertainment circle for a time, and did not make a comeback until 2014.
Wu Yanzu often posts photos of his daughter on social platforms, and from time to time he will confess his wife's kindness. On the tenth anniversary of the marriage, he also specially took his wife to South Africa to celebrate, which shows that the relationship between the two is very harmonious. But what is unexpected is that behind the marriage of the gods is a decade-long asexual life.
To Wu Yanzu's self-explosion, the wife also behaved very plainly, "Well, I see, my husband is now locked up in the backyard shed to self-isolate." This state of asexual marriage faced by Wu Yanzu and his wife is probably encountered by most people in life. As the pace of people's lives continues to accelerate, feelings are fragile, temptations increase, and with them comes a variety of marital problems. Someone once said that no love, no sex, no words can be said to be the marital state that most people face now.
Wu Yanzu is very handsome and very honest about marriage
Mention Wu Yanzu, I believe that many people are not strangers, in the handsome entertainment circle, Wu Yanzu's appearance, can be called top-notch, even if it is a man, after seeing Wu Yanzu's figure and appearance, he will not be able to help but look at it a few times. Indeed, men can grow into Wu Yanzu, basically the ceiling of the appearance, so that now many netizens who like to play games, when naming, will be called "Wu Yanzu of a certain region".
Wu Yanzu can have such a great influence in the entertainment industry, in addition to his appearance, his acting skills are also recognized as the top level of everyone. Although Wu Yanzu has great influence and his number of fans is amazing, he rarely has any scandals. The audience has always paid special attention to the emotions of the stars in the entertainment industry, so many stars will choose to hide their emotions or hide their marriage. However, Wu Yanzu did not do this, he chose to get married at the peak of his career, and generously announced to the outside media that he was married, or from this matter, it is enough to show that Wu Yanzu not only has amazing acting skills and appearance, but his personality is also frank and frank, without those twists and turns.
Wu Yanzu, as a popular figure, is a big star in the eyes of the world, about his sexless marriage, he did not shy away from the outside world, but chose to frankly say his marital status. When the outside world was surprised by this kind of sexless marriage, Wu Yanzu naturally expressed it, which shows that asexual marriage not only did not affect Wu Yanzu's feelings with his wife, but made him and his wife happier. The major media have reported positively on their marriage, so everyone also understands their sexless marriage, and everyone also sends the best wishes to Wu Yanzu.
Wu Yanzu's relationship with his wife has a past
Wu Yanzu's appearance seems to belong to the type of angular, and Wu Yanzu's wife is indeed very beautiful. His wife has a highly recognizable appearance, belonging to the Chinese-French mixed race, especially the deep eyes, very divine, and unforgettable. Wu Yanzu's wife is not only very distinctive in appearance, but also her figure is outstanding. She is tall, well-proportioned, and has received formal model training since she was a child, and she is also very outstanding in temperament and other aspects, and she is also famous in the modeling industry.
By chance, Wu Yanzu and this Chinese-French mixed-race model met, so the two began to communicate. Although the two of them are in the entertainment industry, they are more of a spiritual exchange, belonging to that kind of pure emotional exchange. They started as friends, then became close friends, and eventually developed into lovers. After the baptism of time, they have also undergone various tests from the outside world, even if it is a sexless marriage, it is very enviable. Moreover, their love affair lasted for eight years, and then they chose to get married, which is very rare in the entertainment industry.
It is often said that time is the best way to test emotions. And the fact that their husband and wife have gone through such a long period of time from love to later marriage also proves how strong the feelings between them are. Whether it was the previous eight years of love, or the subsequent ten years of marriage, the two almost did not have conflicts, respected each other as guests, supported each other, and made their careers and marriages successful. And their achievements are inseparable from the enviable long emotional history of the past.
Between them is true love
Many young people now, from falling in love to breaking up, are like a family. And the stars in the entertainment industry, they choose to divorce, it is even more commonplace. Behind this is actually a reflection of a truth, that is, these divorced people, there has never been true love between them. Now young people will casually say "I love you", and the two sides have known each other for a few days, and they have lived together, and it seems as if they still love each other deeply. In fact, from the perspective of human emotional psychology, this is not the so-called true love.
True love must be emotionally resonant between both parties, and they must also experience the accumulation of time in order to produce true love. Judging from Wu Yanzu's situation, he and his wife fell in love for eight years before entering the marriage, during which the emotional and spiritual investment of both parties was also incomprehensible to ordinary people, and it was in this process that they produced an indestructible true love. And this true love is the basis for them to dare to choose a sexless marriage.
Spiritual love is their pursuit
Wu Yanzu and his wife, from love to the subsequent ten years of marriage, have a long time with each other, for their top stars in the entertainment industry, perhaps, some flashy things, they have seen through, they treat life and emotions and marriage, more is the spiritual pursuit. In particular, the eight-year-long love time can simply sublimate people's spirits to a very high level. It is this supreme spiritual pursuit that also makes each other more trusting.
Marriage is related to both husband and wife, and Wu Yanzu and his wife choose a sexless marriage, in fact, it is not something that one person can decide, and both parties must be willing to maintain a sexless marriage for ten years. In order to achieve this situation, it is very important for both husband and wife to understand each other. From the years that the couple has been married for so many years, from their stable marital feelings, we can see that the two of them have almost reached the point where you have me and I have you in terms of emotions, and mutual understanding has almost become a part of their lives.
How to change sexless marriage?
Different people treat sexless marriages with different views, and some people feel that this is a platonic spiritual love that makes love a more advanced form of expression. Some people feel that sexless marriage is nothing more than based on the continuous tolerance of one party. Sexless marriage is ultimately the lack of freshness, and if you want to change this state between husband and wife, you can constantly inject something fresh into each other's lives. For example, pay attention to the sense of ritual in life, know how to create surprises and gifts for each other, and pay attention to the emotional communication between husband and wife. Over time, you may be able to regain the freshness of when you were first in love.
Does sexlessness really affect marital feelings?
In the past, someone on the Internet would always ask you if there really is a pure friendship in the world, and even in those children's early love, there will be boys and girls who do not have pure friendships, because boys know boys best. Probably most people don't understand what couples really mean, but then again, most marriages are ruined on this matter. Some people even said that there was no sex life after marriage because of emotional problems, either the man did not love the woman, or the woman did not love the man, or there was someone outside, anyway, there are all kinds of statements. But Xiaobian feels that sex is only a criterion for testing marriage, and does not include all marriages.
What exactly does marriage give adults?
Everyone says that marriage is the graveyard of love, in fact, the real reason for the failure of marriage is from the emotional problems of both parties, not because of sexual life, so sexual life is not the only criterion for measuring a happy marriage. Even if Wu Yanzu knows that he and his wife do not have sex, it does not mean that their marriage is unhappy, because they may have said it before marriage, so they are psychologically prepared after marriage. Sex is indeed one of the most important factors between men and women, but it has to be admitted that with the continuous progress and development of society, men and women have not paid much attention to these problems.
Sex in marriage doesn't have a big impact
Adults are now running around for their lives every day and don't have the heart to think about that. Everyone can think about it, they are tired for a day, they can lie down and rest at night, who will have the energy to think about these things. What's more important is that couples are even less likely to think about that in middle age, because life brings them far more pressures than that, such as children, houses, parents, and so much more so that others are less important. So then again, sexless life doesn't have much of an impact on relationships after marriage.
The standard of happiness is not unique
Sexless marriages are not particularly fatal, as long as the feelings of both parties are really so sexy and asexual there is basically no gap. Sexless marriage does not mean that there are no feelings between the two parties, on the contrary, it is the result of the grinding of life. As long as both spouses believe that the marriage can be valid for a lifetime, then they can live together well without faith. For some sexual marriages, perhaps the hearts of the two of them are no longer together, so sex is not the only criterion for verifying whether the marriage is happy.
There are different reasons for whether there is sex in marriage, and if it is because there is no love, then the marriage is indeed extinct. But if both partners believe that love is full and spiritually independent, then they can live together forever with or without sex. So asexual marriage is not something that hurts the feelings of husband and wife, on the contrary, what really hurts feelings is the problem between husband and wife.