Mr. Qian Zhongshu said that marriage is like a besieged city, which is indeed very graphic.
However, this seemingly strong and solid siege has never been able to resist the impact of the long river of time.
It is precisely because of this that the people inside will find ways to come out, such as the Japanese actress Suzuki Ho nami.
Today's Suzuki Honami is no longer as young as she was then, but on the contrary, it is a bit embarrassing, not more than 54 years old.
Why embarrassing? Say young, not young, say old, and don't seem to be qualified.
As we all know, Suzuki Ho nami had a previous marriage, but divorced shortly after marriage.
Of course, this is not a big deal, but the problem is that her re-in love with her husband, Takaaki Ishibashi, is a husband with a wife. Isn't this a bit immoral?
Anyway, Suzuki Ho nami wasn't too famous when she was young, at least much worse than her husband, Takaaki Ishibashi. But she was young and beautiful, and that was capital.
Therefore, she ignored people's criticism and insisted on marrying Takaaki Ishibashi. It is said that she was already pregnant when she got married, which is typical of getting on the bus first and then buying a ticket.
Although it has been many years, it is still very famous in Japan. As soon as people mention Suzuki Ho nami, the topic of unrequited love will naturally be turned over again.
In fact, Suzuki Ho nami paid a lot of money for this, and the people not only accused her of interfering in other people's marriages, but even "cursed" her marriage with Takaaki Ishibashi for not lasting long.
I don't know whether true love played a role, or insisted on marriage in order not to punch the face, Suzuki Ho Nami and Ishibashi Takaaki this marriage is 23 years. During this time, she gave birth to three daughters, and she successfully whitewashed and made a comeback.
Even so, people, will make mistakes.
Suzuki Honami did something impulsive when she was young, but later Sango taught her son to be honest. Therefore, the tolerant people soon do not want to worry about right and wrong, right and wrong, with her.
In such a situation, Suzuki Ho nami should be content, have a husband, have a daughter, and have a good career. But who knew that not long ago, the news of divorce suddenly broke out.
At that time, it was Takaaki Ishibashi who posted the divorce news on his personal account, saying that their children had grown up and that raising children could be over, so the two decided to separate.
At first, people couldn't believe it, and it was a statement from Takaaki Ishibashi's personal account, and people had every reason to doubt the truth of the matter. But people soon believed it, because the news released by Takaaki Ishibashi was not only his own signature, but also the name of Nanami Suzuki.
The point is, after the message was sent, neither of them made a sound.
That is, they acquiesced to the fact of the matter. At this time, the people can't help but turn over the past and re-examine this marriage. As some people say: even after 23 years, they broke up.
What's the matter? In fact, the news that Suzuki Ho nami is going to divorce has long been out, and there are reports that she bought a mansion of 20 million yuan and moved out of Takaaki Ishibashi's house.
Is that separation? At least a prelude to divorce.
Not only that, but nanami Suzuki was previously named at Takaaki Ishibashi's office. But since last year, Suzuki Ho nami has stepped back from the inside and set up her own office.
This is also the first separation of the family in the career, and the purchase of the house later is also a matter of course.
There are even reports that Suzuki Ho nami had long planned for divorce, but at that time, her youngest daughter had only graduated from high school, so she could only pave the way for her future first, so she would be able to live.
Why is it said that it will be over? Because Suzuki Ho nami thought she was living too depressed.
Her husband, Takaaki Ishibashi, is extremely macho and has always had an opinion on her comeback.
Especially later, when her fame grew, her husband became more arrogant, requiring her to go home after filming, and could not have contact with the opposite sex beyond filming.
What Suzuki Can't stand most is that she has to call her husband regularly to report her whereabouts when she goes out, is this a bit of a feeling of involuntariness?
Take a look at the signature on Suzuki's personal account: Be the happiest and freest woman in Tokyo.
Judging from her marriage to her husband, such a dream may be difficult to realize.
No wonder people say that the more you can't get it, the more you have to show off, Suzuki Ho Nami is helpless, will show her dream through the signature!
Of course, Suzuki Ho nami is definitely not just divorced because of these things, the most important thing is that her husband has always had the habit of "stealing".
The reason why she was determined to make a comeback was because she found that she had no independent capital and could not manage her husband, including such things as cheating.
For Takaaki Ishibashi, it was common for him to have an affair with other women, and the front foot asked For the forgiveness of Suzuki Ho nami for this kind of thing, and within four months, he stole it again.
At this time, Suzuki Ho nami was still in the postpartum period, how would it feel to hear such a thing?
For the matter of love, many people understand that if the love between husband and wife is based on immoral reality, it is unlikely to last. The reason, of course, is that two people do not believe in each other's character, which cannot be crossed.
When Suzuki Honami fell in love with Takaaki Ishibashi, who had a husband, didn't she think that one day her husband would fall in love with someone else and part ways with her?
Why does Takaaki Ishibashi not want her to make a comeback? Couldn't be clearer: fear that she'll fall in love with someone else again.
However, because his fame is getting worse and worse than before, on the basis of making money as a big responsibility, Ishibashi Takaaki had to let Suzuki Honami out of the mountain.
This is both mutual vigilance and helplessness in the process of mutual "cooperation". Faced with the fact that Takaaki Ishibashi stole food many times, Suzuki Honami's heart has long lost hope: this person has no medicine to save.
At the end of the day, the question of character is the big deal.
23 years of marriage is not only caused by the chicken feathers of life, but also the consequences of not being able to trust each other from the beginning of the establishment of feelings.
It is said that Takaaki Ishibashi is a very realistic person, or very snobbish.
The relationship between his own funny group and the downtown funny group is not good, but for the sake of popularity, in order to make money, he directly abandoned the owner and chose the enemy team.
Such a person, not to say a snob, is also an opportunist, Suzuki Ho Nami saw such a husband, how could she not worry about her future? It's better to divide it early.