Text/Interpretation of the Feelings of the Brave
01.
I once read a saying: "I like a person can't be hidden, even if I cover my mouth, I will still run out of my eyes", so those who really have a crush always dare not look at another person.
Just a crush, often a person's one-man show, when found, has already entered the play too deeply.
As Bian Zhilin wrote: "You stand on the bridge and look at the scenery, and the people who watch the scenery look at you upstairs." "It's not that the scenery is not good, it's your presence that transcends the scenery.
Crush on someone, what is it like?
Probably, I am afraid that the other party will find out, and I am afraid that the other party will not find out, and I am even more afraid that the other party will find out and pretend not to know.
At the end, it seems that even you can cheat, but when you have a crush on someone, there will be these three performances that can't be hidden, remember well.
02.
First, deny your feelings and do not admit to liking
Guo Jingming once wrote: "Sometimes, love is also a kind of hurt, cruel people, choose to hurt others, kind people, choose to hurt themselves."
In love, the person who fell in love first always likes to make excuses for himself, not to deceive others, but to deceive himself.
So when there is a bud of love, always deceive yourself, maybe it is only a slight good feeling, maybe he can't look at me, maybe this way of getting along, is the best choice, maybe confessed, there will be no good results.
Under his own denial of himself, his feelings are getting stronger and stronger, and the more he will be more and more cautious.
So when you find that you meet someone and your feelings for him are so special that you don't want to admit it yourself, that's the manifestation of a crush.
Some people, not fruitless, not unloved, is nothing more than you want to keep him in your heart, so you dare not admit it.
Unfortunately, the love that dare not admit, even if the love is deep, has no end,
Second, the attitude towards ta is always different from others
Love is something you can't hide even if you want to hide it.
Some people say that the love of the student age always originated from pulling her hair, the more she liked a person, the more she liked to bully her, and when she saw her crying, although she was not happy, she wanted to play with her.
Children are like this, adults are not much better, and when they don't know how to express themselves, they can only be treated specially.
Beside Vivi, there is such a boy, in the eyes of others is a warm man, in vivi's eyes is "neurotic", she does not understand why she always has to be hit by the other party.
When chatting, Vivi said that she was going to dinner, and the other party would reply: "You are not afraid of being fat, you are so strong";
Wei Wei said that she wanted to go out at night, and the other party would say: "Going out at night is really ugly and safe";
Wei Wei said that she had to work overtime, and the other party would say: "The salary is not high, how can there be so many things." ”
In Wei Wei's eyes, this man is working against himself, anyway, he looks at himself unfavorably, and he does not understand the evaluation of others to give him a warm man, where it comes from.
It's just that Vivi didn't find out, when she went out, the boy would always casually ask: "Are you going back", he worked overtime, the boy always waited for her to finish the overtime before resting, and has been silently accompanied, but he does not make a sound.
Many people in the face of love, is this kind of performance, the more "unique" to a person, may be the more like.
Afraid that the other party will find out about his love, he will use some indifference to disguise, but because he can't be relieved, he will be angry. Falling in love with someone is always suffering from gain and loss, and emotions will fluctuate with each other.
It's like once hearing a saying: "When a person can always easily make you angry, it means that you like him." ”
The real indifference is that no matter what happens, they feel that the other party has nothing to do with themselves, and the real care is that even if the other party is angry, they want to contact him.
Crushing a person is itself something that you can't control, so emotional fluctuations have become a normal reaction.
After all, when you are not even qualified to be jealous, you don't know what you are angry about, and even so, you can't control your anger, you want to get closer, you want to talk, but you are afraid of the result.
Third, when you hear the news of the other party, you always want to inquire more
Zhang Ailing said: "When you hear something, you obviously have nothing to do with it, and you will also turn several times in your heart to think of you." ”
Crushing a person is to turn these things into a story, to write the intersection of two people into a happy ending, maybe that person does not know, but in this love, love is very true.
When you meet that person's friend, you always want to say a few more words, see the circle of friends sent by the other party, always want to see some unspoken meanings, and even a casual greeting, will think about whether he also likes himself.
The real crush, who looks extraordinarily humble, humble to one person, has written the story of two people.
When you find that there is always no resistance to a person's news, always a person's hobby, subconscious approach, always a person's future, inadvertently inquire.
This kind of performance is not called finding nothing, but really like, so that has become the most important existence in your heart.
03.
Like a person, out of your control, enjoy the joy of liking, but experience the torture of not getting it.
As Hugo once wrote, "Letting yourself have a dragon in your heart is both a torture and a pleasure." "When you fall in love with someone and don't know the result, what you experience is inner torment."
That person can affect your emotions, can make you become unruly, can make you fantasize about the future, but after the fantasy is over, you feel how you are always stupid.
But when you find that you don't want to admit love, don't want to face him, but always inadvertently inquire about him, this is the evidence that you are in love. After all, when you have a crush, these three manifestations are unavoidable.
There is a saying that goes like this: "I stand to your left, only to be close to your atrium; I follow your shadow, only to get close to you to the limit." ”
Really like, only by fighting, there is a possibility of an ending, a real crush, even if the confession is rejected, you can secretly love.
Since you don't know the ending, why not work hard, maybe your future can really have him.
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