In 1991, Xu Fan played the role of "Zhenfei" in "Grand Eunuch Li Lianying" in the entertainment industry, and at the same time with director Tian Zhuangzhuang spread a scandal, his legitimate boyfriend Wang Zhiwen suddenly felt that he was wearing a "green hat", questioned Xu Fan sharply, and finally the two quarreled in the rental house, and dispersed unhappily, and then Xu Fan's luggage was thrown out of the door by Wang Zhiwen.
Xu Fan was kicked out of the rental house by Wang Zhiwen, so what was Feng Xiaogang doing at this time?
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At that time, Feng Xiaogang was at an important turning point in his life, he was working with Wang Shuo, Ge You and others on "The Story of the Editorial Department", of course, Feng Xiaogang, who was not yet much famous, played an editorial role in the crew, or was only responsible for a few episodes.
Subsequently, "The Story of the Editorial Department" was a big fire, and Feng Xiaogang also had some fame in the entertainment circle, and in 1992, Feng Xiaogang served as the screenwriter of "The Big Satan", which intersected with Xu Fan's life.
The topic returned to Xu Fan's side. After being driven out of the rental house by Wang Zhiwen, she was angry and annoyed, so she simply moved back to the dormitory of Renyi and cut off Wang Zhiwen, which is also one of the few crisp moves in her emotional history.
In 1992, the young and beautiful Xu Fan became the heroine of "The Great Saja", and also had the opportunity to meet Feng Xiaogang.
Speaking of which, Xu Fan's first encounter with Feng Xiaogang was not perfect, and that day in the screening room of "The Great Satan", Feng Xiaogang and Ge You casually said when watching the sample film: "It's all very good, that is, the heroine almost means", and Xu Fan, who was the heroine at the time, sat behind Feng Xiaogang.
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At first, Feng Xiaogang really didn't have that mind for Xu Fan, and at the feast of "The Great Sasha", Feng Xiaogang also pulled Xu Fan to introduce her to a friend of his, but was not stiff and soft by Xu Fan.
It may be because of this that Feng Xiaogang remembered Xu Fan one night in the autumn of 1993, so he called the girls' dormitory of Renyi, and the interesting thing is that Feng Xiaogang got through at once, and it was Xu Fan who answered the phone. This incident was later written into his autobiography by Feng Xiaogang, saying: This is all providence!
Soon Feng Xiaogang took Wang Shuo's advice and began to ask Xu Fan to come out to eat and drink tea. After eating that day, he sent Xu Fan back to the dormitory, and Feng Xiaogang, who had drunk too much, lay on Xu Fan's leg with the strength of wine, Xu Fan did not refuse, which was a pleasure to spoil Feng Xiaogang: There is a play!
The next day, Xu Fan also took the initiative to call and care about Feng Xiaogang, and the relationship between the two began to change qualitatively. As for when the two were together, the outside world did not know, only that when they went to Beijing to participate in the Golden Rooster Award event, Feng Xiaogang directly introduced Xu Fan to everyone as his girlfriend, and Xu Fan did not refuse.
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At that time, Xu Fan, who was also a famous big beauty, and Feng Xiaogang came together to think that flowers were planted on cow dung. However, the IQ of the woman in love is negative, and Xu Fan is extra "instigated" when facing feelings, and the status of the two has always been in the "male high female low".
In 1988, when Xu Fan and Wang Zhiwen fell in love, "instigation" was first seen. When he was young, Wang Zhiwen had long hair, wearing a trench coat was a handsome horse, and one look could disturb the hearts of many girls, and Xu Fan had the courage to chase after Wang Zhiwen.
At that time, people's thinking was still relatively conservative, and coupled with the fact that Wang Zhiwen was a teacher at the school, the relationship between the two was definitely stimulating. Soon Xu Fan sat firmly on the throne of Wang Zhiwen's girlfriend and moved into Wang Zhiwen's rental house to live with him.
In that relationship, Wang Zhiwen was the party that needed to be coaxed, and it is reported that someone once saw Xu Fan cooking for Wang Zhiwen, cleaning the housework, and calming his temper...
Because of love, so "instigated", but a relationship with Wang Zhiwen ended with being kicked out of the rental house by the other party. Xu Fan, who was injured, not only did not learn to be obedient, but was even more "instigated".
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When he was with Feng Xiaogang, the other party had a wife and a daughter and a difference of 9 years, which was obviously not a good match, but Xu Fan "let go" and "coaxed" Feng Xiaogang everywhere.
In 1993, Feng Xiaogang played a teacher in "Sunny Day", in order to catch up with the big winter filming summer scenes, the actors also suffered a major crime. At that time, Xu Fan was also rehearsing "Ruan Lingyu", but she was distressed about Feng Xiaogang, so she rushed to deliver food to Feng Xiaogang every day, afraid that the dishes were cold and wrapped up with bath towels.
As a result, as soon as Feng Xiaogang opened the lunch box, he immediately disliked the dish: "What is the head of this", he worked hard to deliver food but in exchange for a number of meals, Xu Fan could not be angry, it was really "instigated".
In this way, Feng Xiaogang followed Feng Xiaogang for seven years, perhaps Feng Xiaogang also felt that he could not find anyone more accustomed to him than Xu Fan, in 1999, the two were licensed to marry, but they were married for 22 years without children.
When Feng Xiaogang was constantly scandalous and got along with beautiful women, Xu Fan generously expressed forgiveness; when she was a guest of "Venus Show", she also said: "People can't stand it, simply don't look at it, even if there are girls who pounce on it, anyway, our family is a man, you let him take advantage of it" This kind of ruinous remarks.
You think this will come to an end, but in fact, Xu Fan is even more "instigated" than you think.
After many years of marriage, Feng Xiaogang was unwilling to let her meddle in things she never cared about; the family came and went, and she never lost her temper; a group of big men talked about it, and she was willing to put on an apron to cook and entertain herself...
As Zhang Ailing said: "When I saw him, she became very low and very low, low to the dust, but her heart was joyful, and flowers blossomed from the dust." ”
But Xiaopu still believes that good love is a two-way rush, to make each other better, not a concession by one person!