Lucy Ye
"How do you balance career and family?" This problem, put it now, let the women explode.
Laundry and cooking, husband and son, gray-headed, hard-working all his life, is a full-time housewife;
The scenery is outside, the husband is disgusted, the family is broken, and she is a strong woman in society.
It seems that no woman can double harvest family career.
The women of the older generation, who dedicate their lives and are wronged, most of them have become resentful women; the new generation of women, who have devoted themselves to their careers, have the momentum of breaking the boat and ending up alone.
Does family and career, husband, child and self, have to clash?
Lucy replied with her life: No conflict.
Ye Lucy, Du Xuan and the two children
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" >, idol drama love</h1>
Every girl has a princess dream, but Ye Lucy doesn't have to.
Ye Lucy, who came out of the rich and solid door with a rich cultural atmosphere, was an elegant princess herself.
At the age of 17, Ye Lucy went to Nanyang Senior Business School to study, and her beauty conquered the campus, and she was recognized as the school flower and was known as the "rose" of Shanghai.
Ye Lucy not only made people envious of her skin, but also gave birth to exquisite seven tricks, and her studies did not fall behind.
Surprising and unexpected, The lady of Fanglan is still a good athlete, skiing and basketball.
She also inherited the artistic genes of her family, loved to perform, and often participated in performances in amateur theater troupes.
She is outstanding and ordinary. She was born a hundred years ago, but like today's young girls, she loves handsome male stars, carefully looks up, wants to get, and does not dare to think too much.
Zhao Dan
She is the dream of the boys on campus, and Zhao Dan is the dream of the girls of the whole country.
At that time, with masterpieces such as "Pipa Spring Complaint", Zhao Dan was already a household name and a big star with fans everywhere.
Zhao Dan's eyebrows are stretched, his face is thick and deep, his face is like a crown jade, and people are like peach blossoms, which has stunned an era.
To him, which girl doesn't fall in love?
By chance, Zhao Dan was invited to Ye Lucy School to perform for the students of the amateur drama club.
The first time she saw Zhao Dan, Ye Lucy was extremely nervous, the fawn collided, and the six gods flew away.
He is famous, but polite, speaking for the students to perform, focused, professional, exuding a deadly charm, beautiful and talented, perfect beyond words.
A gentleman is unparalleled in the world, who can deserve it? Excellent as Ye Lucy, in the face of Zhao Dan is also cowardly and inferior, she tries her best to control her expression and carefully collect her heart.
As everyone knows, her bright life also ignited Zhao Dan's love, he fell at a glance, and the moth ran to her like a moth to the fire, confessing to her affectionately.
The star-like dazzling dream lover, falling by her side, holding her hand, saying love words about her, unexpected happiness, almost made Ye Lucy suffocate and faint.
She wanted time to slow down a little, and she wanted him to savor the seasons, and she also wanted time to be faster, and he had a white head for a night.
In 1936, at a grand group wedding in Hangzhou, Ye Lucy was Zhao Dan's bride, and Zhao Dan was Ye Lucy's groom.
Ye Lucy and Zhao Dan group wedding photos
"I became the Prince of Happiness because I had one of the most beautiful and beautiful women in the world." Marrying Ye Lucy, Zhao Dan was as happy as if he had received a treasure.
Zhao Dan, handsome, red, young and promising, but also for being able to marry Ye Lucy, happy and grateful, enough to show that she is excellent.
This excellent, only relying on superior origins, is far from enough, not enough effort, hard enough can not be obtained.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="19" > second, the country is broken, the family is destroyed, and fate is mocked</h1>
After marriage, Zhao Dan rushed for her career, and Ye Lucy put down her ideals, curbed her ambitions, and became a full-time housewife.
She gave birth to her eldest daughter, Zhao Qing, step by step, nursed her, and took care of her.
If the years have been quiet, Ye Lucy will live a simple and calm life day after day, watching her husband's career prosper and watching her children grow up slowly.
Ye Lucy, Zhao Qing, Zhao Dan
Unfortunately, it was 1937 and the war was raging.
In order to support the party's anti-Japanese work, Ye Lucy entrusted her daughter to her mother, followed her husband out of the relative safety of Shanghai, and went deep into the interior to tour the anti-Japanese drama.
The road is bumpy and hard, and Ye Lucy is as sweet as a glutton. She and Zhao Dan furong and Ti, and Ru Qinser, as long as they are together, they are also happy in suffering.
Within two years, Ye Lucy crossed the mountains and seas with Zhao Dan and arrived in Xinjiang. During this period, Ye Lucy gave birth to a son for Zhao Dan, and the young couple was immersed in happiness.
One autumn day, Zhao Danxingchong told Ye Lucy that he was going to perform in Xinjiang and that he would have to go to Moscow to learn Stanislavsky's performance system.
Ye Lucy and her children
Ye Lucy gently prepared her bag for her husband, sent it and sent it again, and she didn't want to give up.
In the days when Zhao Dan left home, Ye Lucy looked forward to it day and night, hoping that he could come back sooner, hug her son who was a few months old, and hug her.
No, I look forward to it, but what I am looking forward to is a disaster that rises against the tide.
At that time, Xinjiang was under the control of Sheng Shicai, and Zhao Dan, when he was a progressive warlord, did not want to have a ghost in his heart.
After watching the anti-Japanese dramas of Zhao Dan and other progressive young actors, Sheng Shicai had to think that the traitors in the drama were alluding to him, and he became angry and arrested everyone.
Hearing the news that Zhao Dan had been arrested, Ye Lucy felt that the sky was spinning, and the sun and moon were dark.
It was the person on the tip of her heart, but at this time she was in a dark, wet and cold prison, eating and sleeping badly, tortured and ill-treated, and her heart was like a knife.
Even if she was only a weak woman and had a young son, Ye Lucy still tried her best to rescue her husband despite the dangers.
Sheng Shicai was very interesting, arresting the four male actors, but did not arrest their wives and children, and also sent a special car to send them away.
In this way, Ye Lucy was sent out of Xinjiang, and was also "blacklisted" by Sheng Shicai and was not allowed to enter Xinjiang.
The arms can't twist the thighs, on the one hand is the warlord big man with military power, on the other side is the widowed mother with the child, and there is no point in struggling.
The two children are waiting to be fed, and the idea of making money to feed them is the top priority.
It is not easy to leave the workplace and find a new way out, even today, let alone in that turbulent era.
For one year, two years, three years, the days when Zhao Dan was imprisoned, Ye Lucy worked hard to support the broken home, waiting for the child to grow up, waiting for him to return.
As long as people are still there, what does it matter if they are bitter? What does it matter if you wait too much?
But this time, what she was waiting for was even greater bad news.
In 1943, news came from Xinjiang that Zhao Dan and other advanced actors were shot and killed by Sheng Shicai.
In an instant, Lucy ye lost the love of her life, her husband, the father of her children, and her world collapsed.
Zhao Dan went to prison, she at least had a hope, supporting to live, Zhao Dan died, turned her head to look at the difficult life, she was all gray.
Just let him go.
But what about children? They have lost their father and no mother, which is too pitiful.
Briefly demented, indulgent, and indulgent, Ye Lucy sorted herself out, protected her two children, and continued to seek survival in a stormy way.
Du Xuan
In the difficult years, Du Xuan gave her companionship and dependence, and the two hearts got closer and closer, becoming husband and wife.
Ye Lucy had thought that the days would go on step by step, but she did not expect that there were always bitter jokes waiting for her around the corner.
Not long after Ye Lucy remarried, the prosperous world fell, and Zhao Dan escaped after thousands of years of danger, and could not wait to find her and pour out the pain of lovesickness.
"Xiaoye, Xiaoye..." When they met again, Zhao Dan had tears in his eyes and murmured to Ye Lucy.
In the five years since they were apart, he had never forgotten Ye Lucy, and the longer they were separated, the more they missed each other.
Ye Lucy had never forgotten Zhao Dan, and when she was awake, she also thought, and when she fell asleep, she thought about it and lingered.
But time has passed, and the love between the two is no longer appropriate.
The person who thought about it day and night was right in front of her, but Ye Lucy didn't know whether to cry or laugh.
Zhao Dan excitedly rushed up to hug Ye Lucy, but she turned around, did not dare to respond, and lowered her head to touch the bulging abdomen, which was her and Du Xuan's child.
The tears couldn't stop flowing, she hated herself, why couldn't she wait a little longer, wait a little longer, if she hadn't remarried.
Even if she remarried and did not conceive Du Xuan's child, at this moment she would throw herself into Zhao Dan's arms, hammer his chest, and ask him why he came so late.
But there is no if.
If she wants to reunite with Zhao Dan, she will have to beat the child in her belly, who has the opportunity to come to the human world and open her eyes to see the small life of the world.
Du Xuan, Ye Lucy and their children
There is Du Xuan, he treats her very well, she is gone, how lost he should be, she is gone, she is complete, leaving him a chicken feather, and a broken home, how unfair.
"Follow me, okay?" Follow me, please, follow me..." Zhao Dan took Ye Lucy's hand and cried and begged her.
Love is so sad that Ye Lucy hates not being able to tear her heart in half and herself in half.
But in the world, where there are two things, she must finally choose.
"One family has been destroyed, and I cannot destroy a second family." This was Ye Lucy's answer to Zhao Dan.
Since then, Ye Lucy and Zhao Dan have broken off and lived with Du Xuan wholeheartedly.
It is a choice that has both good intentions and trade-offs, and it is the wisdom of Ye Lucy's life, and it is also the book she has read and the road she has traveled.
On the other hand, countless men and women repeatedly hesitate in their feelings, swaying left and right, and finally hurting others and hurting themselves, falling into a mess, you can appreciate the strength of Ye Lucy.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="47" > three, nine children, each one of them has become a talent</h1>
Ye Lucy gave birth to seven children for Du Xuan, plus the two children left by Du Xuan's ex-wife, bringing up a total of nine children.
In her free time, Lucy Ye cooks with her husband, takes the children out to play, goes for a walk in the park, plays on the court, or does some games that the children love.
The children's childhood is warm and happy, sparkling, so everyone is well cultivated and has a good personality.
Ye Lucy and Du Xuan often talked about the past and the present at home, read poetry, and the nine children grew up in a good cultural atmosphere and benefited a lot.
After adulthood, most of the children are engaged in literary and artistic work, and have made achievements in their respective fields.
Lucy Ye and her relatives and friends
Pulling nine children, bitterness is inevitable, but Ye Lucy never complains, remembering her mother, the children will unconsciously smile.
For the children who grew up around her, Ye Lucy is a well-deserved good mother. For Zhao Qing and Zhao Spear, who could not grow up around her, she inevitably owed.
Especially Zhao Qing, not long after she was born, she was fostered in her grandmother's house, and then she was picked up by Zhao Dan, and she almost never lived by Ye Lucy's side.
Maternal love is common to other children, but to her, it is strange and distant.
Zhao Qing once cried that she was a child without a home. Ye Lucy listened in her ears and hurt in her heart.
Zhao Qing has learned to dance since childhood, studied under famous masters, Zhao Dan's cultivation, and her own efforts have made her live up to expectations and grow into an excellent young dancer and shine on major stages.
Zhao Qing
But like Ye Lucy, Zhao Qing's life is also full of black humor.
Dancing was her life, but she accidentally broke her foot. To make her lie motionless in bed and recuperate was worse than to fry her in a frying pan.
What is even more desperate is that her parents have reorganized the family, and she is not where to settle down.
Zhao Dan's family has a second wife and five children, and there is really no space.
When Ye Lucy heard the news, she hurriedly vacated a room and took Zhao Qing to her home.
At that time, it was a three-year difficult period, natural disasters and man-made disasters, and no one's life was difficult.
Even so, in order for Zhao Qing to be able to raise well, Ye Lucy used the family's meat ticket and egg ticket for a month.
During that period, eggs and meat gold were too expensive, but the fragrant scrambled egg scrambled meat was placed on the table, and the younger brothers and sisters only watched, not noisy.
Lucy Ye and her children
Zhao Qing's arrival squeezed out the already crowded living space and ate the good things that belonged to them. The younger siblings not only did not complain, but also warmly welcomed the big sister.
"Mom educated them very well." Recalling those days, Zhao Qing said movingly.
It was the darkest time of Zhao Qing's life, he was sick in bed, leaving the stage of his beloved, and her husband was suffering from blood diseases and needed to be cared for a long time.
Successive heavy hammers made Zhao Qing overwhelmed.
During that difficult time, Ye Lucy took care of Zhao Qing while taking care of Zhao Qing and her grandmother took care of Zhao Qing's husband. Supporting Zhao Qing's almost desperate life.
Ye Lucy not only cared about Zhao Qing's body, but also changed the law to make her happy.
Lying sick in bed, away from the stage, Zhao Qing was sullen and unhappy all day long, giving up on himself.
Ye Lucito's younger brother Ye Chunzhi contacted Chen Gang, the composer of Liang Zhu, and invited him to his home to discuss the dance creation of Liang Zhu with The bedridden Zhao Qing.
Zhao Qing quickly threw himself into dance creation, rekindled the fighting spirit of life, and gradually had light in his eyes.
Later, this song "Liang Zhu" created by Zhao Qing in his illness, once performed, became a sensation and became her classic masterpiece.
It turns out that this is maternal love, so warm, so firm, so reassuring.
Since then, whenever she talks about her mother, Zhao Qing has the same unconscious, happy smile on her face as her younger siblings.
Only personality can affect personality, only emotional stability, independent personality, not alarmed, belly with poetry books mother, can raise excellent and warm children.
On the other hand, too many women, just pay outward, regardless of inward self-study, do not think about solving things, just vent their emotions, habitually complain.
Complaining that life is not going well, the husband is not considerate, the children are not contentious, and they have worked hard all their lives, but they have finally lived into a resentful and resentful woman.
In contrast, a mother like Ye Lucy has full advantages and is very rare.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="70" > fourth, first have a self, then have a career, and then have a family</h1>
Ye Lucy's second husband is a famous writer. But after marrying him, Ye Lucy did not become a full-time wife, but once again had her own career.
This may also be one of the reasons why she chose Du Xuan instead of Zhao Dan.
After marriage, Ye Lucy was successively transferred to the shanghai literary and art workers' trade union preparatory committee for the minister of culture and education, the head of the literary and artistic section of the Municipal Bureau of Culture, the chief of the cultural section of Changning District, and the vice president of the district art school.
Not only did she take good care of her nine children, but she also stood shoulder to shoulder with her husband, and she continued to work in the cultural field she loved, even if it was just to do some grassroots work.
In 1961, at the age of 44, Lucy Ye was appointed to take charge of the preparation of the directing department of the Drama Academy, and she took care of the family's nine children while supporting the artistic dreams of countless children.
Without a teacher, she went to the door one by one to invite.
In addition, she also took the students to the countryside to learn and write "Rural Storm" as teaching materials.
Later, Ye Lucy's family became the target of key criticism, and under the double torture of material and spirit, she was not anxious or dry, and she was recuperating.
After the storm, Ye Lucy, who was in her fifties, volunteered to serve as the director of the theater nursery, and did her humble work well.
After completing the post-disaster reconstruction of the Acting Directing Department, she returned to work and worked hard to cultivate artistic talents until her death.
In 1934, the English teacher gave Lucy Ye the English name "rose", which means "rose", she liked the name very much, and simply changed the name of the Chinese to "Lucy", and the Chinese harmonic sound of "rose".
Ye Lucy, this name is too beautiful to say.
However, no girl has ever lived a "rose" because she is called "rose", and the reason why Ye Lucy can stand up for this beautiful name is because she is originally a rose.
Only by being excellent can we live beautifully.