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Huang Jianxiang
In November 2006, Huang Jianxiang, the most passionate sports "celebrity", left CCTV and joined Phoenix TV. His past with his ex-wife Sun Ying also surfaced. Their marriage was once rumored to be a good story. But in the end, they could not escape the itch of 7 years, perhaps the distance produced beauty, after separation, they understood each other better and became good friends...
Huang Jianxiang was born in Wuhai, Inner Mongolia to an intellectual family, and moved to Nanjing with his parents at the age of 9. After graduating from high school, Huang Jianxiang was admitted to the English Department of China Foreign Affairs University. In 1992, at the age of 24, Huang Jianxiang graduated from university and joined a beijing tour company as a tour guide.
On National Day this year, Huang Jianxiang took a group of domestic tourists to Travel to Europe, and a girl named Sun Ying in the group caught his attention. 17-year-old Sun Ying is an authentic Beijing girl, who is a freshman at a university in Beijing, she is lively and cheerful, her appearance is pure, and she has talked and laughed with Huang Jianxiang along the way. Huang Jianxiang is handsome and handsome, with a sharp mouth, and the grandmother who travels with Sun Ying likes this frank young man very much. In those days in Europe, Huang Jianxiang was not accustomed to Eating Western food, and Sun Ying and her grandmother shared with him the watercress sauce and salted fish they had brought from Beijing.
Huang Jianxiang and Sun Ying
Soon after returning to China, Huang Jianxiang's landlord wanted to marry his daughter and was about to take back the house he lived in, Huang Jianxiang could not find a suitable place to live for a while, Sun Ying knew, and said generously: "You move to my grandmother's house, my grandmother's house just has a house empty." Huang Jianxiang lived in Sun Ying's grandmother's house.
Since Huang Jianxiang lived in Sun Ying's grandmother's house, Sun Ying ran to her grandmother's house more often, and gradually, the little girl had a heart, and she was more and more eager to see Huang Jianxiang. Sometimes Grandma made delicious food, and she would make up a reason with a red face and bring a copy for Huang Jianxiang to eat. At that time, Huang Jianxiang was floating in Beijing, his income was unstable, sometimes he could only earn living expenses after a month of busyness, Sun Ying knew, persuaded her grandmother to collect less rent from Huang Jianxiang, and later, she simply begged for free rent. Grandma understood her granddaughter's heart, nodded at Sun Ying's forehead, smiled and said, "You little slippery head, you can't hide grandma from the flowers in your stomach." ”
These little details convey a message to Huang Jianxiang: Sun Ying is in love with him. And why isn't that the case? Sun Ying's beauty and kindness made him want to stop, but Huang Jianxiang kept this feeling tightly in his heart. Sun Ying's parents are high-level intellectuals, the family is superior, and she is like a rootless duckweed, struggling for life every day. He is not entitled to enjoy the love affair with Sun Ying.
In December 1993, CCTV Sports Channel opened to the public to recruit editorial staff, Huang Jianxiang with handsome appearance, keen thinking and fluent English, stood out among many candidates, became a staff member of CCTV Sports Channel. Back at the accommodation in the evening, when Huang Jianxiang excitedly told Sun Ying the good news, Sun Ying was so excited that she took out a white Michael scarf from her bag and tied it to Huang Jianxiang's neck with her own hands, a scarf she had long wanted to give to Huang Jianxiang. Huang Jianxiang stared at Sun Ying with a fiery gaze, and Sun Ying's beautiful face floated with a happy shyness...
On the CCTV Sports Channel, Huang Jianxiang worked as an editor, translator, and reporter. In 1995, Huang Jianxiang first served as the host commentator of the "America's Cup" football match, and he became famous overnight with his deep understanding of football and witty commentary since he was a child. The following year, he went to England to broadcast the European Football Championship, and won rave reviews with passionate, interesting and professional commentary, which the media considered him to have "ushered in a new era of Chinese television sports commentary".
At this time, Sun Ying had graduated from college and entered a foreign trade company in Beijing. That day, Sun Ying came to see Huang Jianxiang, the two of them started cooking together, Huang Jianxiang held a handful of rice tightly in his hand, and his sparkling eyes were full of tenderness and happiness: "You are this rice in my palm, I must hold it well in my life and never give up." The boyfriend's affectionate confession made Sun Ying's eyes tear up...
In the spring of 1999, after 7 years of acquaintance and love, Huang Jianxiang and Sun Ying held a wedding. Huang Jianxiang has his own house in Beijing, bought a car, and without any background or relationship, he has broken out of the world in Beijing. When he returned home from work, Huang Jianxiang no longer had to worry about where to rub rice, and Sun Ying had already prepared a fragrant meal waiting for him. Sun Ying was busy in the kitchen, he sat on the sofa watching TV, reading the newspaper... In Huang Jianxiang's mind, married life is like a gorgeous picture.
In October 2001, in the top ten match of China's World Cup against Qatar, the frank Huang Jianxiang bluntly pointed out that the Chinese team's coach Milu was improperly employed, which was criticized by the media, and CCTV also stopped his commentary work.
It was really a stormy day, wherever Huang Jianxiang went, he was faced with accusations and cold eyes, he felt painful and depressed, and even had the idea of leaving CCTV. Sun Ying insisted that Huang Jianxiang stay: "CCTV is a good platform that allows you to play your talents well." The difficulties are temporary, and I will spend them with you. ”
Sun Ying's method of taking him out of the shadows is unique in the world. Every day after work, she pulled Huang Jianxiang to the vegetable market to buy vegetables and returned with a full load. Back at home, she took the spoon in the kitchen and let Huang Jianxiang play the hand, she humorously fried the spinach black fungus as the "Bosnian War", cut the winter melon into very thin slices, and wrapped pork, cabbage and eggs in the middle, called "half-hearted"... Huang Jianxiang's belly was broken with laughter. After cooking a meal, the haze in Huang Jianxiang's heart gradually dissipated, and a long-lost smile appeared on his face...
You can be a good friend but you can't be a good couple
At the 2002 Asian Games in Busan, South Korea, Huang Jianxiang was supposed to accompany the Chinese delegation to preside over the commentary, but at this time, Sun Ying, who was pregnant with Liujia, was about to give birth, and Huang Jianxiang did not hesitate to give up the opportunity to go to Busan and stayed in Beijing to take care of his wife.
Huang Jianxiang and his daughter
On the day of her daughter's birth, Huang Jianxiang accompanied Sun Ying throughout the whole process, holding her hand tightly in her hand, with her husband around, Sun Ying was no longer afraid and felt much more at ease. Afterwards, she said to Huang Jianxiang with great emotion that at that moment, she truly realized the true meaning of the mutual love and dependence between husband and wife.
Huang Jianxiang gave his daughter a nice name: Garbo. The daughter is the center of gravity of the family, the baby of him and Sun Ying. Every day after work, Huang Jianxiang rushed to the house, feeding milk powder and washing diapers to his daughter; after his daughter was slightly older, he lay on the ground and let his daughter ride as a horse; his daughter dragged his two ears and laughed, although it hurt a little, but Huang Jianxiang's heart was as sweet as drinking honey...
Like all ordinary families, as her daughter grew up day by day, there began to be a contradiction between Huang Jianxiang and Sun Ying. When her daughter was two years old, Sun Ying began to teach her daughter to memorize Tang poems, and asked her to participate in painting classes, saying that the child started early and would grow up in the future. Huang Jianxiang could understand Sun Ying's mood of looking forward to her daughter Chengfeng, but her daughter was so young that she was forcibly pressed by adults, which was too pitiful. He and Sun Ying's opinions are exactly the opposite, he advocates that children go with the flow, do not have too high expectations for their daughters, as long as she grows up happily and healthily.
Because the opinions could not be agreed, the model couple had a dispute. It is the difference in educating children that has become a fuse, triggering other hidden contradictions between Huang Jianxiang and Sun Ying. As early as when they were in love, their interests and hobbies were very different, but the passion of love at that time covered up this difference. Huang Jianxiang likes to watch blockbusters, listen to music, and obsess over sports, and these Sun Ying are not interested. Sun Ying likes to watch romance dramas, likes to visit the mall, sometimes Huang Jianxiang is watching football games with relish, she drags Huang Jianxiang, and he has to accompany her to go shopping, Huang Jianxiang is very dissatisfied in his heart, Sun Ying is very angry, saying that Huang Jianxiang does not pay attention to her. The couple got into an awkward fight.
Once there is a contradiction between husband and wife, if it is not resolved in time, it will be like ants nibbling on the embankment, expanding little by little, and finally destroying the marriage dam. Huang Jianxiang is 7 years older than Sun Ying, and the age difference makes their life very different. Once, Huang Jianxiang was taking a bath in the bathroom, and his mobile phone came to the text message, and Sun Ying casually looked at it. Huang Jianxiang came out of the shower and saw that Sun Ying read his short message without his permission, and was very angry: "How can you read my text messages casually?" This is disrespectful to my behavior. Sun Ying was full of grievances: "I am your wife, look at what happened to your text messages?" "You don't think so, husband and wife should also leave space for each other!" Sun Ying looked at Huang Jianxiang in surprise and suddenly felt that he was so strange.
In the first half of 2005, the emotional drama "Chinese-style Divorce" swept the country. Sun Ying asked Huang Jianxiang to accompany her to watch episode by episode, and Huang Jianxiang said with deep feeling: "You see, some of the details of Lin Xiaofeng's wrongful wrongs against Song Jianping are exactly the same as the ones you have wronged me. Women have to learn to be tolerant. Sun Ying thought that her husband was playing on a borrowed topic, and suddenly raised his face: "When did I ever wrongfully accuse you?" Are you doing a good job? "The couple broke up...
It is these bumps in life that gradually consume the beautiful state of mind of Huang Jianxiang and Sun Ying. As Huang Jianxiang's popularity grew, Sun Ying gradually felt a sense of crisis and became more and more uncertain about the marriage. Huang Jianxiang and Sun Ying are both good people, both pursue perfection, especially the requirements for feelings are more demanding. Since the love for each other in each other's hearts fades day by day, there is no point in being together again. In fact, they can get by together, but both of them hope to be together, not awkward.
Time passed day by day, and the rift in Huang Jianxiang and Sun Ying's hearts was not repaired. On February 14, 2006, on Valentine's Day in the West, Huang Jianxiang and Sun Ying calmly went through divorce procedures. Because Huang Jianxiang especially likes children, his daughter lives with him.
After all, after more than ten years of getting along, and now separated, Huang Jianxiang is still a little sad. At this time, the media exposed the rumor that "Huang Jianxiang's divorce is related to supergirl Zhang Liangying", and for a time, Huang Jianxiang became the target of public criticism, accusing and discussing drowning him like a meteor shower. He couldn't argue, silently chewing on the pain. In fact, he and Zhang Liangying are just very ordinary friends, they have only met three times in total, but he has expressed his liking for Zhang Liangying's songs in public, and that's all. In the face of a pair of skeptical eyes, Huang Jianxiang finally stood up helplessly and said bitterly in the face of the media: "Maradona once swore with his daughter's oath, I love my daughter the most, and I can also swear with my daughter: My personal life problems have no problem with Zhang Liangying!" ”
But this is a one-sided statement after all, and not many people believe it. Just when Huang Jianxiang was in a bad mood, Sun Ying stood up righteously and said frankly: "My breakup with Huang Jianxiang is that there is a problem with the feelings between the two of us, and it has nothing to do with any outsiders." In this way, the rumors gradually subsided. Huang Jianxiang is no longer chased and blocked by the media, and he is very grateful to Sun Ying.
Separated, Huang Jianxiang and Sun Ying did not look like enemies, after all, they had once loved each other, after all, they were still the parents of their daughters. Sun Ying can come to visit her daughter at any time, Huang Jianxiang and she often communicate about the growth and education of their children, without the relationship between husband and wife, their exchanges are more frank and sincere, and some issues that were previously debated can now quickly reach a consensus.
His daughter is by his side every day, and Huang Jianxiang knows that Sun Ying, who used to live with her daughter, has now left her daughter and must be very disappointed in her heart. He took many photos of his daughter and gave them to Sun Ying, who posted them on the wall, hung them on the windshield of the car, and placed them on the desk of the unit. Even if her daughter is not around, she can always see her sweet smile. Huang Jianxiang's heart is really careful, and he thinks really thoughtfully!
Sometimes the daughter plays late at Sun Ying's side and spends the night there, and Huang Jianxiang has no opinion. One Sunday night, her daughter was staying at Sun Ying's house, and late at night she suddenly had a high fever, and Sun Ying called Huang Jianxiang in a hurry, and Huang Jianxiang rushed to drive over and took her daughter to the hospital. If in the past, Huang Jianxiang would definitely complain about why Sun Ying did not take care of the child carefully, and now he did not complain a word, but said understandingly: "Children of this age love colds, and we all have to be careful." Huang Jianxiang's words made Sun Ying have a taste in her heart...
Huang Jianxiang and Sun Ying are still friends, and perhaps too familiar with them before, she never watched the sports programs hosted by Huang Jianxiang, and now that her role has changed, she can sit down, quietly watch Huang Jianxiang's commentary, and express her opinion from the perspective of a friend. Huang Jianxiang often travels on business, and he is not at ease to let the nanny take care of his daughter, and he will send her daughter to Sun Ying. Every time he saw Huang Jianxiang and his daughter inseparable, Sun Ying told him: "You can go with confidence, Jiabao is also my daughter, won't I take good care of it?" ”
Huang Jianxiang once said to Sun Ying seriously: "If you have any difficulties, you must tell me, I will do my best to help you." In April 2006, Sun Ying moved to a new residence, Huang Jianxiang took his daughter to help, he was again arranging vehicles, and beckoning people to move furniture, busy sweating. Sun Ying was very impressed.
When she was with Sun Ying, Sun Ying and her daughter were the two most important women in Huang Jianxiang's life. Now, her daughter has become Huang Jianxiang's spiritual pillar, and when she thinks of her daughter, Huang Jianxiang's heart is warm and melting. I remember in the autumn of 2004, Huang Jianxiang had acute appendicitis, the first night of pain was difficult to sleep, the father took care of him at home, the daughter saw her grandfather giving him a massage, she also ran over, stretched out a chubby little hand, gently pressed on Huang Jianxiang's stomach, and tilted her head to ask: "Daddy, is it still painful?" Grandpa teased her, "If you blow with your mouth, Daddy won't hurt." The daughter really puffed up her mouth and blew Huang Jianxiang at once. Looking at her daughter's serious look, that kind of blood-linked flesh and blood love made Huang Jianxiang's tears flutter and fall...
Now that her daughter is only 4 years old, she has not given her a complete home, and whenever she thinks of this, Huang Jianxiang is very sad, and he is ashamed of his daughter! He consulted with Sun Ying and temporarily hid it from his daughter, and when she slowly grew up and understood the truth of the world, he would tell her again. Sun Ying could appreciate Huang Jianxiang's good intentions and agreed.
In the early morning of June 27, 2006, while explaining the knockout match between Italy and Australia, Huang Jianxiang mixed too many personal feelings for the Italian team, resulting in "loss of voice, disorder, and gaffe", which was attacked by the media and fans. For a time, the wind and rain were shaky, accusations and criticisms overwhelmed Huang Jianxiang, Huang Jianxiang was under great psychological pressure, and he did not sleep well all night and restlessly. At this time, Sun Ying sent him a text message: "Didn't you survive the 2001 blame Milu incident?" I'm sure you'll survive this time. "You're a man, and this frustration can't overwhelm you."
These text messages still can't let Huang Jianxiang feel relieved, and Sun Ying sent a text message to Huang Jianxiang in the name of her daughter: "Dad, I believe you are the best, for me, you must be strong!" My daughter's words poked at Huang Jianxiang's weak ribs, yes, for my daughter, even if there is a big storm, I must be strong to survive. I want my daughter to know that in her eyes, Daddy is always the best, always her towering tree to shield her from the wind and rain! In the semi-finals and finals since then, Huang Jianxiang has completed the interpretation task well.
In November 2006, Huang Jianxiang officially left CCTV, where he had worked for many years, and soon joined Phoenix TV. For the first time, he talked about his grudge with his ex-wife: "We don't have the opportunity to hold hands for a lifetime, but we can become friends and relatives." The years I have walked with her, I have had, I have been happy, and every bit of it I will collect in my heart and taste it for a lifetime..."
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