If you want to choose a poet to be your husband? Who would you choose?
99% of the people will choose: Naran Rongruo.
If you want to choose a poet as a friend? Who would you choose?
99% of people will not choose: Naran Rongruo.
Everyone knows Nalan Rongruo's affection for his wife Lu Shi, but what few people know is that Nalan Rongruo treats his friends with the same affection.
After Nalan Rongruo got acquainted with Gu Zhenguan, he wrote a poem, which became Nalan's famous work, and the affection in it was not inferior to love.
This song that made Nalan famous is "Golden Wisp Song Gift Liang Fen".
"Golden Wisp Song Gift Liang Fen"
De also has a wild ear. By chance, the dust of the capital country, Wuyi Mendi. If there is wine poured only on the soil of Zhao Zhou, who will become born with this intention. If you don't believe in the Word, you become a confidant. The blue eyes sang and sang before they were old, and they wiped the tears of the hero in front of him. The moon is like water.
The co-ruler must be intoxicated this night. And by him, the moth eyebrow rumors, ancient and modern taboo. He asked in a leisurely way, sneering and ignoring it. Think about it and regret it from scratch. A thousand disasters in a day's heart, the back of the body, fear of his life. Ranno heavy, Junsu ji.
Liang Fen: It is Gu Zhenguan's word.
Gu Zhenguan was a lifelong friend of Nalan Rongruo.
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At first sight, we became close friends
In the fifteenth year of the Qing Kangxi Dynasty, in 1676 AD, Gu Zhenguan became acquainted with Nalan Rongruo, at this time, Gu Zhenguan was 39 years old, and Nalan Rongruo was 21 years old.
When we first met, Naran was particularly excited!
Within a few days of the two acquaintances, Nalan wrote this "Golden Wisp Song" and gave it to Gu Zhenguan.
Unlike Naran's poignant eulogy, the Golden Wisp is generous.
The opening sentence "De is also born wildly" makes people feel a sense of distance, and Nalan thinks of himself as "crazy life", that is, he wants to eliminate Gu Zhenguan's concerns about his identity.
As we all know, Nalan Rongruo was born into the imperial family, his father was a prominent courtier, mingzhu, and his mother was the daughter of the British prince Azig, so naran was still a cousin of Kangxi.
He eagerly wanted to tell Gu Zhenguan: I am a crazy student, don't distance yourself from me because of my origin.
Because I care too much, I have concerns.
Some people will gossip, so what, Naran, regardless of gossip, he said: No matter what difficulties we encounter, our friendship continues. This fate of the second half of life may not be made up until the next life.
What kind of friendship makes Naran Rongruo say that he will continue in the next life?
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Make friends with all your heart and entrust the collection of words
When Gu Zhenguan and Nalan Rongruo were friends, one was 39 years old and the other was 21 years old.
The age gap of 18 years, the gap between the Manchu and Han ethnic groups, and the huge gap in life status did not prevent them from knowing each other.
True friendship is not about age, not about identity, not about nobility, but about whether we know each other.
Both of them are good at literature and poetry, and naran mansion is often full of guests, but Nalan and Gu Zhenguan have the best relationship.
How good are the two? After ten days of not seeing it, I want to panic.
Whenever Gu Zhenguan went to Nalan Rongruo's house and went upstairs, Nalan removed the ladder and did not let him go, talking about the setting sun every time.
Nalan Rongruo once brought his son to Gu Zhenguan and said to Gu Zhenguan: My son is your nephew.
He took Gu Zhenguan's hand and said to his son: Child, this is your uncle.
In our tradition, only if you are treated as a relative will your family be introduced to you.
Nalan already regarded Gu Zhenguan as a relative who was closer than his brother.
For a word person, the most important thing is his own vocabulary.
Nalan gave his collection of words to Gu Zhenguan and asked him to publish it. For a person who regards literature as his life, this exhortation cannot be described as solemn.
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Make friends and rescue Wu Zhaoqian
When he befriended Nalan, Gu Zhenguan always had a heart disease, that is, Wu Zhaoqian.
Gu Zhenguan and Wu Zhaoqian are both wujiang celebrities, and the two are close friends.
Later, Wu Zhaoqian was involved in the Jiangnan scientific expedition, and the whole family was sent to Ninggu pagoda, where Gu Zhenguan promised to rescue Wu Zhaoqian and promised that "the season will return".
But nineteen years have passed, but there is still no progress.
After Gu Zhenguan befriended Nalan Rongruo, he begged Nalan Rongruo to help him, but, given the huge political risks involved, and Nalan Rongruo did not know Wu Zhaoqian, he did not agree at first.
The following year, Gu Zhenguan wrote the "Two Golden Songs" at the Thousand Buddhas Temple in Beijing and sent them to Wu Zhaoqian.
A sentence of "I have drifted for a long time!" In the past ten years, the life has been exhausted, and the teacher and friend have died. "Deeply moved.
Nalan Rongruo, who read the "Second Song of the Golden Wisp Song", burst into tears, and he immediately promised Gu Zhenguan to give him ten years to rescue Wu Zhaoqian and return.
Previously, Nalan Rongruo had never seen Wu Zhaoqian, but he agreed to rescue him by trusting Gu Zhenguan.
Just because of trusting friends, Naran Rongruo made a promise of a thousand gold!
With the help of Nalan Rongruo's father and son, five years later, Wu Zhaoqian finally returned from Saiwai, shocking the literary circles at that time, and Nalan Rongruo was praised by celebrities for a while.
For friends, Naran wears liver and guts, trusts with all his heart, and pays the ultimate affection, which is not inferior to love.
Since ancient times, "deep love does not live, and wisdom will hurt.".
Nalan Rongruo, who was very affectionate and righteous, only lived for 30 years and then passed away unexpectedly.
Gu Zhenguan, who was deeply sad, returned to his hometown the following year, and it is said that he often saw Nalan in his dreams and was reluctant to leave.
After 29 years, Gu Zhenguan also drove to the west of the crane, and in heaven, this pair of friends finally met again.
Having a lover like Naran Rongruo is happiness;
Having a friend like Naran Rongruo is also a blessing in life.
The most rare thing in the world is a true friend, if you also have a friend like Nalan Rongruo, please cherish it.