It is said that children are the crystallization of parental love, but also the treasure in the palm of parents' hands, but in real life, not every child is a treasure in the palm of parents' hands, some parents abandon their children for some reasons, and live the life they want outside, but they forget that children also need the care and care of parents, and children need the company of parents.
Personally, I feel that since I chose to give birth to a child, I should fulfill the responsibility and obligation of fatherhood and motherhood. If you are not mentally prepared to be a parent, don't give birth to innocent children, and it is really cruel for children to have children without raising them.
Twenty years ago, Brother Shen was introduced to Cai Ling (pseudonym), the two met soon after they got married in a hurry, and after marriage, the relationship between Brother Shen and Cai Ling became better and better, and soon Cai Ling became pregnant. After pregnancy, Cai Ling did not go out to work, but raised a fetus at home, during pregnancy, Shen Brother has been carefully taking care of Cai Ling and the child in her belly, a few months later Cai Ling gave birth to a boy safely, and then the couple gave their son a nice name Shen Jinsong (pseudonym), they hope that the child can grow up healthy and happy.
Because of the birth of Jinsong, the family lived happily together, but with the passage of time, Jinsong's mother was tired of life in the countryside, because Jinsong's family lived in the countryside and the family was not very well off. Subsequently, Cai Ling and Brother Shen often quarreled over some small things, and after a quarrel, Cai Ling left Brother Shen and her son Jin Song and left, when Jin Song was only four or five years old.
Since then, Jin Song has never seen his mother again, and since then he and his father have been dependent on each other, because he does not want his father to worry, so he has never mentioned his mother in front of his father, even if he thinks about his mother no matter what, he has never mentioned his mother in his heart. In the year of Jinsong's graduation from high school, he was excited to become a soldier, but during the enlistment physical examination, he found that he had a tumor on his kidney.
Later diagnosed as kidney cancer, and then the tumor was removed, after a period of treatment and recuperation, Jinsong's condition was slowly controlled and stabilized, but still need to continue treatment and take medication control, a course of treatment requires about 40,000 or 50,000 costs, and this cost has also become a heart disease of Jinsong. After being admitted to college, Jin Song, because of the poor economic conditions at home, slowly he began to stop the drug, in order to reduce the burden on the family, he concealed his family from work-study, and finally because of overwork, the illness recurred and then he was hospitalized again.
Because the tumor of kidney cancer compresses the nerves, resulting in paralysis of the lower limbs, after the doctor examines the bones, it is found that the cancer cells have metastasized, and the metastasis is very serious, and Jinsong also has pathological fractures, and surgery can not solve the problem for him, he can only rely on drugs to maintain life. In Jin Song's mind, his illness may have counted down, but his only wish is to see his mother for the last time.
Then the reporter decided to help Jin Song fulfill his last wish, when the reporter asked Brother Shen how he knew Jin Song's mother, Brother Shen told the reporter that he introduced his wife through his wife's big brother, but since his wife left home, he had not contacted Jin Song's big brother, and after some searching, finally Shen Big Brother found Jin Song's uncle.
When the reporter told his uncle JinSong about the situation, Jinsong's uncle promised to help contact Jinsong's mother, and more than twenty minutes later, Jinsong's uncle sent Jinsong's mother's phone number and WeChat, and Jinsong quickly added his mother and video chatted with his mother. As soon as the video was connected, Jin Song immediately told his mother that he wanted to see his mother's last face, and then Jin Song's mother cried and said that she was now married to Yunnan and had a new family.
For Jin Song's request to see him for the last time, Jin Song's mother cried and said that she really couldn't do anything, because the journey was long, it took several days by car, it was very inconvenient for her to go to see Jin Song, no matter how hard Jin Song begged, his mother refused to come to see him for the last time, and finally Jin Song's mother said directly to Jin Song, you will die when I die, and then hang up the phone.
Jin Song helplessly shed tears, in order to help Jin Song fulfill his wish, and then the reporter called Jin Song's mother de phone again, and informed Jin Song of his current physical condition, at the same time, the reporter said that if Jin Song's mother is willing to come to see Jin Song, they are willing to pay for Jin Song's mother to buy a plane ticket, Jin Song's mother back and forth all the cost of the reporter they are all inclusive.
But Jinsong's mother still said that she already had a new family, she did not want to affect her current family because of Jinsong, no matter what, she would not come to see Jinsong, she let everyone think that she was dead, she did not want to be disturbed, helpless reporter had to hang up the phone.
The reporter and Brother Shen were very distressed about Jin Song, and they kept comforting Jin Song, but Jin Song cried sadly, and he couldn't figure out why his mother couldn't help him realize such a small wish. At this time, Brother Shen was also a little overwhelmed, he did not want to blame his wife, he had to silently comfort his son.
PS Xiao said: Jin Song's experience makes people sigh, and I can't understand why Jin Song's mother can so resolutely refuse to live her son in the countdown. I think that whether I already have a new family, after all, Jin Song is also a child born in october, not to mention that she abandoned her young Jin Song at that time, did she not feel ashamed of her son at all?
A nineteen-year-old child, spending the same age, not to say that it is his own son, even if a stranger begs for help, if he can, he should help, let alone the other party is his own son. Even if you already have a family, I believe that if you tell your current husband truthfully, I believe that the other party will understand, after all, he is also a father, and he should be able to understand Jin Song's feelings.
When I finished watching this video, my eyes suddenly became moist because I was also a mother, and when I heard Jinsong's mother say that because of the long distance, it was inconvenient for me to come and meet him in the car for several days, and finally let Jinsong when she died, I was heartbroken. No reason is an excuse not to come to see the last side of your son, so why can't you bear to let your son leave regrets? I wonder how hard it must be to reject my son's pleas so much.
Here I hope that Jinsong's condition has a miracle, no matter what, in the future, forget this mother who has not raised herself, has not given her mother's love, and live the rest of her life well, just when the mother and son of her mother and son have exhausted, live well, live strongly, and finally wish Jinsong to overcome the disease as soon as possible and recover as soon as possible!
Text/Huang Xiaogui
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