Dao Lang is a well-known singer, representative works include "The First Snow of 2002", "Love is You and Me", etc., he is still good in his career, but his emotional life is not smooth. His ex-wife divorced him because he did not have any breakthrough in his career, and after Dao lang became famous, he wanted to reunite with Dao Lang, and Dao Lang wrote a song, what is it?
The name of this song is "Impulsive Punishment"
After knowing her intentions, Dao Lang wrote a song called "Impulsive Punishment". The lyrics express Dao Lang's voice. That night I was drunk and took your hand and talked nonsense. It is about the process of two people meeting each other, young men, meeting a girl who is heartbroken, which is such a performance.
When Dao Lang and his ex-wife Yang Na met, Yang Na's outstanding temperament deeply attracted Dao Lang. Yang Na's family is very well-off, learning to dance, and the elegant temperament on her body makes Daolang, who is still drifting north, feel moved. He knew the difference between the two people, but Yang Na didn't care, she liked his talent.
The two people were attracted to each other, and Dao Lang felt that it was time to confess, how a poor boy could confess, cover his face with wine, and if he was rejected, he could also cover up the past with drunkenness. So he was talking nonsense, and his intoxicated eyes could no longer see Yang Na's expression.
He also put her hand in the palm of his hand, mistakenly feeling that Yang Na was not angry, this was the expression of their love at that time, and it was also the good time before they were together, which was the aftertaste of their good feelings for Dao Lang.
After getting married, they have no distance, no longer admired from a distance, but chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea. In this process, Yang Na's feelings for Daolang are no longer what she imagined, and after giving birth to her daughter, the family's situation has not changed.
Dao Lang was still that very poor boy, and Yang Na felt that such a life was not what she wanted. This may also be the reason why she has lived a superior life since she was a child. A girl with a rich life, who can marry a grounded young man, is very courageous in herself.
This courage was still defeated by the reality of life. She doesn't want to live like this, which is what we often say: from luxury to frugality. Who wouldn't want to live a richer life? Who doesn't want to have to worry about food and clothing? Who wouldn't want to buy what they want? However, Dao Lang's income was not enough to support these, and Yang Na wanted to give up.
Not because I don't love anymore, but because the poor couple is sad. What is defeated by life is not feelings, but poverty. Until the moment you turned away, gradually sobered up, how you treated feelings in your heart, until now you have not mentioned it to me. This is also a description of Daolang's state of mind.
After Yang Na left, Dao Lang desperately searched for her, but he never found her. A man who wants you to find it is too simple. Dao Lang did not believe that the person who had been with him for so long did not leave a word, and left like this, without taking his own child.
Dao Lang felt incredible, he felt that this was a joke at all, so he was sad. A man with a child to work hard, the hardships of this, many people can not understand. And, it wasn't his fault. At that time, his talent was not discovered.
With the masterpiece Dao Lang, with his voice to show his talent, his talent was gradually recognized, everyone felt that his voice was very characteristic, and it was easy to identify, for a while, his songs spread throughout the streets. Dao Lang's vicissitudes of voice give everyone a spiritual impact.
During those times, Dao Lang had a person by his side, and she was Zhu Mei. After Dao Lang succeeded, Yang Na came back, she wanted to reunite with Dao Lang, Dao Lang could not accept her, one of the reasons is that the relationship between the two people is already in the past tense.
Dao Lang is a person who is very serious about feelings, he is in the most difficult time, it is Zhu Mei who accompanies him, he has achieved fame, and he is naturally willing to share with Zhu Mei. If you look back, it will hurt Zhu Mei. Therefore, he wrote this song to tell Yang Na: impulsiveness comes at a price.
Second, he wrote this song with good intentions of persuasion
Dao Lang wrote this song to tell Yang Na that impulsive punishment is like this. Thinking of you, I won't be so heartbroken, just forget you, I should forget you, this is what Daolang said to Yang Na. It may also be these words that let Yang Na know that they are no longer them.
Yang Na left Daolang, and Ben was beyond reproach. Because she couldn't stand the poor life, after all, her previous life was very different from the life with Dao Lang. Some people say that Yang Na is material, that is to blame others from the height of morality. If you don't experience human suffering, please don't persuade people to be kind.
Without Yang Na's experience, please do not comment. Yang Na was able to be with Dao Lang and give birth to a child for her, indicating that Yang Na really loved Dao Lang at that time and left because of the compulsion of life. Some people say that Zhu Mei insisted, why can't she? This comparison is moral kidnapping!
For example, my colleague has lived a privileged life since he was a child and never worries about money. She's now about the same salary as me, and she has kids, but moonlight. Buying a house and a car, never worry, because the family has money. But I'm going to have to scramble to get by because I'm going to pay off my mortgage and car loan. She once said: If she lived like me, she would die of resignation because she did not fit in. That is the reality.
Dao Lang still has feelings for Yang Na, and this feeling is family affection, not love. He wrote a song called "The Child Her Mother." There were lyrics that time you went away I was really scared, I was in tears ah you know? To be able to write such lyrics is a heart-wrenching experience.
In this song, he said how Yang Na felt after leaving at that time, not only fearful, but also hoping that the child would have a mother, but he struggled to keep it to no avail, yang Na still left. Leaving the home she once loved.
Dao Lang said, "I love you, you know it, we've been living for a few years, do I make you sad in the middle?" These are all the expressions of Dao Lang's feelings for Yang Na, and it is through this song that he told Yang Na that through these years of experience, he did not put it down, and what he did not put down was not Yang Na, but doubts.
His feelings for Yang Na no longer exist, but she is the mother of the child, and he will not be so desperate. In ancient times, there were examples of water cover and difficult to harvest, and he used "Impulsive Punishment" to tell Yang Na that many things should not be regretted if you do it. Use Child to tell Yang Na that those years were not easy, but he survived.
He wouldn't look back, and he wouldn't give up on Jumei just because she came back to see the child. Zhu Mei is the person who accompanied him all the way, and their feelings are stronger than Jin's. Yang Na is not a diamond drill, can not cut off his relationship with Zhu Mei, but also want to tell Yang Na through the song, you let go.
He wrote this song to say goodbye to the past
The feelings between him and Yang Na dissipated over time. From Child, you can see that Dao Lang's suffering during that time also knows his efforts after that. It is also because of Yang Na that he has stepped up his efforts and written a lot of popular songs.
After the album's big hit, he also had the strength to face the previous Yang Na. It is no longer a bitter plea, but an expression of song, an expression of love for the past. It is also because of Yang Na that he will be more persistent, insistent on writing songs, and use songs to make himself fire.
Some people say that there is no dispute over steamed buns, and Daolang also thinks so. After Yang Na left, he handed over the child to his parents and went out to work on his own. In the process of singing, he met Zhu Mei, who accompanied him through spring, autumn, winter and summer.
Zhu Mei has great confidence in Daolang, thinking that he can be a star, although they are not rich in life, but together, they have found the joy and meaning of life, Daolang is very content.
The feelings of the two people are getting better and better. Zhu Mei's career is good, but in order to support him, he can sacrifice his career. In the face of Zhu Mei, Dao Lang cherished the affection of the two people even more, and he would not turn back again, because good horses do not eat back grass.
Some people say that talent is hungry. Dao Lang's talent is not like this, he polished a little bit with strength, injected feelings into the song, and concentrated the hearts of many people.
With Zhu Mei's support, he wrote "The Punishment of Impulse". In the lyrics, he expressed his affection for the past: If it weren't for God letting fate trick me, I wouldn't be so heartbroken when I thought of you. Also expressed determination about the past: forget you.
Past feelings, just pass. Forgetting is the best way, forgetting is not a punishment for her, but to let yourself go. Don't let yourself get entangled in the past, but also give yourself the ability to look forward. Dao Lang not only wrote this in Impulsive Punishment, but also in Child.
For the sake of our home, the child and her mother, you still have to come back. What a sincere call it was, this was Dao Lang's ardent expectation of Yang Na at that time, but he didn't see Yang Na's figure. Some people say that it may be that Yang Na's parents will not let her go back.
Yang Na did not go back, it was a fact. No matter what the reason, at that time, do not go back, wait until Dao Lang succeeds and then go back, people can go back, but the feelings can not go back. Dao Lang uses songs to commemorate the past, and also uses songs to express wishes. Some people said that Daolang was declaring war on Yang Na and telling her not to come and mess with him.
This interpretation is also possible, but it feels like Daolang is not the kind of aggressive person. Only people with soft hearts can write such good songs. He wrote "West Sea Love Song", "Love is You and Me", etc., are full of feelings, if the feelings are not strong, can not write.
People with such feelings will not be so aggressive. Dao Lang just uses songs to say goodbye to the past, whether it is the past time or the feelings of the past. Yang Na probably knew it too, and didn't pestering Dao Lang anymore. The past of the two people really went with the wind.
Toast to the past, treat the past as a hangover, tomorrow's wine glass, don't have to carry yesterday's sadness. Dao Lang did not, and I hope Yang Na did not. Anyway, two people have had a relationship, used to reminisce, it will be better.
Write at the end:
Everyone's circumstances are different, everyone's experience is different, and they may not think about how much will change after many years. Yang Na would not have thought that many years later, Daolang would become famous. Dao Lang would not have thought that Yang Na's departure would promote his fame.
Two people's past, they reminisce. We look at such stories, look at our own people in front of us, and should cherish them. They are your own treasure, don't let go because you don't see the future. Perhaps, after letting go, people succeed and you become a thing of the past. What do you think?