One:
Whether in love or marriage, there is no absolute possibility of two people being conserved and equal, either the west wind overwhelms the east wind, or the east wind overwhelms the west wind, which is a natural phenomenon.
In love, the deeper one sinks, the more humble it is likely to become. Because that person's heart is moved, he will take out more love to connive and close to the other party, and at the same time, he is afraid that the other party will leave, and can only always accommodate and endure.
The boy Xiaobai met his current girlfriend Lin Shasha through the introduction of relatives, and the first time he saw her, he fell in love with this beautiful- and cheerful girl. Xiao Bai is a cute and shy big boy, and Lin Shasha, who has never seen this type of boy, is also attracted to Xiao Bai.
What you think of as love at first sight is just a different experience in the eyes of others.
After establishing a relationship, the two people naturally lived together. When the two are so close every day, when the distance beauty and hazy beauty are slowly fading, various problems gradually appear. But the silly boy who falls in love thinks that as long as he pays more, he proves that he loves more, and the other party will spoil himself in the same way.
He is more and more inseparable from Lin Shasha, while his girlfriend thinks more and more that the two sides are inappropriate, he does not like boys without a career, and thinks: Xiao Bai is too stupid, there is no good-looking skin bag, and there is no economy.
Therefore, today I dislike Xiao Bai has extra meat, tomorrow I hate him to influence himself to go out to play, and the day after tomorrow he says that he is not careful in doing things, anyway, it is all kinds of dislike and picking faults.
And Xiao Bai is desperately losing weight for his beloved girlfriend, not eating at night is his normal, hungry stomach grunting, originally there was no very fat him, hard thin into ribs; in order to make his girlfriend not abandoned, and then miss her to endure not to call her, all the difficulties are also carried by themselves...
But eventually they broke up, and the woman's reason was: you have changed, you have become no longer cute, I don't know you, and we have become unable to be together. As a man, Xiao Bai cried, paid so much for you, accommodated you, and did not expect to end up in this fate.
Two:
Throwing yourself away, so that the other party will not leave, constantly trying to change yourself, this is the kneeling and licking behavior in love.
I remember someone said: I know very well and clearly what I look like in ta's eyes, what is not cute, through this machine I may have ta, but I lost myself.
The sadness in love is to let yourself change according to the ideal appearance of the beloved, but in the end she abandons you. At this time, you must think: Did she really love you when we were together? Or do you just want to have a different experience? Is it worth it?
Girls or boys, to have self-respect and self-love, have to admit that in life: no one likes a person as humble as the next person.
You are endlessly trying to please, and she will think that you are born with such a humble appearance, annoying.
You give sincerely, in her opinion you are just a brainless "stupid fork".
You have no bottom line to pander, she will think that you are born like this, no opinion but promise.
The most unfair pay in the world is love. The more you give, the more suffering you get back, the more pain you have, and the more disappointment you have. Your affection and dedication. Can touch the earth, can move the heavens, can not move her alone.
The contest of love is invisible, and only equal strength can be maintained for a long time.
Do not lower your own standards without a bottom line, ignore your own requirements, and exchange endless flattery for each other's extravagant expectations, the consequences of this are nothing more than a bamboo basket to hit the water.
Only if you don't look down on yourself, others will cherish yourself.