What if you do a survey: Has your circle of friends (ever) blocked an object? The affirmative answer is expected to be more than half.
"Blocking? I was directly blacklisted. At the mention of this, Xiaomei was still indignant.
"Don't give an explanation, don't give a chance to maneuver?"
"I gave him a chance, but he didn't use it, he didn't know how to grasp it, so angry that I could only come to a cold violence."
"And later?"
"Later... He entrusted me with girlfriends and thin mud, personally came over to give gifts to apologize, I was discouraged, and reconciled as before. Xiao Mei laughed, "This is not the first time between the two of us, the most excessive thing is that once he actually learned Murong Fu's 'give back to the other person in the other way' and blacked me out, that time we had no contact for two months, and then 'unintentionally' met before we reopened the knot." ”
"Fighting is kissing, arguing is love, noisy and noisy talking about love!" Yu Juan joked on the side.
"Don't you schadenfreude and make fun of me, who in the circle of friends complained last time, shielding their in-laws and sisters-in-law?" Xiao Mei did not spare, "You have not done such a thing." ”
Seeing me smiling secretly on the side, Xiaomei turned her spearhead to me, "Now there are so many goods and advertisements in the circle of friends; so many shows of love, shows a beautiful life and shows off wealth; so many forwarding chicken soup for the soul... It's annoying every day, don't you block others? ”
"Yes, yes." I'll be honest.
"Yes, everyone has a side or secret that they don't want someone or someone to know, everyone has a particularly disgusting or defensive object, everyone has a scar that they don't want to touch, or shield or block, which is not unusual." 」
Of course, the last time I went to Shanghai for business, because the customer's temporary itinerary changed, thinking that it was a waste to wait for a day, I went to the surrounding Zhejiang Jiashan Xitang Ancient Town to turn around, and when I sent a circle of friends, I habitually blocked the group of leaders and colleagues. I was supposed to be in the client's office, but now I am wandering around the mountains and rivers, wandering across provinces, and I am seen by my leading colleagues. What do the ducks think? How do you face Jiangdong's father and elder when you come back?
Besides, we block or block others, and others have the same power. Although my ex-girlfriend is still in my social software contacts, usually we have neither passed the phone, nor talked about WeChat, only seen each other's limited circle of friends, there is no doubt that I was deliberately blocked by people. We are self-aware of this, the most decent farewell between adults is not to disturb each other, if you really care about a person, it is likely that the final payment can only be silently turned away.
The most difficult to understand is that the circle of friends of colleague Zhang Xiaoyang actually blocked his parents, "I don't want them to worry about the life of my worker." To this, he explains.
"It's because I'm worried that my parents know that you play games and drink a lot of wine every day and live a life without shame!" Old Ma said that he had broken the truth.
"Tell the truth." Zhang Xiaoyang himself laughed.
How I hope that people can open their hearts to each other, there is no such estrangement and defense, but sometimes shielding is not a passive and helpless choice? Not to disturb is also a courtesy and respect.