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In "Mother-in-law and Mother", the pair of Huang Bojun and Hou Peichen is really embarrassing to watch: the former exists like a prop, just to avoid mistakes, in addition to nervousness, or nervousness.
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In the episode of the order, Ms. Hou and her mother obviously had already thought about what to eat, but they did not say, let Mr. Huang arrange, they sat on the sofa, giving you an abyss-like gaze. Mr. Huang, who was stared at, placed an order in a daze.
But Ms. Hou took it to check and found that there was no soup, so she complained: "I have always explicitly implied that I want to drink soup, but there is still no soup." Mr. Huang hurriedly ordered a hot drink instead. And in the process of panicking, I made a mistake in the address where the food was delivered.
Ms. Hou and her mother just sat there and whispered the whole time, watching Mr. Huang busy alone, singing a one-man show.
Ms. Hou is not satisfied with her husband, Mr. Huang put the slippers randomly, talking unreasonablely, but did not dare to point out the other party's wrongs too clearly, only with the help of his mother's opportunity, a good tuning:
When his mother volunteered to give Mr. Huang a gua sha, he obviously had too much pain to do so, but Mr. Huang did not dare to move, not even to shout in pain. At this time, Ms. Hou, because Mr. Huang did not behave very comfortable, asked him for a question: "My mother is in her 70s, why can't you be enthusiastic?" "Ms. Hou, who has always been sweet and decent, is like a stern teacher in front of Mr. Huang, and even his breathing can be picked up.
And it is like a scum who has been disciplined, the more he is trained, the more he is a promise, he is afraid of doing something wrong, and the result is still wrong.
Ms. Hou always obeyed her mother, and even married someone her mother thought was good in order to make her happy. And his husband, Mr. Huang, did not know whether it was really "good temper" or "cold violence", feeling that he had never paid attention to Madam Hou, and the state of the person was wandering.
The two have lived together for ten years, and Mr. Huang can't answer "What is the wife's mantra?" And the beautiful anchor-waiting is not a taciturn person. When answering "What shoes did my wife wear yesterday?", Mr. Huang answered incorrectly.
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On the other hand, the relationship between Mr. Huang and Ms. Hou's mother, Lin Yueyun, is very harmonious. Mother Lin called Mr. Huang a "little beggar", and Mr. Huang was also very attentive to Mother Lin: people who can get the wrong order address can carefully arrange shoes for Mother Lin and remember each other's tastes. What is shocking is that in a photo of three people walking together by netizens, Mr. Huang and Mother Lin held hands and walked together, as if Ms. Hou was an outsider.
In the program, when there was an earthquake forecast, Mr. Huang came to the room of Mother Lin's mother and daughter for the first time and asked: "Is it okay?" Mother Lin said naturally: "Son, you performed great today, I love you." "The intimacy between the mother-in-law and the son-in-law is so close that it is really uncomfortable."
Mother Lin also mentioned in the show that once when the two children quarreled, Mr. Huang called himself, and she did not tell Ms. Hou, "because I think it is a matter between the two of us (mother-in-law and son-in-law). ”
Maybe in Mr. Huang's eyes, if he gets Mama Lin, he can also get Ms. Hou, so he is more willing to put Mama Lin on his heart. As for Ms. Hou, it is also a dispensable existence.
Before Ms. Hou entered the marriage, she was the "white moonlight" in everyone's mind, no matter what occasion she attended, she was gentle and lovely, full of smiles, and made people feel like a spring breeze.
However, why does Ms. Hou who appears in this show make people feel a kind of meanness, especially when Mr. Huang is in the same frame, there is always a kind of impatience that cannot be concealed, and a kind of anxiety that is not satisfied. With his husband, Mr. Huang has no tacit understanding to speak of, and is always complaining. When she saw other couples getting along like a hot love, it was even more difficult to hide her inner loss.
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Mr. Huang is the son-in-law of Mother Lin's favor, and Ms. Hou listens to Mother Lin's words. At the beginning, the two had only known each other for a few months, and Mr. Huang proposed to Ms. Hou, and Ms. Hou asked Mother Lin if she wanted to say okay? Mother Lin's answer was, "So what?" ”
Time has changed. In this show, when the mother and daughter were chatting on the sofa, Ms. Hou suddenly asked: "Why did you make Huang Bojun at that time?" It was a faint cry for help from the depths of her heart.
Mother Lin means Mr. Huang because he has a kind of "goodness", which is impossible for other "big men", and his economic ability is not bad, and he is practical and obedient, which is undoubtedly the most secure and comfortable. Because they are not short of money, and they do not need to marry into the rich to see people's faces. But sadly, this is only the position of Mother Lin, the happiness she herself wants, not what her own daughter, Ms. Hou, wants.
When Ms. Hou spat on Mr. Huang, her eyes were fierce, but the content was that her husband did not care: "I think he is a 'crayfish'." The reason is that when I ask him questions, he is 'deaf'; when I'm angry, he's 'blind'; I really give him all the explicit hints that he will never react, and then I think there is something wrong with his ears. ”
This is the truest state of getting along between Mr. Huang and Ms. Hou. And Mother Lin's comment is also, you chickens and ducks have been talking for ten years.
As for the lady-in-waiting who has realized that her marriage is in trouble and strives for perfection in everything, why did she still come to this show? In addition to remuneration, there is also a point, that is, the mother and daughter have joined forces again to put pressure on Mr. Huang and add some chips to their own people.
However, Mr. Huang was a little confused, and the "performance" was a bit laborious. He has discomfort, doubts, and reluctance, but he has no heart, he should do whatever he wants, he is firm in heart, never self-doubt, if he becomes sweet talk, it is more difficult than ascending to heaven.
Therefore, he could not understand Ms. Hou's entanglement and emotional needs, and chose to deliberately avoid it; and regarded Mother Lin as his mother.