At the age of 18, there were two girls who went to Tsinghua university for four years, and they became close friends in the boudoir, and they were called the most cattle girlfriends by the world.
Time flies, the most cattle girlfriends have gone abroad to study after graduation, one of them won the honor of tenured chair professor at Princeton University and returned to his alma mater to teach, stepping on the three-foot podium, while the other galloped the business sea, as a global young leader to spend money for the world's richest man.
I have to say that the two girls have each lived a wonderful life, and their various experiences on the peak of life are far more exciting than their achievements.
The two protagonists of the most cattle girlfriends, one named Yan Ning, comes from the countryside of Zhangqiu, Shandong. Although her family is not rich, her parents love and the harmonious family atmosphere have unconsciously cast a gentle background on Yan Ning's childhood.
The other protagonist, Li Yinuo, has an almost completely "upside down" life with Yan Ning. From li yinuo's memory, childhood has been accompanied by endless quarrels between parents, quarrels have hurt the feelings between parents, and finally when Li Yinuo was 12 years old, his mother took Li Yinuo out of the house, ending the long-term quarrel.
As a divorced single mother, the hard work of raising her daughter alone is not known. Because of this, Li Yinuo's mother is so strong in everything and works hard outside like a man, and this also invisibly affects Li Yinuo, making her an independent and assertive girl in everything.
As a result, the two girls, under the influence of their respective families, began a completely different childhood. Yan Ning is naïve and messy, under the protection of her parents, she is focused on learning, for her, everything in life is taken care of by her parents, she can only study hard and repay the kindness of her parents with excellent results.
Gradually, Yan Ning became a well-known school bully. In 1990, Yan Ning was admitted to Zhangqiu No. 1 Middle School with super high scores, and then easily admitted to Tsinghua University, becoming a "child of others" in the eyes of a generation of parents.
However, after entering Tsinghua University, Yan Ning suddenly found that the class was as good as a cloud, and the aura of learning that accompanied him since childhood suddenly dimmed. This made it difficult for Yan Ning to adapt for a while, desperately trying to bring up the results.
But if you want to be fast, the more anxious Yan Ning is, the worse the situation will be. She went out early and returned to the library every day, and the result was that her grades did not improve much, but she made her roommates have great opinions about her, and the relationship between the dormitories led to Yan Ning's bad mood, and it was more and more difficult to adapt to a series of new things such as new courses and new classmates.
All kinds of discomfort broke out in one midterm exam. Yan Ning, who has always been carrying a bully, felt for the first time that the exam questions made her helpless, and when the handover bell rang, Yan Ning could only look at the test papers in her hand that still had many places to be perfected, and sighed: Oops, this time I will fail for the first time in my life.
Yan Ning's worries are not entirely unreasonable. Growing up, her mother always set high standards for her. When other children are playing wildly outside, Yan Ning is often asked by her mother to study at home, even if she goes to play with other children, she has also set a strict time, and once it reaches the point, she must go home immediately.
Because of this, Yan Ning's first reaction after the examination was how to explain to her mother. Who knew that when she told her mother about her achievements, her mother did not blame her for her achievements, but cared about her body and state.
Yan Ning understood that in fact, all along, her mother's greatest wish was to hope that she could live happily. In the past, the strict teaching was to fear that she would go astray, but now the gentle comfort is the instinctive embodiment of deep maternal love.
The mother's understanding and enlightenment touched Yan Ning greatly. Yan Ning is no longer full of guilt, but regards learning as one of the joys of life. This also allowed her to calm down and make friends, so that she met a lifelong girlfriend - Li Yinuo.
The first time the two met was during the summer vacation of their freshman year. At that time, Yan Ning did not go home because of school problems, and Li Yinuo also took the initiative to stay in school to "make up" because of unsatisfactory final exam results, and the two people who did not go home met wonderfully under the arrangement of fate.
The same experience of not going home made the two of them can't help but be curious about each other and talk about their lives. Who knows, Yan Ning found that Li Yinuo's childhood experience, like the axis of symmetry of geometric figures, formed a completely different but infinitely complementary side with his childhood.
It turned out that Li Yinuo of a single-parent family did not have his parents in the palm of his hand like Yan Ning, because his mother had done her best for life, and she really did not have the extra strength to take care of Li Yinuo's little temper.
Fortunately, Li Yinuo has never been a petite woman, and life has taught her to be independent and strong. Since he was a child, Li Yinuo has been very assertive, what clothes to wear, what to do, as well as study plans and daily routines, Li Yinuo is all arranged by himself like a little adult, and there is no need for his mother to worry about it.
Of course, although Li Yinuo, who is young, has a maturity far beyond that of children of the same age, he cannot avoid occasionally "stepping on the pit". For example, once his mother asked Li Yinuo to go to a clothing store to buy clothes, but Li Yinuo wanted to save some money and insisted on buying land stalls.
After the mother listened, she didn't say much, and Li Yinuo did what she wanted. As a result, the clothes that Li Yinuo rushed to buy from the stall, just wore them a few times and broke several holes, and he really couldn't wear them again, so Li Yinuo had to buy new clothes.
What was originally intended to save money became expensive. This incident impressed Li Yinuo, and the educational effect brought by the mother's seeming "free-range" was greater than the direct opposition to Li Yinuo.
Under such a chic education, Li Yinuo became a child with early wisdom and self-discipline. When filling in the college entrance examination, Li Yinuo himself chose Tsinghua, and under the arrangement of fate, he and Yan Ning became the most bullish girlfriend in people's eyes.
The childhood of mirroring each other created a complementary personality between the two, and also prompted the two to quickly become friends who talked about everything. During college, the two took classes together, ate together, discussed exercises together, and gossiped about interesting things on campus.
Time flies, the years fly by, and the four years of college are fleeting. After graduation, Yan Ning was admitted to Princeton University in the United States, and Li Yinuo went to the University of California in the United States to continue the friendship in a foreign country.
However, what everyone did not expect was that the two people who went overseas hand in hand were completely "interchangeable" in their subsequent lives. Yan Ning, who grew up lively and outgoing and loves freedom, was fascinated by scientific research during her time at Princeton University, so she only slept 8 hours a day and devoted the rest of her time to science and technology.
With the efforts of sleeping and forgetting to eat, Yan Ning's scientific research ability has become stronger and stronger. In 2007, Yan Ning returned to his alma mater, Tsinghua University, to teach, becoming the youngest professor in the school.
While teaching and educating people, Yan Ning did not give up climbing the peak of science. In 2014, Yan Ning, who was only 37 years old, led the team to overcome the scientific problems that had not been solved in the academic community for 50 years in 6 months, and suddenly became famous all over the world.
The exciting achievement made the host of the show, Sabine, also can't help but say to Yan Ning: "You subverted my imagination of a female scientist." ”
However, Yan Ning, who has always been rigorous and more serious, said: "Why add the word 'female' in front of the scientists?" ”
Such spontaneity also makes Yan Ning a little more sassy in the face of life and work. For example, when she encountered female students participating in doctoral interviews and asked how to balance their studies and family, Yan Ning always took over the conversation at the first time, while questioning why the questioner did not ask such a question to the male student, she turned her head and gently said to the girl: "You don't have to answer this question."
When academically encountering different views, Yan Ning is always the first to speak out, regardless of whether this will cause adverse consequences to himself. In this way, the quality of the projects in which Yan Ning participated was always surprisingly high, but Yan Ning himself did not seem to have a satisfactory life.
All of this gathered into a blockbuster message in 2017. Yan Ning, who is well-known in the academic community, suddenly announced his return to teaching at Princeton University. As soon as the news came out, public opinion on the Internet boiled over, some people scolded Yan Ning's move as tantamount to "treason", and some people said that Yan Ning was ostracized and had to go away to a foreign country.
The flowers bloom in two, one on each side. When Yan Ning was doing a good job in academia, Li Yinuo, who was originally addicted to scientific research, gave up his profession and turned to McKinsey, starting a new journey from scratch.
Due to the lack of business expertise, Li Yinuo could only serve as an ordinary employee of McKinsey at the beginning, but Xueba was a xueba, Li Yinuo used his spare time to frantically make up for business knowledge, and by the way, he also went to the company to add a shift to ensure that his work was always the best among his colleagues.
With the efforts of Li Yinuo, her work ability has grown rapidly, and her position has risen like a sesame blossom, and in her sixth year of work, she has changed from a basic employee to a partner of McKinsey.
But all this is just the beginning for Li Yinuo. In 2015, Li Yinuo had a long conversation with bill Gates, the world's richest man by chance, and Bill Gates told Li Yinuo how to manage money, which greatly touched Li Yinuo's thinking.
After his return, Li Yinuo resigned from McKinsey and voluntarily took a pay cut to serve as the chief representative of the Beijing representative office of the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation, spending money on behalf of the world's richest man to help countless people in need.
In his spare time, Li Yinuo also founded a public welfare school on his own, which is specially used to help migrant children and poor children, in order to achieve educational fairness.
The pace of time is hurried, and although the most cattle girlfriend once started a completely different life after graduation, what remains unchanged is their friendship and the height of life of watching the scenery side by side.
Perhaps, the so-called most cattle girlfriends are not only the past experience of the same school bully, nor is it just the campus friendship of eating and living together, but also the proud achievements they have made in their respective fields in the past few decades of life.
Time will eventually grow old one day, but when Yan Ning and Li Yinuo suddenly look back at a certain point in their lives, they will see their former girlfriends, right next to them, and maybe they are smiling and saying to themselves: "Hello, I am."
Come to think of it, it is a happy thing to have a girlfriend like this.
Author: Liyuan Moon Night