"Emperor" Will Smith and his female star wife, Jada, can be said to be a well-deserved power superstar couple in Hollywood, but at the same time they are also one of the couples who have been rumored to be "the most open" for so many years.
Open marriages, cheating, wife swaps, developing a relationship with a friend of my son, and countless times I've been rumored to be divorced...
These rumors are true or false, but none of them are as true as shi huang and Jada's personal revelations.
Jada admitted last July that she had an affair with her son's friend.
And just recently, Will Smith was interviewed and admitted in the interview that he and his wife were no longer monogamous for a time!
He also "clarified" for his wife that Jada was not the only one to cheat, implying that he had also been unfaithful to his wife.
Even more exaggerated, he admitted that he had harem fantasies after marriage, and also made a list of who to let him be his "20 harem girlfriends", including the names of Hollywood actress Harley Berry and principal ballet dancer Misty Copeland...
Good guys, this one interview to read down, eat melon audience directly shouted: the amount of information is too large!
Halle Berry on the left and Misty Copeland on the right
In fact, anyone who has paid a little attention to this Hollywood royal family may know what a confusing family this is.
The superstar husband's scandal is full of storms in the city,
The singer's wife cheated on her son's friend,
The couple's divorce, infidelity, and open marriage rumors over the years are too numerous to count.
Son Jaden often makes all kinds of crazy X confusing speeches,
Daughter Willow openly stated that she was polyamorous and felt that the ideal relationship was to be with a man and a woman at the same time.
It is difficult to say that the daughter's concept of affection is not influenced by the mother. Because in this recent interview, Will Smith talked about his wife Jada's disbelief in traditional marriage.
And in their marriage that lasted for more than twenty years, at some point, their relationship was no longer traditional monogamous.
This may also mean that they both have extramarital affairs.
A couple, especially the most concerned and powerful power couple in Hollywood, gradually move from monogamy to non-monogamous open marriage, which is absolutely indispensable to quarrels, disagreements, neglect, compromise, sacrifice and even temptations outside the marriage.
They did.
In 1997, Will Smith and Jada married in a grand marriage.
Seemingly perfect, in fact, only one of the two protagonists of this wedding is really happy, that is, Shi Huang.
Jada, who was only 26 at the time, did not want to have a traditional wedding from the beginning, and finally agreed to just give in to her husband's pressure.
"As a young actress who is pregnant, I'm under considerable pressure and I don't know what to do."
It was the first three months she was pregnant with her son Jaden, and although the wedding was luxurious, she didn't feel comfortable being in it.
"I was very depressed and angry because I had to have a wedding."
But it was only her first compromise in this marriage.
Will Smith recognizes this, saying in an interview, "Jada has made a lot of compromises over the years, she has bitterly denied her own values, and the wedding is just the beginning of the first time." ”
She had to compromise because her husband was a hollywood superstar and a career-oriented man.
He values his acting career above all else, including her.
So as Will Smith's fame grew, Jada's state became more and more depressed, and many mornings she woke up and began to cry.
Once, she had the opportunity to have her band open for Guns N' Roses, a famous American rock band, but she refused.
Because she had to accompany her son on the set of "When Happiness Knocks" to ensure that the children and husband could continue to shoot smoothly.
Sacrificing a career for the sake of the family has never been so simple, especially for an ambitious female star, watching her husband's career take off, and she can only be the "woman behind her", and the struggle and pain may only be known to herself.
But Will Smith, for the most part, did not detach himself from the "big star" ego, but as his status increased, he became more and more accustomed to being the center of attention of all, even in his family life.
In 2011, for Jada's 40th birthday, Shi Huang spent three years carefully preparing a grand birthday party for her.
He was fairly well prepared and the party started with great excitement because he felt "Jada's 40th birthday is going to be a time for me to shine... This will cause a stir... This will be my deepest, most beautiful declaration of love. ”
He thought that Jada would be very impressed, but in fact, on the contrary, Jada was not good at all, she felt that this was not her birthday party at all, but a stage for her husband to perform, and everything had to be related to him.
That night, when they returned to their hotel suite, Jada said to Will Smith, "Today is my birthday!" This party was the most disgusting self-presentation I've ever seen in my life. ”
Hearing his wife accuse himself of such a heavy word, Will Smith instantly broke down.
Because he knew in his heart of hearts that everything she said was true, it wasn't a party for his wife, it was his personal show.
But when all this is broken by his wife, he can't bear it and can't face his real self, so he starts to get into a heated argument with Jada.
When they quarreled with their 10-year-old daughter Willow, who was living in the same room as them, the whole person was scared to cry, covering his ears with his hands and tearfully begging them not to argue anymore.
Apparently, their marriage wasn't perfect, and both were miserable, so painful that they couldn't pretend that all the problems were non-existent.
Will Smith is Hollywood's top superstar, but many times career and family can not be balanced, in the pursuit of Hollywood's commanding heights, he inevitably hurt a lot of people around him.
The wife's accusations of collapse and the countless mornings of waking up in silent tears are proof of this.
Will Smith chose to turn to an intimate relationship coach, similar to a psychiatrist, to help people feel more secure and intimate with their loved ones and partners.
He once spoke to his intimate relationship coach about his harem fantasies, namely having a group of famous celebrity girlfriends to do his harem, traveling with 20 women or something.
It also lists the women who specifically want to be his harem, including Oscar-winning actress Harley Berry, principal ballet dancer Misty Copeland, and more.
After making the list, he also studied some specific women with the coach and planned to start contacting them... This crazy fantasy was finally stopped in time.
But probably many people are still quite confused: ah this??
In 2016, jada and Will Smith couldn't go on with each other after nearly 20 years of marriage, and had decided to break up.
"We decided to separate for a while and I really felt we could end it."
It was during this time that she met her son's friend, 27-year-old singer August Alsina, and "entangled" with him, and began a brief romantic relationship.
The Smiths later decided to repair the relationship, and Jada broke off contact with her son's friend.
Who knows last June, the "son's friend" publicly claimed that he and Jada had had an affair for many years and had been blessed by her husband, Will Smith.
As soon as these words came out, the melon-eating masses in Hollywood and even the world boiled over!
Jada's agent told the media categorically at the time, "Absolutely impossible to be true!" ”
In the middle is August Alsina
But on the show a month later, the Smiths sat face to face, and Jada herself admitted to the relationship with her son's friend.
Many people condemned Jada for this, believing that she cheated on will Smith in marriage and betrayed Will Smith, but in this recent interview, Will Smith also revealed that his wife is not the only person who has sex with other people in marriage.
The implication is understandable, he also physically cheated in this marriage.
They admit that it is rare for them to admit that problems in marriage like this, and it is also a heavyweight problem of "getting involved with my son's friends without divorce" and "it doesn't matter if my wife and I cheat on each other physically".
You know, after more than twenty years of marriage, this couple has too many rumors in terms of extramarital affairs, and they have been denying it before.
It wasn't until Jada personally admitted on the show last year that people found out that the melons they had eaten were real. And now Will Smith has also been interviewed to personally expose the news, eating melon masses can only say after reading: This is even more heavyweight, every material that bursts is full of the smell of dog blood catching horses.
Truth be told, the couple is really amazing, married for more than twenty years, and now that both parties have admitted to having cheated, they still choose to be together.
It is difficult for ordinary people to understand this kind of marriage full of "physical infidelity, extramarital affairs, open-endedness" and so on, and can only say that the parties are happy...