In the latest issue of "Fifty Kilometers of Peach Blossom Dock", fifteen guests opened a joyful outdoor camping, Song Dandan had a feeling, and publicly expressed a feeling, grateful for the first love to give her five years of happiness, the scene is quite tear-inducing.
Song Dandan remembered that his first time camping was with his first love, that was the first time they lay together and could hold hands. Song Dandan confessed his first love more affectionately, saying that although he is now in heaven, he still loves each other very much, and he is grateful that he spent five years with his first love and let himself have the best first love of a woman.
Song Dandan is now mentioning that it is beautiful, but in fact, this first love has also brought some sadness.
Song Dandan's first love is called Yuan Gang, a demobilized soldier who transferred to their class to take the college entrance examination. When they first met, she was only 19 years old and the two had been in love for 5 years. In 2011, Yuan Gang died, and Song Dandan also posted on Weibo to mourn him, telling his feelings as a young girl: "At the age of 19, I looked forward to his cripple every day, even if he was fractured, so that you could guard him all day and prove to him how much you loved him." At two o'clock in the morning today, he passed away. Sitting on the balcony with headphones on, listening to music, watching the sea in tears, thank you for giving me the best first love I can have as a woman. It can be seen that Song Dandan is particularly invested in this feeling.
Song Dandan has talked about her first love many times in the show. In an early interview, Song Dandan told the story of his pursuit of his first love. Song Dandan fell in love with Yuan Gang at first sight, it was raining that day, Song Dandan entered the classroom and put away the umbrella at the door, and when she turned back, she found a tall boy sitting in the last row, and her face turned red at once. Although she was moved, Dong Dandan did not dare to ask the other party's name directly, until someone asked her to help pass the word, and she did not know that the boy's name was Yuan Gang.
Then Song Dandan took the initiative to attack and sent Yuan Gang a love letter, writing what was "I hate you, because you and I have no intention of reviewing the college entrance examination, what should I do, I am going to transfer" and the like, in Song Dandan's words, this is called "I will leave the law". Then Yuan Gang used a class time to reply to her with a letter, and Song Dandan saw that the other party's handwriting was good and decided to date him.
In "Strange Story", Song Dandan talked about this first date, saying that she set the date location at the zoo, and before leaving the zoo, the two "first kissed" in front of the fence. The picture is very raw.
Song Dandan once said that this first love was the most intense in her love life. Maybe young girls are strong for feelings, Song Dandan did not even understand the specific address of people's homes, just in the winter to run to find Yuan Gang's home, has been walking all the way, until the middle of the night at twelve o'clock did not find, can only go home.
But Song Dandan, who was in love, really had no intention of studying, and after the college entrance examination results came out, Song Dandan fell off the list, but Yuan Gang was admitted to the law department of Peking University. This was a big blow to Song Dandan, and she even felt that she could only take her life lightly. Later, she secretly took 80 yuan from her family and ran to her aunt's house in Qingdao. Once, because of illness and stomach pain, she slept over, and as soon as she opened her eyes, her father stood next to her and stroked her head, without a word of accusation, and let her stay in Qingdao to play. During the period when she ran away from home, her father and brothers and sisters also looked for her everywhere and worried about her.
Song Dandan later regained his spirits and planned to apply for an actor training class held by the Beijing People's Art Theater. Yuan Gang also tried to find ways to make some relationships for her, and also invited famous actors Tian Chong, Jin Yaqin and others to tutor Song Dandan and help her improve her acting skills. With all kinds of efforts, Song Dandan finally passed the examination of human art and became an actor. Her plays and TV series have been hugely popular, and she has won the Feitian Award for Best Supporting Actress.
In the course of 5 years of love, the relationship between Song Dandan and Yuan Gang has been very stable, until one day, Yuan Gang decided to go abroad. Song Dandan once wrote in his autobiography: "In the 5 years of love, his eldest brother, sister, and second brother went abroad one after another, and when he never said that he wanted to leave, he also decided to go abroad, at that time I realized: he never saw our fate as being together, and he never thought of walking the road of life with me." ”
Perhaps because he felt "betrayed" and "deceived", Song Dandan resolutely proposed to break up, and the relationship died so prematurely. Probably in order to heal the love wound, three months later Song Dandan married a man Lightning, and the marriage lasted only one year before the two broke up. After that, Song Dandan married Yingda again, and this marriage eventually ended in a bleak end, and Song Dandan and Yingda did not get together and disperse, but they had been friends for many years.
Song Dandan eventually went on a blind date with a friend and met her current husband, Mr. Zhao Yuji. On her 37th birthday, Song Dandan and her current husband Zhao Yuji, who had known her for only 28 days, were married. Song Dandan, who has entered the marriage hall again, has matured a lot, and knows more about how to maintain marriage and family, more than 20 years later, she and Mr. Zhao are as loving as ever, and Song Dandan has finally found her own happiness.
Time is the best healer, and now Song Dandan no longer remembers the harm that Yuan Gang brought to her, but only remembers his goodness, which is also the mentality after experiencing years of precipitation.
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