"How can I be so stupid, I've got a piece of crap!"
This is song Dandan's words that reprimanded his son Batuu in a variety show.
It is said that the child is the treasure in the palm of the mother's hand, how did he get to Song Dandan, but the son who worked hard to raise him is worthless?
In fact, not only for his son, Song Dandan, when interacting with other people, is also a quick person who unconsciously begins to verbally attack. Almost every variety show she participates in has been spat on because of low emotional intelligence, and the former sketch queen has fallen into the whirlpool of public opinion.
Accumulating over time, Song Dandan personally pushed his own people down step by step.
Mention song dandan, always remind people of her brought us countless laughter works, starting from the words "my name is Wei Shufen, female, 29 years old, still unmarried", Song Dandan stepped on the sketch stage, she and Zhao Benshan formed a golden partner, creating a classic on the Spring Festival Gala stage.
Although Song Dandan has left the Spring Festival Gala stage and no longer takes the stage to say sketches, she is still a respected old artist and is admired.
However, in a popular variety show "Fifty Kilometers peach blossom dock", the words and deeds of the old artist Song Dandan were questioned.
The show invited fifteen stars, and Song Dandan was the oldest and most qualified. However, the oldest qualified, she let the younger generations experience the aggressive tyranny of the elders.
First of all, at the beginning of the show, Song Dandan proposed to other guests as an elder, and everyone took turns to introduce themselves, say their profession and representative works, so as to make each other know each other better.
When it was Zhang Han's turn, perhaps he did not want to mention the past, or perhaps he felt that he did not have any works that he could not get his hands on, Zhang Han simply introduced himself as an actor.
However, Song Dandan did not give up, pressing step by step, asking Zhang Han what he had acted.
Zhang Han's face was obviously angry, and he still insisted that he was an actor, and Song Dandan accused him of being dishonest. The atmosphere was awkward at one point.
If insisting on letting guests introduce themselves is Song Dandan's fast and principled, and in the face of Guo Qilin, a posture of "breaking the sand pot and asking the end" has aroused strong dissatisfaction among all young audiences.
As soon as Guo Qilin arrived at the scene, his ass was thrown like a bullet on the edge of the stool:
"Do you have a girlfriend?" "What type of personality do you like, what personality?" "Big eyes or small eyes?" ……
When Guo Qilin confessed that he did not have a girlfriend now, Song Dandan still did not give up and must let Guo Qilin say who he liked.
In the face of the "concern" of the predecessors, the helpless Guo Qilin could only find an excuse to leave the scene.
Of course, that's not all.
When Li Xueqin arrived, Song Dandan directly came to the sentence "Are you in love?" How about Guo Qilin? ”
For a moment, the embarrassment of capital letters was written on everyone's face.
If it is said that talking is an art, Song Dandan is a layman of this art, and the way of talking without covering his mouth is uncomfortable, and even netizens in front of the screen have questioned that Song Dandan is suspected of relying on the old and selling the old.
When these tidbits were broadcast, in addition to the group mocking Song Dandan, the melon-eating masses helplessly said that Song Dandan's performance was not strange, and this was not the first time she had been criticized.
Sure enough, counting the variety shows that Song Dandan has participated in, each show has left a "wonderful" moment of her unobstructed defeat.
Since leaving the sketch stage, Song Dandan has become a regular guest in variety shows, and in these programs, Song Dandan's reputation has collapsed little by little.
Song Dandan participated in "Strange Story", and Cai Kangyong and Ma Dong in Strange Story are recognized as having high emotional intelligence, but they are "helpless" in front of Song Dandan.
In the face of Song Dandan's arrival, Ma Dong Cai Kangyong and they all showed the highest respect, welcoming her with words such as "I am honored to be invited".
Song Dandan's performance was a big surprise. As soon as she opened her mouth, she criticized the strange program, so that the program does not have the correct answer, it is better than who can say, Cai Kangyong wants to choose which debate, I will do the opposite with you!
Suddenly, Cai Kangyong, who was good at language arts, did not know how to answer the phone.
This is not the most offensive, in the next debate "mother crazy star chasing should not be blocked" topic, the contestant Mao Dong from shallow to deep layer elaboration, said that the family should give each other the greatest sense of security, do not stop the mother from chasing the star. He also gave the example of an aunt in her fifties who left home for a road trip.
For Mao Dong's point of view, Song Dandan strongly opposed it, believing that such a mother was too selfish, and as a mother, she had to stay at home all the time.
Song Dandan just finished speaking, the bullet screen was full of comments refuting her, netizens said bluntly that "Song Dandan's father is full of taste."
When it came to the link of "parents are touting whether the teacher should chase the wind", Song Dandan once again got on the bar with Mao Dong.
Because Mao Dong took his father's point of view as an example, Song Dandan said sarcastically, "Your father is really not a good person, not only do I not like you, I don't like your father!" ”
What was supposed to be a lighthearted debate was suddenly turned into a personal attack, and Song Dandan was also said to be late and unsafe.
In "Longing for Life", He Jiong and Huang Lei, two warm men with high emotional intelligence, also "folded the sand" here in Song Dandan.
During the meal time, He Jiong kindly said to Song Dandan, "Let's share a bowl of rice", which was a normal sentence, but Song Dandan couldn't stand it, and warned He Jiong not to have anything to do and speak English, and He Jiong, who was choked, could only apologize one after another, indicating that he was not an example.
When the singer Old Wolf visited the mushroom house, Huang Lei talked about the good old days of the two, sighed with emotion, and sighed that now they have become old, so they began to be sentimental. Song Dandan, who was at the side, immediately answered the call and said to Huang Lei: "Yes, you are too old now." ”
Not only is it so "sharp teeth" to outsiders, but also treating his son Batu, Song Dandan also does not forget to be quick to speak.
One will dislike his son is too stupid, the other will hate being too fat, and then expose the mistakes made by Batuu in front of everyone, and ask himself how he gave birth to such a waste, hoping that the Civil Affairs Bureau can give birth to another son.
Batuu, who is already an adult, was completely damaged by his own mother, and was happy to participate in the show, but became a large spit scene of Song Dandan.
There are many examples such as this, Song Dandan is not only a powerful actor, but also a powerful poisonous tongue expert. In "The Birth of an Actor", it is rumored that Song Dandan promised Yuan Li to be selected, and then reneged on his word and made a lot of noise;
Source: Yuan Li Weibo
In "Ace to Ace", it is also ridiculed for having no entertainment spirit, rigid and more real, and emotional intelligence is too low...
Pushing forward, when filming "Family with Children", Song Dandan once told Yang Zi bluntly that you are not beautiful enough to be an actor. A sentence made Yang Zi carry the psychological burden for many years.
Today's Yang Zi has already established one of the top small flowers in the showbiz circle, and then think about it, Song Dandan's words have no meaning except to hurt people's self-esteem.
A series of variety shows, again and again without covering, Song Dandan's towering image slowly collapsed in the hearts of netizens, some people even teased, no wonder Yingda would empathize with other love, who can bear such a personality.
As the saying goes, a good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June. Seemingly unintentional words can sometimes bring indelible harm to others.
Therefore, people who can talk can always make people feel like a spring breeze, and they also invisibly close the distance between each other.
The same old artist, compared to Song Dandan's low emotional intelligence, Zhang Guoli was angrily praised by netizens.
Participating in "I Am an Actor", Zhang Guoli competed as a guest with other young actors on the same stage.
When asked why he came to participate in the show, Zhang Guoli said that he had won numerous awards at an old age, and there was no need to show himself again, and the most important thing was to serve his peers and serve young actors with dreams.
"Flowing water does not compete for the first, the contention is endless", Zhang Guoli used this sentence to show his attitude.
In the program, Zhang Guoli has indeed been able to promote the younger generations, and the young actors are patient with the play, and whenever the performance is over, he is always the first young person to praise the play.
In this regard, netizens angrily praised that Teacher Zhang Guoli is worthy of being an old artist with both virtue and art, and his emotional intelligence is invincible!
Not only in the program, Zhang Guoli's high emotional intelligence can be seen everywhere.
Not long ago, Zhang Guoli released a microblog, lamenting that work is hard and life is not easy.
Who ever thought that this sentiment angered the netizens who were still immersed in the "Zheng Shuang incident", and for a time Zhang Guoguo's Weibo was full of insults, some people said that he was fake, and some people said that he was arrogant.
In the face of criticism, Zhang Guoli did not argue with a white face, and sent a weibo two days later, "It is still a big night, and if you send it, you will still find scolding." But I can't hate it because I'm an old man still working happily. ”
In just one sentence, he not only expressed his attitude, but also responded with understanding and tolerance to those who scolded him. Such emotional intelligence and mentality are very human.
The adult world is full of order and rules, and interaction with people must also be premised on mutual respect, and there is nothing to be afraid of.
Maybe Song Dandan's every quick talk in the show is not malicious, maybe that is her most authentic geng character. However, Geng Zhi cannot be an excuse to hurt others, and verbally attack without scruples, not because he is straight, but because he is too selfish.
Flowing water does not compete, but it is endless. I hope that Teacher Song Dandan, whether in acting skills or interpersonal communication, can be a role model for future generations, stand in the position of young people to see the world, and understand long live!
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Author: Heart to Wu Tong