I had sepsis 13 years ago and wrote my will to leave, but he saved my life

I had sepsis 13 years ago, when I wrote my will and prepared to leave this world, but a volunteer who donated bone marrow saved me, a few days ago. I got the news. The other party died unexpectedly, in order to repay the favor, I helped their wives and daughters many times, but what happened later caught me off guard.

My name is Tian Bin, I am 43 years old and suddenly suffered from sepsis 13 years ago. Until now, I have paid great attention to protecting my body and am still alive and healthy.

It was also because of sepsis that I met the noble man of my life, who changed my life and gave me a second life. I can live, really thanks to a kind volunteer.

13 years ago, when I was 30 years old, I worked for a moving company. At that time, the temperature was very high in the summer, the conditions at home were not good, and the whole family was counting on me to live on this salary.

I was carrying the furniture upstairs, suddenly fainted, the workers quickly dialed the ambulance, on the way to the hospital I woke up, I kept telling them that I was okay, must have not eaten breakfast recently, the temperature is too high, heat stroke. Just take a break and you'll be fine

But a co-worker said: "You are so young, you will not suddenly faint, now your life is at stake, or go to the hospital to check, if there is nothing to do, you will be relieved."

When I arrived at the hospital, the doctor said to let me pay 400 yuan for the examination, I decided not to check at that time, I felt that I did not have any major problems, just malnutrition, there was no need to spend this unjust money. But the doctor said, "I see that you are in a very special situation, your life is gone, how can you make money?"

In fact, during that time, I was really miserable, not long ago my mother was hospitalized and spent all the family's savings, the family also earned money alone, I had to support a family of five, so I have always been thrifty, I can save a little and never waste.

But listening to the doctor's tone, he was sure he had found something wrong. I had no choice but to endure the pain of doing the examination, but the results surprised me. I have sepsis.

The doctor suggested that I quickly tell my family about this situation and find a suitable spinal cord match in the family as soon as possible, so that maybe I can still be saved.

Hearing the doctor's words, I was completely panicked, I had nothing to fear, but I was worried that once I fell, what would happen to the relatives at home, who could fight for them. So I told my family about it.

As a result, all the family members went to the hospital to do matching, all of them did not match, even all the relatives did not match me, I was completely desperate.

But the doctor told me not to rush, he helped me to send a notice, let me keep in the mood, patiently wait to see if there is a suitable volunteer willing to donate. But I knew in my heart that such waiting was minimal, and I was depressed all day.

I gave my wife everything that happened and asked her to take good care of the children and my parents, and just when our family was immersed in grief, the doctor brought a good news and found a suitable match.

And the other party agreed to operate immediately, hearing the news, the whole family was very happy, I seemed to have an infinite fighting spirit in an instant, felt that life suddenly became beautiful, and saw the hope of survival.

Later, my operation was very successful, and my wife and I kept asking the doctor for the contact information of the volunteer, but the doctor said: "This other party confessed, can not tell." There are also rules that cannot be disclosed, and I cannot tell you."

After this death escape, my life is like hanging up, and then I invested in e-commerce and live broadcasting industry, not a few years, e-commerce and live broadcasting industry fire, I also set up my own company, and now I am also the boss of a media company.

Not long ago, I received a strange phone call from the doctor who treated me, he said: "The person who helped me match and donate died in an accident, and the doctor hoped that I could go to see the donor's family" Hearing this news, I felt particularly uncomfortable

Over the years, I have experienced many large and small things, and I have experienced the departure of many relatives, which has indeed stirred up waves in my heart, and over the years, I am grateful to the volunteers, without his donations, there would be no today. He is my savior.

I went to the benefactor's house according to the detailed address given to me by the doctor, and it was the benefactor's wife who opened the door for me, and later I learned that my savior was called Tie Jun, who was only 36 years old this year, and was a very upright person who had helped countless people in his life.

This time it was to save a teenager who fell into the water and rescue the teenager, but he unfortunately died, frankly, after listening to my life-saving benefactor's wife, my heart went up and down, not a taste, I now have the ability to repay the benefactor, but he is gone.

Later, my wife and I took care of the funeral of my life-saving benefactor, who also had a daughter, and I bought a 180-square-meter house in the city for my benefactor's wife and daughter. The child needs to go to kindergarten, my wife and I helped the child cover the training costs, and we also plan to buy a car for the benefactor's wife and find a babysitter.

Unexpectedly, the reaction of the benefactor's wife surprised me, she rejected me, he said: "I have helped him enough, originally when her husband saved me, he did not think of repaying with me."

I was very sad after she rejected me, I just wanted to give them the best in my ability. Don't let them suffer. After all, my life was given by them. It's not easy for her to bring a child. I don't know how to convince her now

Can anyone help me think of a way?

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@Tao obediently has something to say

I can understand your mood very well, you are also a good person who knows how to repay kindness, good rewards, will eventually be repaid by people gushing springs, the original good deeds of the Iron Army, the achievement of your career today, you have soared and have not forgotten the wife and daughter of the Iron Army, indicating that you are a good person, if you really want to repay their mother and daughter, do not let them give a job, but let her go to your media company to work. As the saying goes, it is better to teach someone to fish than to teach someone to fish, so that you can repay him all the time.

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