The world knows the romantic and amorous poet Xu Zhimo, but few people know the sad woman behind him who is full of affection, although pregnant with Liujia, but was tragically abandoned.
What was wrong with this marriage? Where is Zhang Youyi, who was born famous and has a prominent family, wrong? In the era of the alternation of old and new ideas, some people will inevitably become victims of the times, unfortunately, it is she, but she has a good family lineage, Zhang Youyi, who abides by the three virtues of women, seems to have made a joke in heaven, and the famous Men Kuota, who should have been pampered, became an abandoned woman and suffered the bitter fruits of life. Holding a scroll in his hand, he covered his face and wept for a long time, meditating for a long time, and he could not calm down for a long time.
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What is right or wrong about love, is Xu Zhimo wrong? He was born of love and lived for love, but there was no Zhang Youyi in this love. Zhang Youyi is so virtuous, is she wrong? If she is not the heroine of this arranged marriage, perhaps Xu Zhimo, even if he will not fall in love with this woman who does not understand the style, may appreciate her virtuousness and virtue from another angle, and will definitely not hurt her, humiliate her, and abandon her. And if Zhang Youyi is not the heroine in this arranged marriage, she will certainly live a quiet and beautiful life, and she will be the most virtuous wife. In the red dust, she may say that the poet wearing gold-rimmed glasses is very handsome, and there are some small arrogant petite, but she will definitely not fall in love with him, with her pragmatism and wisdom, her exclusive will only be a mature man with a steady and high-end atmosphere, not a petty bourgeois and amorous and rotten Xu Zhimo, everything is a big mistake caused by a messy Mandarin duck spectrum, this cup of bitter wine is only Zhang Youyi alone choking, dark and hurt, liver and intestines, because Xu Zhimo only has thin feelings, has not paid, let alone hurt, dare not go against the orders of his parents, married him but does not love him, Having children and abandoning them fiercely, I think the "scumbag" should be the most appropriate for him, the cowardice of feudal etiquette and the determination of the wife are vividly interpreted, after a hundred years, I want to say: love, please love deeply, do not love, please stop unbuttoning the hand!
< second> break the cocoon into a butterfly
Zhang Youyi is unfortunate, but he is also lucky, she knows how to save herself, rather than being willing to be an abandoned woman and complaining until she sinks. It is just hard to imagine how she wandered alone in Germany on the other side of the ocean, unaccompanied and speechless, and how she survived the darkest and coldest night of her life. School longs for knowledge, in the girlhood, this unsuccessful wish, surprisingly at this moment, a foreign country, can be decided by herself, Jedi is born, she should be happy, although it is too late, but she knows that as long as she wants, it is not too late. Abandoned miserably, the loss of a beloved son, the worst thing is nothing more than that, how bad will life be? Five years of study, travel, let Zhang Youyi reborn, both vision and talent, returned to her, as the general manager of Shanghai Women's Bank, invested in the establishment of Shanghai Mingyuan's wardrobe one by one neon clothing company, financial stock trading, became a business odd woman, became a big winner in life, more rare is that she for the anxious Xu Zhimo to raise the second old, for him to deal with the aftermath, he has both the mavericks of Western women and the tolerance and forbearance of traditional women, and can help the man who hurt him several times. Only those who have experienced hardships can be light and breezy, not pretending to be victors, not humble in the past, and blossoming the most poignant flower in the world. I don't know if Xu Zhimo at that moment was shocked by the woman in front of him? If you are fragrant, butterflies come from, know how to run their own Zhang Youyi, although stumbling on the emotional road, he learned to choose, learned to refuse, and finally found his soul mate, soaked in each other, spent the rest of his life in peace, each flower into each other's eyes, she also lived to become the only one in his eyes.
Zhang Youyi's legendary life is a life worthy of women's deep thinking and learning, we don't want to taste the world's most bitter wine, but we can learn to manage the best of ourselves.