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I'm Berry Pepper Jia Ming,
I decided to tell you a secret.
I'm 19 years old, and I'm actually a mom—
On how to be a painless mother in the flower season girl (powder)
While I have unlimited access to cute sons and daughters in the vast online world, as a woman, I am also curious about the fertility process.
And when I searched for fertility-related topics on the famous knowledge quiz website, I found that —
What the? Can the sex of the fetus be artificially controlled?
The more pregnant the boy, the greater the chance of a boy being born? Do you want to give birth to a Nezha!
But nine years of compulsory education tell me that the sex of the fetus is only related to chromosomes?
The picture is from the human-taught edition of the eighth grade biology volume, chapter 2, section 4, human sex inheritance
Interested students can also do bushi
Dr. Zhen's words plunged me into contemplation:
Could it be that I don't know enough about the mysterious reproductive forces?
As a berry who works for a sex education organization, I decided to find out! See if I want to have a son for various (everyone understands) reasons, how can I fulfill my wish?
The following are my study notes for your reference.
Let me see if you have anything to say
01.
The struggle begins with pregnancy preparation!
From Zhihu ,The Scientific Method of 100% Wanting to Have a Boy
I got it, so this teacher is talking:
1. Only a good family deserves a noble son. If no one inherits the throne in your family, blame your wife for her poor conditions.
2. Although the son is noble, he is also very fragile and needs to be cared for, while women are born strong and suitable for suffering!
Teacher, you understand the theory of evolution, but you don't understand biological inheritance?
The sex of the fetus is determined by chromosomes, the female egg can only provide the X chromosome, if you want to give birth to a boy with the Xy chromosome, you can only rely on sperm that carries the Y chromosome.
So aside from the probability, don't blame your wife for not having a son,
blame! you! self! oneself!
Also, if according to your understanding of evolutionary theory, since women are more capable of surviving, how come vulnerable men have not been eliminated by nature? Why do so many people still want to have boys?
Is it because of sympathy?
But you don't want to have a daughter because you don't like it
02.
Keenly identify the signs of a baby man!
From Zhihu "Nine Most Quasi-Pregnant Boy Signs The Most Prominent Characteristics of Pregnant Boys"
"As long as the taste is heavy, you can have a boy!"
Oh, coupled with the seriousness of pregnancy and the large energy demand, it seems that the male fetus not only absorbs nutrients, but also absorbs MONOS and red oil to grow up?
I suspect that this kind of article is a soft and wide range of supper merchants
In fact, this series of indicators can be directly called: psychological effects.
There is a phenomenon called confirmation bias: people will selectively accept some information to prove their ideas or assumptions;
There's also a phenomenon called self-fulfilling prophecy: you want something to happen and he's going to happen.
That is to say, the reaction during pregnancy and the change of lifestyle habits do not prove whether you will have a boy or a daughter. But these changes can reflect your true expectations in your heart -
For example, if a pregnant woman starts to like to eat acid, she may think: "Wuhu! I'm going to have a baby!! But in fact, she may have fallen in love with sour because she wanted to have a son too much, so that she unconsciously changed her taste in the hope that the folk spell of "sour children and hot women" could be fulfilled on herself.
From the public number Science Nurture Small Classroom
Seeing this table, I remembered how well I matched myself with my favorite people in the fourth grade of elementary school against the mixed sign matching table—I was also very religious at that time.
(It doesn't say that the constellation matching is all nonsense)
Giving birth to boys and girls is a matter of probability. The human body is also not a program where you just have precise control over specific variables, and performing specific operations according to the instructions will give you feedback on specific results.
Procreation should be two people conceiving a new life together, not two substances reacting to produce a new substance. Friend, do you think you're doing chemistry experiments?
Embrace uncertainty as a human being,
Want to objectively set things up, play games?!
03.
I believe in the power of mystery, and sincerity of heart is the spirit!
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In addition to leaving a message when you don't know the gender, asking for peace of mind like forwarding koi, there are also some messages on the Internet asking for "women turning men".
Compared with the so-called "scientific male treasure" mentioned above, these young mothers who really want a boy make me as a woman I don't know how to react.
First of all, the y chromosome is not a computer virus and does not spread by the Internet; the male fetus does not have any magnetic field force to affect the fetus around it to become a boy.
Moreover, although the B ultrasound does have a small probability of misdiagnosis, the sex of the fetus will not be reversed objectively - the wish will not change.
Just as test scores are set the moment you turn in your papers, no amount of koi retweets will help.
But how many people can become a sister beyond?
But it's hard for me to complain about these young moms.
What kind of fertility pressure makes them believe in these "flip stories" and "good luck to the male baby"?
Even if it's "it's useful to want boys to drink this!! This kind of article that can be seen at a glance is copied and pasted under the advertorial text, or there are still many young mothers who religiously leave a message "Pick up the healthy male treasure to my belly."
Is it really impossible to see that it is an advertisement? Or do you ask for peace of mind even if you know it's an advertisement?
There are probably many answers.
Maybe she wants to earn face for her husband and raise her head in front of her in-laws; maybe she is an evangelist who prefers sons to daughters... But when I was rightfully receiving higher education and all the love from my family, they were a few years older than me, bearing the changes that pregnancy had brought to their lives and bodies, praying day and night for a boy in their womb. How can I blame them from above?
Women are human beings, not fertility machines.
The mere fact that she has the ability to procreate should not be required to abandon herself and become a tool for fulfilling the wishes of others.
How can I get a son? - XY chromosome is required.
But what exactly is urging them to ask this question?
It takes a long time to answer.
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