Some people liken married life to a safe haven. Compare marriage to a small boat. And the husband and wife after marriage are the helmsmen of this small boat. When the wind and rain came, the husband and wife jointly sailed this small boat into the haven.
Husband and wife live under the same roof, should have worked together, but once someone's thinking changes, marriage this boat, said to turn over.
Xiaohui's husband slipped his thinking in the middle of married life and betrayed the marriage. Finally discovered by Xiaohui and taught a lesson, let's take a look at Xiaohui's story.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="5" > Xiaohui, 26 years old, clerk</h1>
I am 26 years old and have been married to my husband for two years. My husband, Xiaoqiong, is my first love. Before I met my husband, I hadn't been in a relationship once. When I was in college, my husband pursued me hard, my husband was very good at talking, he would coax me to be very happy every day, I was quickly immersed in love, people said that women in love had a negative IQ, and I was the same. Immersed in hot love, I did not find out at all that my husband always said that he would not do it, that is, he was inconsistent in appearance.
From the mouth of my husband, our future is too good, and I believe it. After graduation, despite his parents' objections, he followed her husband back to his hometown.
When I first arrived in my husband's hometown, he helped me rent a house. I immerse myself every day in the happy future woven by my husband. Carefully run our little home. But after a while, I found that although my husband said that he went to work every day, he couldn't save money at all.
He promised us to pay the down payment together, and buying a house became a far cry. I was actually a little disappointed, but I thought that buying a house just after graduation was really not so easy. I want to rent a house first and do the wedding. But when I asked him when the wedding was going to happen? The husband panicked.
He said, "I'm sorry, Xiaohui, I lied to you." I can't afford to buy you a house, will you blame me? ”
"We just graduated, and the monthly salary is not high, so it is very difficult for us to think about buying a house at this time." But I have followed you to your hometown, and our wedding must be held. I don't blame you, you can't buy a house, and you can work together after the house is married! ”
The husband said, "Xiaohui, you are so nice!" Rest assured, I have nothing now. But I have a true heart that loves you. I will definitely let you live a good life after remarrying. ”
In this way, we are ready to hold a wedding, but my in-laws are very good, although the husband is not very reliable, but the in-laws and in-laws found a hardcover second-hand house, helped us pay the down payment, let us do the wedding room, said that marriage is a big thing, how can you wronged your daughter-in-law?
When I first got married, my husband was really nice to me and I was immersed in the happiness after marriage. Nor did he consider how he should live his future life.
But soon, the happy days were broken by the willfulness of the husband. My husband had just been working for a few months. I am ready to resign from my boss. When my eldest husband discussed with me that he was going to resign, I was mad at him.
"What breaks the company?" Who are these people? Since they say I'm not doing a good job, they'll do it themselves! Uncle, I'm not waiting for you yet. My husband scolded and grinned at me.
I know that my husband's temperament is more impatient. But I really didn't expect that my husband would still be immature after he got married. If nothing else, let's talk about the mortgage that you have to pay every month. If my husband quits, all the pressure is on my head.
I told my husband about this matter, hoping that he would not be in a hurry to resign, work first, and wait to find a stable new job before resigning. But no matter how much I persuaded, my husband just had an iron heart and didn't want to do it there.
In desperation, I could only agree to my husband's resignation. Because I also think that such a big person has hands and feet, it is not possible to find a job. But a month and a half passed, and the husband did not find a new job. I was in a hurry, but my husband didn't pay attention to it at all.
After my monthly salary arrived, I only had 4100 yuan, and only 1200 yuan was left after removing the mortgage. My husband and I all rely on this 1200 yuan to live, life is not tight, once there is something wrong, we need the help of my in-laws.
I quarreled with my husband for the first time, because in my husband's mind, even if there is no food to eat, you can go home to find your parents to eat and drink, but I feel that my husband is so messy, it is not reliable at all, and he has no plans for our future.
"Can you be a little bit out of the way?" Like a man. After getting married, it was time for the two of us to live. You go back to your parents' house every day to eat. What do you want others to think of us? Before I got married, you promised to make sure I had a good life. Now you are living at home every day, you can't earn a penny, I am here to raise you, you are how I let me live a good life! ”
I was angry, talking without paying attention. This sentence deeply stimulated the husband's self-esteem. We had a big fight. And my husband and I have a long cold war. The husband moved back to the in-laws' house, the mother-in-law is still very good, after criticizing the husband, the trustee found a job for the husband. Although the salary is not as high as his previous job, at least our lives can go on.
However, after the resignation of my husband once, I paid special attention to this aspect, often reminding him in his ear that my original intention was to want my husband to be self-motivated, after all, husband and wife are one, which is a kind of love spur.
But the husband does not think like this, the husband just feels that I am very wordy, a long time will quarrel with me, the number of quarrels, our feelings began to deteriorate, I feel that the husband is a child who does not grow up, every day hanging Lang Dang's mixed days, the husband feels that my personality has changed after marriage, become a shrew, just like this, we are not willing to take care of each other, lack of communication, the days are getting more and more meaningless.
My heart is full of grievances, everything I do is for this small family, for me and my husband to have a good life in the future, my husband is just living in the present, not thinking about our future at all, from time to time with me cold war, I really don't know how to live this day.
There are too many emotions in my heart, I think of my parents opposing our marriage before I got married, when I insisted on not listening to my parents, now I regret it, I think of my mother, I talked about things with my mother, on the phone, my parents did not say anything more, but my parents flew over to visit me after a few days. When I received my parents at the airport, my grievances could no longer be held back, and tears flowed like a waterfall. How resolutely I used to say in front of my parents that my husband would bring me happiness and live a good life, how wronged I am now.
My parents hurt me, but after all, I was married, and they couldn't participate too much in my married life, and they didn't criticize him in the face of their husbands, but they just felt that their husbands were not self-motivated.
However, under the education of my father-in-law's mother-in-law, my husband could not listen to a word, but felt that our whole family was very wordy, and directly ran away on his own, hiding outside, and even the in-laws did not know where he went.
The disappointment in my heart is getting bigger and bigger, my husband is too ignorant, but even if he doesn't understand things, we have to find him first, for a few days, my husband did not appear, just the day before my parents were ready to go back, I received a message, although my husband quickly withdrew, the content was deeply imprinted in my mind.
"I still won't be home tonight, I'll go find you and wait for me!" Such an ambiguous tone made me feel like the sky was falling and my husband was cheating, which was the message he sent to his lover.
I think about the days I have lived in these two years, angry, sad, depressed, depressed... All kinds of emotions were like overturned soy sauce bottles, hitting my heart.
When I calmed down, I found my girlfriend. Let her wait with me outside my husband's company. When we saw her husband come out, a young and beautiful girl stepped forward and took her husband's hand. When my girlfriend saw this scene, she was very angry and wanted to rush up, but I stopped my girlfriend.
We quietly followed our husband and found the address where the girl lived. I thought about it for a moment and sent a message to my mom and dad and in-laws.
"I have found Xiao Qiong, he has some things now, he needs everyone's help together, you are coming soon!"
After I sent the address to everyone, I waited downstairs, and my parents and in-laws rushed to come together. We went upstairs together and knocked on the door. Seeing her husband in disheveled clothes, everything was clear.
My parents were so angry that they pointed at my husband and couldn't speak, and their fingers kept quivering. The father-in-law directly grabbed the broom placed by the door and hit her husband, scolding while hitting.
When things got to this point, our marriage naturally came to an end. I filed for divorce with my husband. Because it was my husband who cheated first, and my in-laws didn't have the face to keep me, after I got the property I deserved. Following my parents, I left this place that made me sad.
And the ex-husband Xiaoqiong, because he was caught in bed by everyone. His lover couldn't stand the finger-pointing. Left his side.
After two years of marriage, I didn't get the happiness I wanted and my ex didn't fulfill his promise to me. Although there are regrets, anger, and sadness, the days will go on.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="45" > conclusion</h1>
A hundred years of repair to the same boat ferry. After the couple gets married, they are people who live in the same boat. In the marriage business. Everyone should keep their responsibilities in mind. When you forget your responsibilities and yearn for the world of flowers outside the ship, please think about it a lot. Can you bear the consequences of cheating, there is no regret medicine in the world.
Cheating is only a temporary stimulus and freshness, once the momentum, eventually to return to the family, but the cheating person, how can there be a family, do not think about cheating, the price is unbearable.