preface:
People often say "women's hearts, needles under the sea", in fact, men's hearts are more difficult to see. Men are complex animals that people can never figure out. For the species of men, Song Siming's wife in "Snail Dwelling" once had a particularly accurate analysis: "Men are the same, they need stepping stones when they are young, they need to strengthen their hearts in middle age, and they need a crutch in their old age." "Some people say that men are advanced animals who spend the rest of their lives thinking, in fact, there is a bit of authenticity, some men do not deliberately cheat, things just happen naturally. Mr. Zhang, 41, said that he accidentally had a relationship with a female leader on a business trip, should he tell his wife about this matter?
Mr. Zhang's statement:
My female leader is a very strict person, we are very afraid of her, especially in the meeting, she especially likes to scold people, we even call her tigress in private, at that time we will discuss with colleagues, how can there be such a fierce woman, we think her married life is definitely not happy? But just a while ago, my female leader asked me to accompany her on a business trip, I was really very reluctant at the time, I felt that going on a business trip with her was a very painful thing, I wanted to refuse, but I did not dare, because her person was too fierce, if I refused, she would definitely scold me worthless, so I could only agree.
I and she are going to the city of the north on a business trip, when I first arrived in the north, the weather was really very cold, the clothes we brought were not enough, and then she asked me to accompany her to the mall to buy clothes, anything she said was like an order to me, so I could only accompany her, but I have to say that my female leader is also a very beautiful woman, the figure is very good, the face is also good-looking, the clothes she tried on are very good-looking, after buying clothes with her, we went back to the hotel, after I rested in the hotel for two hours, she suddenly called me. She told me that I was going to have dinner with my clients in the evening and drink, so I had to prepare, so I changed into a very formal set of clothes and followed her to socialize.
At the dinner table, we all drank wine, I usually rarely drink, so my amount of alcohol is not as good as my female leader, after a few glasses of belly, I feel dizzy, the back is sitting silently next to it, watching the female leader drink with the customer, about 11 o'clock in the evening, my female leader asked me to help her go back, at that time she was already drunk, I was also the first time to contact the female leader so closely, I helped the female leader walk back to the hotel, and also sent the female leader back to the room, just at this time, my female leader suddenly hugged me And then she kept kissing me, she suddenly did this, let my mind go blank, usually very serious, and very fierce female leader actually did such a thing to me, really made me a little incredible, the perfume on the female leader smelled very good, and then I lost control, and then did something wrong with the female leader.
Afterwards I regret it very much, I really did not expect that I would do such a thing, those days with the female leader, we all feel very embarrassed, the business trip is finally over, you can go back, after going back to face my wife, I feel very uncomfortable, my wife has been with me for so many years, I have suffered a lot, I did not expect me to do such an immoral thing, I want to confess to my wife, but I dare not, I don't know what to do now, I don't know what to do, I don't know if I want to tell my wife.
Conclusion:
If you want your marriage to be happy for a long time, you can't do without the joint efforts of two people. Husband and wife must learn to consider each other, look more at each other's advantages, less consider each other's shortcomings, only learn to tolerate, the feelings of the two people will get better and better.
The most important point is to be faithful to one's own marriage, which is crucial to the marriage, and other mistakes can be forgiven, but betraying the marriage will not be forgiven in most cases. Therefore, after marriage, you must take good care of your family and do not do things that you regret for the rest of your life.