Shi Zhi is a full-time housewife and a full-time mother, she takes care of the home day after day, year after year, so that her husband can devote himself to work, so that his two sons can study without distraction, so that the two in-laws can enjoy a full old age.
Every morning, after she had sent all the family members out of the house, she had time to sit down for breakfast alone. She was accompanied only by a caged bird that could not fly, and this little bird was not herself.
But over time, everyone in the family felt that the current comfortable life was taken for granted, and they did not realize that behind this orderly life, Shi Zhi was busy and busy. Even Shi Zhi himself began to doubt the value of his existence.
I don't have a job, I don't make any money, I have to receive living expenses from my husband every month to pay for family expenses, and what's worse is that the housework I do every day is actually a job that anyone can do, and these jobs do not produce any value and do not bring wealth to the family. Running housework for many years seriously affected Shi Zhi's identification with self-worth.
Even when she wanted to regain her youthful hobby, flamenco, whenever she mentioned it to her husband, he scoffed at her hobby, which was completely inappropriate. In the eyes of the husband, the only value of the wife's existence is to take care of the housework well, and do not think about anything else.
It was another busy afternoon, and Shi Zhi took a tired nap after tidying up her in-laws' room, and in this short dream, she dreamed that she had danced the flamenco dance and stood in the C position of the dance troupe to lead the dance.
But a movement downstairs woke her up, and when she went downstairs to take a look, she actually made a face with the thief. The thief did not hesitate to say "hello" to her, and swept away a wad of money in the refrigerator, which was Shi Zhizang's private money.
If you were a husband and came back to learn that your home had been stolen, and worse, a large amount of private money that you never knew about, what would you do to your wife?
Shi Zhi's husband was furious with his wife, extremely sarcastic, while complaining that his wife was lazy and sleeping at home, but he was working hard outside, in his eyes, his wife was happy at home all day; on the other hand, he complained that his wife hid private money and was not honest enough with him; on the other hand, he felt heartache for the loss of this large amount of money (about 30,000 yuan) at home; on the other hand, he complained that you did not make money, why did you mean to say that you were saving money and saving money.
But what he did not expect at all was that the family was stolen, and his wife was still terrified, how much she needed her dearest people to comfort her; the wife hid the money for her own pleasure, but for the family's unforeseen needs; did the wife not make money, did not she give up her career for the sake of the family? What makes Shi Zhi feel most chilled is that for more than twenty years, her daily busy housework has been completely ignored by her husband, who instead thinks that she is enjoying happiness at home. Why would a stay-at-home mom who is dedicated to her family end up in tragedy?
Without her husband's understanding, without the concern from her family, even if she apologized in every way, but in exchange for her husband's increasing resentment towards her, after the dispute, Shi Zhi covered the caged bird with a cloth, as if covering herself.
The next day the family woke up...
Shi Zhi ran away from home and returned to his hometown, and everyone in the family rushed over to persuade her husband to quickly go and apologize to his wife, but the husband who had always been macho still did not realize that he was wrong, patted his chest and shouted that I was the victim, and complained that the younger brothers and sisters who came to persuade him were nosy.
Even his father couldn't listen to it anymore and stood up to teach him a lesson together.
Since death does not admit mistakes, the wife will certainly not come back by herself, but life will always go on, no one will do breakfast, the whole family eat bananas together.
Originally, the mother-in-law volunteered to take care of the housework, but the old man could not afford the waist pain in the morning, and the father-in-law had to volunteer to wash clothes, but he would not even use the washing machine, and the washed clothes were not dehydrated.
The house was a mess, no one cooked, no one cleaned up, no one washed clothes, no one cleaned up the room, no one removed the weeds in the yard, no one bought the ingredients for dinner, and finally hired an hourly worker to get everything done.
The family did not realize how much she had paid for the normal operation of the family until the hostess was gone, and what was even more valuable was that this kind of payment was not a day or two, nor a year or two, but decades of daily payment, and no one had ever paid attention to her efforts.
Shi Zhi returned to her hometown, without the trivial shackles of the family, her body and mind could finally get a chance to relax and breathe, as if she had not really enjoyed her life for decades.
And the husband's side is still obsessed, he still stubbornly believes that his hard work has fed the whole family, it is the money he earns to feed the whole family, but the younger brother advised him: It is precisely because the eldest sister-in-law has paid for decades and taken care of all the daily household chores such as raising children, that you can devote yourself to work, this is the difference in the division of labor between husband and wife, you can't deny her sacrifice for this family because she has not made money. Isn't it hard for her to take care of the housework and has no value?
Movies come from life, in reality, some full-time mothers are not also facing sacrifice and pay is not recognized, they gave up their careers to devote themselves to the family, they dedicate their lives to their lovers and children, although they can not earn money, that is they put all the energy to make money on the family, but there are always some men like the male owner in the movie, stubbornly think that only the money they earn is the happiness created for the family, do not know that it is every meal that the wife makes for you, every piece of clothing that you wash, Every time I swept the ground and dried every quilt, I let a man with a successful career have a warm and clean home behind him.
Never neglect the dedication of a stay-at-home mom to the family.
The man was finally moved by his brother, and on a rainy night he drove alone to pick up his wife.
Shi Zhi's arrival frightened Shi Zhi, but unlike being paralyzed by the thief, her arrival made her feel happy and nervous.
The husband brought back to her on a business trip, a silk scarf embroidered with roses, and even after decades, he still did not forget that in their love, his wife loved the rose the most.
Men have always been not good at expressing, after holding back for a long time, he finally admitted that I can't do without you, some people always have to lose to know to cherish, but some feelings can be saved, some feelings hurt but can no longer be recovered.
The family gathered together, the father-in-law still thinks that the stubborn son's stupid mouth is impossible to take his wife back, so we should all consider what to do in the future, who the two grandchildren have lived with, the house should be sold, the old two should go to the nursing home to the nursing home, anyway, Shi Zhi is not there, the family is not there.
But Shi Zhi finally came back, her return, so that the family can continue to exist, if the family is a car, then the man is the engine of the car, providing a steady stream of power for the family, and the hostess is the chassis of the car, is the cornerstone of a family's existence.
The family returned to a happy atmosphere, and the husband released the caged bird, wondering if he could understand that his wife should also have her own life and hobbies.