A ph.D. couple, a veritable proud son of heaven, their marriage is torn apart in the face of a serious illness. The two people who were originally in love, one only wanted to get rid of it as soon as possible, and the other was struggling and entangled, and eventually turned against each other and looked at each other with disgust.
Husband and wife were originally the same forest birds, and they flew separately in the face of great trouble. This sentence was cruelly confirmed in yang nan's marriage to Zhang Hai.
Yang Nan came from a poor working family since childhood, and during his doctoral studies, he met and married Zhang Hai, who was two years older than himself and was also a doctor. The combination of these two proud sons of heaven once envied others, but fate made a cruel joke with them.
On the eve of her doctoral graduation, Yang Nan was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer, and her life that was about to start brilliantly was forced to press the pause button.
For Yang Nan, what is more terrible about cancer is her husband's coldness and ruthlessness.
Since knowing that his wife was diagnosed with cancer, Zhang Hai's temperament, which was originally considerate and generous, has changed drastically, he not only uses violence in language, but also cuts off contact with Yang Nan financially, and in the second year of Yang Nan's illness, he moved out of the house. Since then, in addition to paying 2,000 yuan per month for medicine, in the five or six years of Yang Nan's illness, Zhang Hai has hardly asked his wife and forced her to divorce him many times.
But Yang Nan does not want to divorce, because she wants to live, if she leaves her husband, she will most likely not be able to live.
Because her illness requires a lot of money to maintain. In her current situation, if she does not change her liver, her life will be in danger at any time, but if she changes her liver, the cost will be 800,000.
She herself has no income, her parents are old, her family is already poor, and she cannot support her expensive treatment.
Therefore, she can only take her husband Zhang Hai as the only straw to save her life, clinging to it and refusing to let go easily.
Therefore, she has not let up on Zhang Hai's divorce request, which is also the reason why Zhang Hai hates her day by day.
Yang Nan hoped that her husband could pay for her treatment, but Zhang Hai, as an associate professor at a university, refused to come up with such a large amount of money.
From Zhang Hai's standpoint, he is 40 years old, he wants to think about his future, he wants a complete home, to have a child of his own.
But Yang Nan's current situation naturally could not meet his desire. So he only wants to get a divorce as soon as possible, and he is not willing to invest money in his wife's bottomless pit, which will affect his quality of life in the future.
Finally, under the mediation of the intermediary, Yang Nan was willing to divorce, but asked Zhang Hai to bear the 600,000 yuan of treatment costs she had spent in the early stage. Zhang Hai, on the other hand, is only willing to bear 300,000 yuan for this.
The mediation failed, and the two finally decided to leave the entanglement between them to the law.
In the face of powerful diseases, life and feelings are so fragile, everything is so small.
As Keigo Higashino said, there are two things in the world that cannot be looked at directly, one is the sun, and the other is the human heart. In the face of human nature, people are always small.
Although you do not suffer from others, do not persuade others to be good. We can understand Zhang Hai's hardships, but we can't identify with his coldness and indifference.
In the face of his wife, who used to love and is now struggling to survive, his death is indeed indignant and chilling.
His approach violates traditional social morality and family virtues, but is a true and cruel reflection of the selfish side of human nature.
There's a saying that goes something like this: Airports witness more sincere kisses than wedding halls, and hospital walls hear more prayers than churches.
Love or not love, love deeply or not deeply, a serious illness will be tested.
The man who abandons you because you are sick and gives up on you easily, like a tumor that has been cut off, throws it away, and the man who does not abandon you in times of danger must be cherished.
Here I would like to remind the majority of women: cherish yourself more, listen to the alarms sent by the body in time; always stay positive and optimistic, more cheerful, less angry. The body is your own, don't test human nature with health, because human nature cannot stand the test.
Finally, may you and I continue to be strong, on the road of life, there is no lack of love, not lack of money, even if we meet people, even if the fate is uncertain, we can save ourselves.