On Chinese New Year's Eve Night 1990, Tang Guoqiang's ex-wife Sun Tao committed suicide at home, which made Tang Guoqiang's image collapsed overnight, his career stagnated, and the idol in everyone's heart became a "scumbag" and "negative man" that everyone shouted and beat. What did Tang Guoqiang do? Why did his ex-wife Sun Tao commit suicide?
When he was young, Tang Guoqiang looked very handsome, and his appearance did not lose the small fresh meat of the present. At the age of 23, he starred in the first film "South China Sea Storm", and later starred in "Walking Ahead of the War". At the age of 26, he was officially transferred to the Bayi Studio and became famous overnight with the movie "Little Flower".
In addition, Tang Guoqiang also played the Dai prince in "Peacock Princess", played the male protagonist Zhao Mengsheng in "Wreath Under the Mountain", and Zhuge Liang in the well-known "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", the Yongzheng Emperor in "Yongzheng Dynasty" and many other classic roles. In everyone's impression, Tang Guoqiang is not only handsome, but also upright, and is an idol in the hearts of many people. However, the subsequent occurrence of an incident caused Tang Guoqiang's image to collapse and his career to be hindered, that is, the suicide of his ex-wife.
In fact, the reason why Tang Guoqiang's career has developed rapidly is really thanks to his ex-wife Sun Tao. Sun Tao's family background is not ordinary, his parents are senior generals in the Beijing Military Region, and Sun Tao himself is a military doctor. The two met through friends, the first time they met, Sun Tao was attracted by the handsome Tang Guoqiang, and the two talked about love.
Tang Guoqiang was an actor in the Qingdao Repertory Theatre when he first debuted, and later wanted to transfer to the Bayi Studio, but there were many difficulties, and the Qingdao Repertory Theatre did not release anyone at all, so Tang Guoqiang was very helpless. But later, after Sun Tao found out, he asked his parents for help, and eventually Sun Tao's parents emphasized Tang Guo into the Bayi Studio through their relationship. The latter things can be imagined, in 1979, Tang Guoqiang and Sun Tao entered the palace of marriage.
After marriage, Sun Tao also gave birth to a daughter for Tang Guoqiang, and in order to take care of the family, Sun Tao gave up his career and took care of his husband and children wholeheartedly, and he was even more obedient to Tang Guoqiang. Sun Tao's parents once said that their daughter was better to Tang Guoqiang than to her father, and she paid a lot for Tang Guoqiang. But in Sun Tao's view, she loves Tang Guoqiang too much, and this kind of payment is also willing.
To what extent did Sun Tao love Tang Guoqiang? At that time, Tang Guoqiang was just popular, there were many female fans from other places to find him, Sun Tao knew, not only did not eat jealousy, but instead arranged for these female fans to eat and live, once also led people to live in the mother's house for a few days. And the two people really had a crisis of trust, it was during the filming of "Little Flower", when Tang Guoqiang and Chen Chong spread a scandal, which made Sun Tao feel the crisis for the first time, until the appearance of a person, it completely angered Sun Tao, resulting in a gap between the husband and wife, the contradiction is getting bigger and bigger, this person is Tang Guoqiang's current wife, magnificent.
Magnificent is also an actor at Bayi Studios, 12 years younger than Tang Guoqiang. In 1988, the two starred in the TV series "Cold Blood" together, and then there was a scandal. Tang Guoqiang's attitude towards his wife also began to be cold, Sun Tao fell ill because he could not stand the stimulation, and even mental problems occurred, and at this time Tang Guoqiang not only did not care about his wife, but also proposed a divorce, but Sun Tao did not agree, until two years later, a few days before Chinese New Year's Eve, Tang Guoqiang repeatedly asked Sun Tao to sign the divorce agreement, and said: "If you don't sign, you will be sent to a mental hospital." ”
However, Tang Guoqiang did not usher in his wife agreeing to divorce, but suicide. On Chinese New Year's Eve Night in 1990, Sun Tao ended his life with a rope in the bathroom of his parents' house, and died at the age of 35, while his daughter was only 7 years old.
Sun Tao's suicide dealt a devastating blow to Tang Guoqiang's career, and many people denounced Tang Guoqiang for having an "extramarital affair" and later expelled from the Bayi Studio. And Magnificence has also been accused of third parties interfering, and has to temporarily withdraw from the screen and fade out of everyone's sight.
However, Sun Tao's death is the saddest thing about her parents, who washed their faces in tears all day after the death of their daughter, and her father died a few months after her daughter's death due to a heart attack caused by excessive sadness.
In this regard, Tang Guoqiang explained that it was his wife who could not think of it herself, and also said that her wife was mentally ill, but everyone did not buy it. After leaving bayi Studio, Tang Guoqiang went to the China Youth Art Theatre. In 1992, director Wang Fulin found Tang Guoqiang and hoped that he could play Zhuge Liang in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", which was opposed by many people, but because of Wang Fulin's insistence, there was a version of Zhuge Liang of Tang Guoqiang that everyone saw.
In fact, the scandal between Tang Guoqiang and Magnificence is not empty, the two fell in love because of the drama in 1988, Tang Guoqiang reported a marriage change in 1989, and Sun Tao committed suicide in 1990. But these are only everyone's speculations, after all, in that era of underdeveloped information, no one knows what the truth is. But it is undeniable that when Tang Guoqiang's career was hit hard, Magnificent has been accompanying Tang Guoqiang's side, washing and cooking for him, taking care of his life, and not caring about the outside world at all, which also makes Tang Guoqiang very moved.
In 1993, the third year after Sun Tao's death, Tang Guoqiang and the 12-year-old Magnificent stepped into the palace of marriage. After marriage, Magnifier also gave birth to two sons for Tang Guoqiang. Now the two have been married for 28 years, and they are still in love as ever, inseparable. Not only that, Magnificent also regards Tang Guoqiang and his ex-wife's daughter as his own, and the relationship is very harmonious.
And in terms of career, Magnificent also helped Tang Guoqiang a lot, when Tang Guoqiang took over mao Zedong in "The Long March", he did not have confidence, it was Magnificent who constantly encouraged him and supported him, and finally Tang Guoqiang agreed to sign the contract. In order to let Tang Guoqiang play the role of a great man, Magnifier also helped Tang Guoqiang collect a lot of materials such as essays, speeches, photos and memoirs about Mao Zedong, and Tang Guoqiang's role of Mao Zedong was finally recognized by everyone.
Watching Tang Guoqiang's career getting better and better, but unexpectedly, 14 years later, Sun Tao's mother suddenly posted two suicide notes left by her daughter when she committed suicide, in which Sun Tao accused Tang Guoqiang of lacking morality, losing his conscience, and filing for divorce in the case of his own weakness. The other suicide note was left to his daughter, and Sun Tao revealed his reluctance to his daughter in the suicide note, and also told her daughter to avenge herself.
However, in the face of the suicide note, Tang Guoqiang said that 14 years have passed, and it is difficult to distinguish between true and false. The implication is that Tang Guoqiang did not recognize the existence of the suicide note at all.
When Sun Tao died, her daughter was only 7 years old. Now that 31 years have passed, what is the attitude of my daughter? Is it heartache for his mother's departure, or do he hate his father's ruthlessness? A passage of the daughter gave everyone the answer, she supported her father: "I have the ability to judge right and wrong, know right and wrong, my father is very bitter, when he was driven out of the Bayi factory, very miserable, even the drama can not be picked up, my mother hanged himself in my house, he can never turn over, he is not easy, pay a lot for this family, if there is no my father today, there is no my present." My mother and father caused misunderstanding and distrust due to many reasons, the two people have a bad relationship, separation is not a bad thing, but my mother is very stressed psychologically, she is not a very open person, a little narrow-minded, something buried in the heart does not want to say, a moment of thought can not open the suicide. ”
In fact, in this failed marriage, the most painful is the daughter, although who is who is not we can not rush to make up our minds, but the daughter stands in the position of the father, but also openly said that the mother is narrow-minded, selfish and can not open, there is still an unspeakable heartache.
The reason why Tang Guoqiang and Sun Tao's marriage is today's ending is that both people are actually responsible. At the beginning, Tang Guoqiang married Sun Tao for his career, and the benefits in this marriage were greater than love, coupled with the wrong door, it was doomed that the marriage could not last. On the other hand, Sun Tao paid too much in this marriage, all his thoughts were put on Tang Guoqiang, and even no career, let alone self, when the husband empathized with others, it was as if he had lost the whole world, could not accept it, and finally committed suicide without opening.
In any case, his ex-wife Sun Tao died because of Tang Guoqiang, so even if Tang Guoqiang is happily married and has a successful career, it is inevitable that he will be blamed. And Sun Tao's experience also warns many women not to give up their careers for each other, no matter how much they love, do not give up on themselves, because only in this way, when the other party turns around, you will not become nothing!