In China, filial piety is a moral point that everyone attaches great importance to, and in the hearts of our countrymen, filial piety has even become a large part of the criteria for many people to evaluate a person, once they know that this person is not good to his parents, they immediately feel that this person must not be good to others, and will definitely criticize him with this ethics and morality.
And in many TV series, there are about the portrayal of unfilial villains, under such a social moral ecology, let filial piety to parents is a good person has become the only moral code recognized by everyone in filial piety. But it is in such a social environment that wang Yongqiang, a postdoctoral fellow who graduated from Peking University, was evaluated by social morality as unfilial.
What happened between the Peking University doctor, who was labeled "unfilial", and his parents? Why is Wang Yongqiang, who has received higher education, unwilling to honor his parents? What kind of bitterness does Wang Yongqiang have? Today, we will tell the story between Wang Yongqiang, a doctor at Peking University, and his parents.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > public opinion</h1>
Some time ago, Peking University Doctor Wang Yongqiang's refusal to go home to visit his parents caused a heated discussion among netizens on the Internet, and even caused tens of millions of netizens to constantly insult him, saying that he was "unfilial son". The media took turns to report and interview, and Wang Yongqiang's parents also kept crying in front of the camera, and their sons were unwilling to pay attention to their mother's condition, and did not even look at it.
In the beginning, Wang Yongqiang has been silent on the Internet, but as many netizens have criticized online in this incident, Wang Yongqiang's personal information has been found by netizens. The media then came forward and contacted him to find out what was going on and why he didn't want to go home to visit his parents.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="7" > crazy squeeze</h1>
Under Wang Yongqiang's narration, the media learned about all the events that happened between him and his parents. Wang Yongqiang was born in 1969 in this poor peasant family, the youngest child in the family, but the only source of income in this family can only be the meager income earned by his father selling rat poison. Under the pressure of the economy, the family life is very difficult and poor.
But Wang Yongqiang, who grew up under such difficult conditions, likes to study very rarely, and his grades in school are also very good. But his parents did not have the so-called "reading to change fate" idea, before going to college, Wang Yongqiang's parents only felt that he should drop out of school and return home, become the family's labor force, and even go to school again and again to force Wang Yongqiang to quit school.
Fortunately, with Wang Yongqiang's own continuous efforts, he persevered in his studies, and even passed the university with his own efforts. I thought that when I went to college, my parents would never find any more trouble for him, but what Wang Yongqiang did not expect was that this was the beginning of his life troubles. As soon as Wang Yongqiang stepped into the door of Peking University, his parents began to squeeze this ordinary child recklessly.
After he was admitted to college, his parents frantically boasted about his admission to college in the village, and even kept boasting to the people in the village that their sons could arrange jobs for them there. But Wang Yongqiang's parents are only bragging, so in the end, these messes still come to Wang Yongqiang himself.
After this, the parents did not know where to know the news that the state gave college students a monthly monetary subsidy of 4 yuan, and sent a letter to Wang Yongqiang overnight, asking him to send this subsidy home to subsidize the family, completely ignoring the economic pressure of his son at school, only knowing that he asked his son for money.
Under such pressure from his parents, Wang Yongqiang still silently endured, constantly working in the school, trying to earn his own living expenses, constantly studying hard, insisting on his own reading to change the path of life, successfully passing the later postgraduate examinations, and starting a new round of postgraduate study.
However, in order to keep his graduate student bonus in his hands, Wang Yongqiang did not tell his parents the news of the scholarship, but his parents still knew about the fact that the graduate students had scholarships after many inquiries, and even ran to the door of Wang Yongqiang's school to make a big fuss, saying that he was not filial piety.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="15" > disappointed</h1>
After these events, Wang Yongqiang, who silently accepted all this himself, finally realized that the family was just a vampire behind him. In Wang Yongqiang's heart, he also planted a plan to study well and escape from this vampire family. Later, his parents continued to ask him for graduate scholarships or doctoral grants, and even asked him to help his relatives' children enter school, and repeat the same technique without help.
Under such pressure, Wang Yongqiang survived his difficult period of study, and after graduating with a doctorate, Wang Yongqiang and his wife prepared to go to Japan for further study. But his parents still did not spare him, and even called him to take the whole family to Settle in Japan. Under such constant harassment, his wife also left him.
Such a native family made Wang Yongqiang's own marriage also come to a failure day, he was extremely disappointed in his parents, chose to settle in the United States, and never returned to his parents, only to have the beginning of the 77-year-old mother is terminally ill, postdoctoral son does not care about the news event.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="19" > Conclusion:</h1>
When Wang Yongqiang was confronted with the evaluation of his behavior in society, he only gave a seven-word answer, that is, "it is difficult for a clean official to judge family affairs." In the beginning, Wang Yongqiang's parents did not support him to study, and later the child tried to squeeze him after completing his studies, which can be described as a vague demand. In a happy family, parents and children can only become the warmest reliance on each other if they voluntarily pay for each other, rather than frantically asking for each other, but never willing to pay for themselves.