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What role does the first male who appears in the life of a father as a daughter have for his daughter? Some people may say that for their daughters, fathers should be deep as mountains and wide seas. The father's main role is to give his daughter strong protection.
In fact, the role of fathers on daughters is far more than that. The father is the daughter's earliest intimate contact with the opposite sex, which is the basis for the daughter's understanding of the relationship between men and women. Fathers have a great influence on their daughter's future mate choice and marriage. The relationship between father and daughter hides what her future marriage will look like.
The relationship between father and daughter is gentle and safe, and the daughter's future marriage relationship is more stable and happy
Psychologist Linda Nelson's book Between Father and Daughter: Strengthening the Rebuilding Relationship emphasizes the impact of a father on a daughter's marital status. She said that the company of a father and the daughter establish a gentle and safe relationship, which helps the daughter find an intimate, faithful partner.
As for the intimate father-daughter relationship, it means that when the daughter has her own opinions and ideas, she can express her thoughts to her father without fear. If the relationship between a father and daughter contains elements such as respect, love, and care, the daughter will also take these good elements to judge the quality of the relationship with men, and they are more resourceful in love or marriage, so the marriage is more stable and happy.
The relationship between father and daughter is bad and disharmonious, and the daughter's future marriage relationship is also prone to misfortune
In addition, Nelson also made a vivid and interesting analogy of the relationship between father and daughter and the impact on the future mate selection of daughters. She said that her daughter has a healthy father-daughter relationship, and her choice of mate is like walking into the store when she is full, and she can be patient, slowly choose, and make the best choice for herself. The daughter has a bad father-daughter relationship, her choice of mate is like going to the mall on an empty stomach, there is no patience to choose, and the last choice is likely to be not suitable for herself.
Therefore, if the relationship between father and daughter is bad and disharmonious, the daughter may not have a good judgment in the process of choosing a mate. You may be in a hurry to enter the marriage, and finally suddenly find that the marriage is wrong, wasted youth in vain, and tasted the misfortune of marriage.
A father who participates more in his daughter's life and interacts positively with her daughter is good for her future marriage
The father is the starting point for the daughter to understand the relationship between men and women, and the relationship between the father and the daughter will be faithfully projected on the daughter's marriage and love choice in the future. Therefore, the healthy growth of the daughter and the happiness of the future must be inseparable from the father. However, many fathers and daughters now have a more distant and serious relationship. Therefore, I still hope that fathers will learn to interact positively with their daughters and participate in their daughters' lives, so that they can escort their daughters' future marital happiness.
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