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As a parent, the most hated sentence is "the daughter is the little lover of the father's previous life", there is no one.
When watching a variety show, several male stars in it were discussing whether they would have sons or daughters in the future. Among them, most male celebrities said that they liked their daughters and wanted to have a daughter. Why? Because the daughter is the intimate little cotton jacket of the parents. Like a male friend of mine, my wife prayed every day during her pregnancy to be a daughter. When asked if the fetus was male or female, he would say it was a daughter. In fact, there was no inspection at that time, and I did not know the specific situation, but it was to say that it was a daughter.
It can be seen that many young fathers are partial to their daughters, otherwise there would be no such thing as a "daughter slave". But no matter how much you love your daughter, no matter how much your daughter likes her father, she must also pay attention to proportions, otherwise she knows that it is the father and daughter, and those who do not know think that it is an old husband and a young wife.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > the sense of CP between father and daughter, which is particularly uncomfortable</h1>
There is a video on the Internet, the father and daughter in the video are eating, the father clipped a chopstick to feed the daughter, when the daughter came, the father suddenly kissed her. The daughter was stunned at first, and then with a helpless face, she turned her head and gave him a kiss. Stripped of identity, I will also feel so sweet, like an idol drama. But they were father and daughter, and the daughter was 12 years old (now 14) when the video was filmed.
Whether it is the extra close feelings between father and daughter, or deliberately doing it for the sake of Bo eyeballs, I hope that everyone will clearly realize that after the daughter reaches a certain age, remember to have intimate behavior. I hope everyone knows that the female eldest should avoid her father.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >What is the female avoidant father? </h1>
As the saying goes, a female adult should avoid her father. What does that mean? That is to say, when girls grow up, they have to maintain a certain physical distance from their parents of the opposite sex, that is, their fathers. What is physical distance is not to have too much physical contact, and do not have mouth-to-mouth kisses after the age of 3. The daughter changes clothes, and the father should take the initiative to avoid. When the father enters his daughter's room, he must take the initiative to knock on the door and give the child respect. When it's hot in the summer, Dad at least has to walk around the living room in big pants.
Like some feeding, especially intimate movements, it is best not to appear between father and daughter. Of course, children can do before the age of 3, and after the age of 3, especially after the age of 10, there should be no relevant behavior to avoid misleading the child.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > what happens to a woman who does not avoid her father </h1>
▶ Growing up, it is easy to meet scumbags
If a girl does not know how to keep a certain distance from the opposite sex from a young age, it will also blur the sense of boundaries between men and women when she grows up. Such girls do not know how to maintain their due measure in the process of interacting with the opposite sex, and the probability of encountering scumbags will be relatively high. Because not all men are dads who won't lie to her, but she doesn't understand this, she encounters more troubles on the road to growth.
By then, she probably resented her father the most, complaining that he did not teach her a sense of boundaries between the opposite sex.
▶ Father-daughter relationships deteriorate.
Many people think that the father and daughter who had a good relationship when they were young will grow up better. But in fact, it is not, the father-daughter relationship that was too close when I was a child is easier to "break up" when I grow up. Because compared to the lack of father's love, "when avoiding" is the biggest harm to the daughter.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > what a dad should do best for his daughter</h1>
▶After the age of 3, avoid bathing your daughter.
After the age of 3, children have begun to develop gender awareness and gradually understand the difference between men and women. Therefore, after the age of 3, fathers should avoid bathing their daughters and avoid wearing intimate clothes for their daughters. After that, I gradually let my daughter know the difference between father and mother.
▶After the age of 3, avoid changing clothes in front of your daughter.
After the daughter is 3 years old, the father will avoid changing clothes in front of his daughter. When changing clothes, in order to avoid your daughter suddenly coming in, lock the door to avoid embarrassment.
▶After the age of 3, avoid mouth-to-mouth kisses.
Dad likes his daughter, understandably, but it's best not to kiss mouth-to-mouth. When expressing feelings, try to replace it with hugs or cheek kisses, and there should be no excessive intimacy.
After the child grows up, the parents of the opposite sex must know how to distance themselves physically and increase the psychological distance. In this way, it is best for children.
【Topic Discussion: How to think that fathers and daughters have excessively intimate behavior?】 】
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