Since ancient times, appearance has been the first symbol of distinguishing people from people, and each person has his own unique facial features and unique divine charm. Filled with these personal symbols, the image of the person is also enriched.
As the saying goes: Phases are born from the heart, and people who know how to meet each other can often see the true connotation of a person through these appearances. A rich man acquires this skill. When he was entertaining the guests, he expected that a single stick who came to rub rice would definitely do a great job, and after meeting him, he said to the single stick: Marry my daughter!
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >: opportunities are won on their own</h1>
This rich man who is good at face is named Lü Gong, he is a famous figure at that time, Lü Gong has always liked to make friends, whenever he encounters like-minded and extraordinary characters, Lü Gong will not hesitate to express his admiration.
People's feelings are mutual, and in the exchanges that come and go, Lü Gong has made a lot of friends. The county order of Pei County was one of his many friends. With the continuous increase of business, Lü Gong's was also jealous and hated by some people, and in order to avoid the pursuit and killing of the Qiu family, Lü Gong moved his family to Pei County.
As Lü Gong's friend, Peixian County Ling naturally wanted to entertain this close friend with his heart, and he hoped to use enthusiasm to dispel the sadness of leaving his hometown for Lü Gong. In order to fully reflect their friendship, the county order of Pei County prepared to set up a banquet for Lü Gong to wash the dust, and after the news came, the whole county became a sensation, and people with heads and faces from all walks of life were ready to come to the banquet.
Liu Bang, who was penniless, was also eager to do this, and he hoped to rub rice, get to know some excellent people in this banquet, and also hope to find some opportunities in the banquet. However, it is embarrassing that Liu Bang is not on the invited list.
This banquet was originally a carnival of the rich, and at this time, Liu Bang's identity was far from meeting the standard of attending the banquet. Opportunities are to be won by himself, Liu Bang, who has always been humble and unobtrusive, does not care whether he is invited or not, he is determined to participate in this banquet that does not belong to him.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > two: the strange fate at the banquet</h1>
What made Liu Bang happy was that the host of the banquet was his good friend Xiao He, who had always been very affectionate and righteous, and he knew Liu Bang's character very well and understood Liu Bang's intentions very well. Therefore, Xiao He took Liu Bang to this banquet, and as soon as he entered the rich man's house, Liu Bang said loudly: "I will pay ten thousand yuan!" "
This news really surprised Xiao He, he knew that the poor boy Liu Bang did not have so much money, so he smiled and explained to Lü Gong. Xiao He hoped that Lü Gong would not take Liu Bang's words to heart, and after listening to Xiao He's explanation, Lü Gong became interested in Liu Bang, and he carefully met Liu Bang, and after reading the face, he did not hesitate to say to Liu Bang: "Marry my daughter!" "
The guests who came to congratulate were stunned by what they saw, they could not believe their ears, how a rich man could offer to marry his daughter to a single stick who came to rub rice, which seemed inconceivable to many people.
However, Lü Gong, who had always had an opinion, did not change his mind because of the persuasion of everyone, and Lü Gong looked at Liu Bangsheng's tall and mighty, qi Yuxuan, and revealed his heroic spirit with his hands and feet, and he expected that Liu Bang would definitely achieve something in the future, so he immediately arranged for his daughter Lü Yan to marry Liu Bang.
Time can answer everything, and under a hard struggle, Liu Bang finally achieved a hegemony, he became the founding emperor of the Western Han Dynasty, and also became a hero admired by all generations. "One person wins the Tao, the chicken and dog ascend to heaven", the Lü clan is also thriving under the protection of Liu Bang, and all the glory of the Lü family comes from the wisdom of Lü Gong.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > three: the reason for marrying a daughter</h1>
Among the many guests, Lü Gong did not hesitate to marry his daughter to Liu Bang, which contained the following two reasons:
1: Lü Gong's request to the opposite face
Habits often affect a person's decision-making, different people in the face of decision-making factors will consider different factors, Lü Gong attaches great importance to a person's face, he is well versed in the truth of the heart, therefore, in the face of a stranger, Lü Gong will often choose to judge the person's character by appearance, to predict the development of this person.
Therefore, when he saw Liu Bang at the banquet, Lü Gong, who had countless faces, was immediately shocked by Liu Bang's face, he had never seen someone with such a powerful aura, nor had he ever seen someone with such a decent face.
Lü Gong knew that this face represented Liu Bang and was not an ordinary person, although this poor boy had nothing at this time, but he would definitely do a great deal in the future. As a father, Lü Gong naturally hoped that his daughter could find someone worth relying on, and Liu Bang was undoubtedly the most suitable candidate.
2: Lü Gong's adventurous spirit
When making decisions, people tend to present two states, one is to meet risks, and the other is to avoid risks. Decision makers who like to embrace dedication enjoy the thrill of an uncertain outcome, and they are willing to invest more in risky actions.
These decision makers believe that this is the only way to achieve greater benefits. Risk-averse decision makers tend to make conservative decisions, never allowing their costs to be lost or taking on more risks for greater efficiency. In past experiences and surveys, people who have achieved great success have often been people who dare to take risks.
There is no doubt that Lü Gong is the former, he likes risks, and he also hopes to get greater benefits. In ordinary life, Lü Gong came into contact with a large number of people, he had mastered the ability to recognize people and objects early on, just one glance, Lü Gong could perceive the purpose of those various people, and when facing Liu Bang, Lü Gong saw a style different from that of mortals.
Based on his own experience, Lü Gong knew that Liu Bang was not an ordinary person, however, until the end, no one could be sure whether Liu Bang would achieve success. Lü Gong did not care about this uncertainty, he believed in his own judgment, and hoped to exchange the risk for his daughter's happiness and the prosperity of the family.
It turned out that Lü Gong's choice was correct, and through the rapids of risk, Lü Gong finally saw the desired ending.
Lü Gong deduced Liu Bang's future development based on his face and achieved a good story, however, face to face is a mysterious technology, and few people can really master this technology.
Therefore, in life, we must not judge people by their appearance, but should judge a person through observation and contact.
Only in this way can we not be fooled by the beautiful skin bag. In addition, people should also think seriously when making decisions, weigh the risks and results, and strive to make the decision that is most in line with their hearts, without shame, regret, fearlessness, and fear, and strive to live their lives well!