In 2000, Wen Bixia admitted in front of the media that "there was a rich man who said that he wanted to take tens of millions of packages a month to support me, but I refused."
As a result, Wen Bixia finally chose to marry billionaire He Zuguang, is this what 2021 calls "punching the face".
Wen Bixia was born in the cold door to enter the entertainment circle with beauty, and has been labeled as a star before starring in Daji.
Playing the most beautiful dai has charmed the king of Lu, but also fascinated the billionaire He Zuguang, and even after marrying He Zuguang, he has to say that he is afraid of being out of shape and not having children, so unreasonable demands on the rich should not be.
So wen Bixia, as a female star who was born in the cold door and relied on large-scale dramas, why did she have the courage to make such a request?
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Wen Bixia's childhood can be said to be a typical model for the tragic childhood of many TV series heroines now.
A small rental house, inhabited by seven or eight children, the mother is weak and sick, the father is addicted to gambling, this is Wen Bixia's childhood.
When Wen Bixia was still four or five years old, the family could not open the pot herself.
Wen Bixia's mother could not afford to buy food to go to the casino to find Wen Bixia's father, who knew that the man who had been in the casino for a few days and nights and did not go home had money to gamble but did not have money to buy food for his wife, and even beat him up.
Wen Bixia's mother returned home to look at the hope of the eight children in the family, and Wen Bixia's mother made a bold decision, she wanted to sell Wen Bixia, the best-looking of the eight children, for money to let the rest of the family live.
At the age of four or five, I don't know what business is, but I also have a memory, and Wen Bixia later talked about it in an interview, "The days when I was abandoned and cried was something I still can't let go of."
Wen Bixia was finally sold to a rich man, and when Wen Bixia's howls and cries could not be coaxed down, the rich man sent Wen Bixia back softly and gave some money to Wen Bixia's mother, asking her not to sell the child again.
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Perhaps because of the experience of being sold since childhood, Wen Bixia knows what the consequences of not having money will be, so she has thought since she was a child that if there is no love, she must have a lot of money.
There is a popular saying that knowledge changes fate, but for Wen Bixia, it is not, because she knows nothing about the knowledge in the textbook, although she has worked hard, but she can't learn.
As long as the road to money is more than one legal, soon when Wen Bixia was fifteen years old, she was found to be an actor by a star scout because she was clean and beautiful, she accompanied her friend to interview for a model, and Wen Bixia, who was waiting outside, was discovered by the star scout, who said:
"Pretty girl, I see you look good, are you interested in filming?"
Wen Bixia did not understand but very boldly agreed to the star scout, so Wen Bixia received the first work in her life is "Pretty Sister Boy"
Wen Bixia successfully entered the entertainment circle after filming this play, and also successfully earned the first bucket of gold in her life of six thousand yuan, Wen Bixia gave all these six thousand yuan to her mother to improve her life and buy clothes for her brothers and sisters.
Wen Bixia's first work was still very well received, and the second work also followed.
That will be Wen Bixia is still underage, her partner is the heavenly king superstar Andy Lau, Andy Lau was not very hot at that time, the first time the two met seemed particularly awkward and overwhelmed.
Wen Bixia knew that there would be a kiss scene in this movie, but when she saw and handsome Andy Lau, who was not much older than herself, she agreed.
But Wen Bixia, who was not deeply involved in the world, was deceived.
In the works cooperated with Andy Lau, Wen Bixia plays a dancer, and Andy Lau plays her boyfriend, but Wen Bixia, as a dancer, has a lot of large-scale dramas with Wu Mengda, who plays the role of the gang boss.
Wen Bixia was unwilling, but she had already collected money and signed a contract to shoot half of it, and she had to refuse, and after those several large-scale scenes were filmed, Wen Bixia often had nightmares.
Even the first love boyfriend broke up with herself because of those scenes, so that after filming this work, Wen Bixia no longer wanted to shoot a drama, and went to study after fading out of the entertainment circle.
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Wen Bixia may still be nostalgic for the feeling of being famous and being noticed, so she debuted again after reading books for a few years, but this time she did not want to take it off again.
She took over the filming of "Underground Love" with her previous fame, and in this work she played a young and lovely literary girl with Liang Chaowei, but Wen Bixia, who wore black-rimmed glasses and cut the student's head, was far less brilliant than the lady with big waves and big red lips.
Therefore, there was no response to Wen Bixia's several works later, and watching several works of her own efforts have not received attention, Wen Bixia's concept of sensitive words such as stars has once again changed.
In fact, Wen Bixia has taken so many works that look like good family women just to change the star label she once had because of the large-scale drama with Wu Mengda, but she did not succeed. At this time, a well-known director found Wen Bixia and said:
"As long as you are willing to sacrifice, I can even find Ren Dahua to play for you."
Wen Bixia finally picked up the labels of star drops and stars that she had once hated for the sake of fame and profit in the entertainment industry.
In 1995, when Wen Bixia was 29 years old, she collaborated with Ren Dahua on "The Shock". There are a lot of large-scale dramas in this work, especially Wen Bixia is completely naked, and a sheet is draped on the outside.
In this film, many people are accusing Wen Bixia of relying on her body to get out of position, and it is more interesting and even directly said that Wen Bixia does not want to face people to do these ugly words.
However, Wen Bixia said in an interview: "It is really beautiful to look at the picture of naked and covered with sheets in the camera, and I dedicate myself to art, not for money."
It's just that the words are so frank, those ugly words and strange eyes finally beat Wen Bixia, this time Wen Bixia was more serious than the last time, suffering from depression, so she temporarily withdrew from the entertainment industry again to treat depression.
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After her depression improved, Wen Bixia wanted to make a comeback to make money, but at that time, Hong Kong had no place for her, so she could only turn to the mainland to play the seductive Su Daji, which is also the first role that most of us know Wen Bixia.
The role of Su Daji successfully made Wen Bixia come out of depression, and also made everyone's impression of her no longer only a star, of course, the role of Su Daji also successfully let billionaire He Zuguang see her.
After Wen Bixia became famous, many rich people wanted to ask her to eat and drink, but in fact, they all wanted to raise her to make her a canary, and these Wen Bixia were very clear.
It's just that although Wen Bixia loves money very much, she loves true love more, and Wen Bixia has repeatedly confessed to the media that "her career has become a mess and cannot be reversed, and her love cannot repeat the same mistakes."
He Zuguang has an equal vision for Wen Bixia, does not consider Wen Bixia's past various peach blossom news, does not care what role Wen Bixia has played, and for Wen Bixia, he is rushing to get married, rather than being raised.
This made Wen Bixia very moved, so not long after filming the "List of Conferred Gods", the two officially interacted.
After the two had been dating for a while, He Zuguang proposed to Wen Bixia, and when he took Wen Bixia to meet the elders of the family, everyone opposed Wen Bixia's marriage, and even He Zuguang's mother said indignantly:
Unless I die, this undressed star can't marry into the He family
He Zuguang heard this sentence and said nothing, silently took Wen Bixia's hand and walked out of the hotel firmly, between his mother and Wen Bixia, He Zuguang chose Wen Bixia.
The two held a grand wedding in Thailand in 2000, and many people lamented that Wen Bixia was really completely married from Liang, which was incredible.
After Wen Bixia and He Zuguang got married, they made a very unreasonable request to He Zuguang, Wen Bixia said: "He Zuguang, I don't want to have children."
He Zuguang, as the eldest son of the family, faced with the heavy responsibility of passing on the generations, out of respect and love for Wen Bixia, he actually agreed to this request, but also proposed that Wen Bixia could no longer shoot large-scale dramas
Wen Bixia thought that now life is not worried, if you don't shoot, you won't shoot, so she agreed to He Zuguang.
Wen Bixia explained in front of the media that this is because she is afraid of being out of shape, so she does not want to have children, and such an answer is probably difficult to stand.
At that time, the Hong Kong media also speculated that Wen Bixia and He Zuguang might have physical problems with each other and had difficulty in giving birth.
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In fact, if the two people are really together, it doesn't matter if there are no children, it didn't take long for Wen Bixia and He Zuguang to adopt a little boy, and He Zuguang bought a property for Wen Bixia in Hong Kong and Shanghai and even the United States in order to make Wen Bixia happy
He also took time to take Wen Bixia and his son's family of three to the beach to play, but this happiness did not last long, because it was not long before the Hong Kong paparazzi took a photo of He Zuguang packing up his things and running away from home overnight.
It turned out that Wen Bixia's life as a rich wife after marriage was too comfortable, so she wanted to try to find some jobs to see, she had been working as an actor before, so she wanted to be a singer to see.
Wen Bixia found the popular singer Amu to cooperate, hoping that he could help him improve his singing ability, the name Amu may be relatively unfamiliar to everyone, but I believe that "There is a kind of love called letting go" is from Amu's hands.
After the two came together, there were frequent rumors, and later they were even photographed wen Bixia and Amu walking into the apartment alone for three hours before coming out.
Such explosive news was written by the news media at the time as "fifty-one-year-old Wen Bixia will become a popular singer at night and sneak, personally put a green hat on He Zuguang", such news made He Zuguang no longer stand it:
"I think I treat you not thinly, even if you don't want to have children, I accepted, why do you have to go back to your old business, let me lose all my face as a man"
At this time, Wen Bixia also felt that He Zuguang had always cared about her identity and her past, and she also said harsh words without choosing words for a while:
"Yes, I just went back to my old business, you wanted to marry me in the first place, not that I didn't want to wrap my face around you."
This sentence completely hurt He Zuguang's heart, so he moved out of the mansion overnight to live in his other house.
At night, looking at the dark mansion Wen Bixia panicked, she once again remembered her experience and feelings of being sold by her mother, so she hurriedly clarified on Weibo that she and Ah Mu were only together to talk about songs, and there was no so-called in-depth communication.
He Zuguang and He Zuguang just quarreled and did not divorce.
Then Wen Bixia lowered her posture to coax He Zuguang, this was the first time that Wen Bixia lowered her posture in the past few years since they were married, and in the end, He Zuguang could not resist Wen Bixia's gentleness, and finally chose to forgive and continue to be with Wen Bixia.
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Now Wen Bixia is 55 years old, and the face of Wen Bixia seen on Douyin is no longer collagen, and it is no longer the seductive Su Daji.
After He Zuguang and Wen Bixia reconciled, the two often posted photos of traveling together on social media, but the photos looked intimate, but they no longer felt like they were as envious as before.
In fact, at that time, there were many female celebrities who undressed and became famous in Hong Kong, such as Shu Qi, Weng Hong and other female stars who were out of the circle in this way.
The difference is that Shu Qi realized the sadness of falling off the star after becoming famous, and with his acting skills, he put on his clothes one by one, and even refused to accept a large-scale film invitation like "Color Ring" after wearing it, and he cherished his feathers very much.
And Wen Bixia only insisted on a few works and could not earn money and then picked up the label that was difficult to throw away, so the original sin was not the label of a star, the original sin was Wen Bixia's desire.
There is a line in "Detective Chinatown" that says it well, "While you are staring into the abyss, the abyss is also staring at you."
If Wen Bixia can firmly not shoot large-scale dramas since she entered the industry, if she can firmly not get rid of fame, perhaps He Zuguang does not have so much distrust of Wen Bixia.
It's just that people will face a lot of choices in their lives, and every choice they make will pave the way for the later results, the clothes they take off are not so good to wear again, and the choices they have made cannot be regretted.