<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > from the repentance of a 56-year-old mother who worked two jobs in Guangzhou:</h1>
Son, seeing the way you are now, my mother is extremely distressed but there is nothing she can do, because I am old.
If I could, I'd rather choose again, educate you, and I'll stick to these 2 principles.
Although you already have several sisters, for the sake of mom and dad a little traditional ideas and ideas, mom chose to give birth to you at the age of 40. In the countryside, I have to admit that having a boy is a very important thing to pass on, the mother is not a son preference, for several sisters is also very caring, but for you as the youngest of several children, the mother will take care of you a little more.
Mom has always thought that you are the only boy in the family, will listen to your parents' education to study well and enter a good university, the future of life Mother has already thought about it, you are responsible for studying well and growing up well, but now see that you have only turned 16 years old and went out to work in an electronics factory in Guangdong, my mother is very unhappy.
If I can start over, I will definitely abide by these 2 principles on the way to educating you, and I will not be easily neglected.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" >01 Mom should not cry to you, let alone fill you with worries and burdens</h1>
All along, we are just an ordinary rural family, from our generation up, are farmers, plus mom and dad gave birth to your 6 children, the family economy is really difficult, many times your little requirements we parents have not done, really very guilty to you.
Son, my mother admits that she has done something wrong and should not cry to you poorly, especially when you and Sister Lan wanted to buy a new dress many years ago, I shouted:
"What to buy, didn't you see that there was no money at home?" I have worked hard enough to buy clothes for a few of you, I am reluctant to buy them myself, and I will buy you another one in the New Year! ”
Think about how ironic it is that my own children want to buy a dress and I so loudly refuse and scold.
Every time I think about this, I feel that I should not be, you are all good children of mothers, not a burden for mothers, but mothers do not have so much ability to meet your little wishes, and mothers are still so angry with you, it really should not be.
Son, the mother has been living a long time, what is to save a little, what is reluctant, thinking is to leave the money to let you live a little better in the future, and you will use a lot of money to study later, the old house where the family has lived for nearly 30 years is not willing to tear down and change into a new house, and the mother can survive.
Little you, since then, have become particularly sensible, but never asked your mother again, let your mother buy you new clothes and new things, because the little you have learned to suppress your needs and desires, how painful and regretful.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="13" >02 Gave up school after graduating from junior high school and didn't care enough about you, which is the biggest mistake mom did</h1>
Mom is 40 years old, you originally thought you would be the second college student in the family, but I didn't expect my mother to be disappointed.
You graduated from junior high school at the age of 15, played at home for a while, went out to work in an electronics factory in Guangdong, you have been looking forward to making money independently to support yourself, yes, you can indeed work independently. But that wasn't what Mom wanted, and it wasn't what Dad wanted to see.
Electronics factory, is the well-known assembly line operation, the work content is single, mechanized repetitive, the environment is single, and even there is pollution dust, etc., whether it is with your career ideals or future, do not match.
This road can be said to be a mechanized repetitive operation at a glance. After a long time, people are numb.
You said that you are now 4500 yuan a month, you have money, and you also called 500 yuan to buy me clothes, I was speechless for a while, my mother does not need you to return to me so early.
This 4500 yuan, you save money for a month with overtime in exchange, you only rest 2 days a month, 12 hours a day, only 30 minutes to eat, a month round of night shift in exchange, son, mother does not want you to work so hard, do not want you to earn such hard money, do you understand?
You said the remaining 4,000 yuan, spend 300 yourself, the rest of the month after saving up to renovate or rebuild a new house for me and dad to live in, hearing this, mom is full of heartache.
When did the little boy whose mother jumped around become such a sensible and mature man?
Mom's baby, 16 years old, is still a lot of people when they were in high school, how happy you were in school.
I don't know if you deliberately scored a low score or really didn't get into a better high school, you said that you couldn't go to a better high school, no matter how we persuaded you or even let you re-study for a year, you didn't agree, maybe what you think is that you have to go out to work earlier to make money anyway.
When you were in junior high school, your mother has been working to do two jobs, both of which are engaged in cleaning and sanitation, and the work is hard, so your mother has always let you study hard and study well, but because of this, your mother has not given you enough companionship and care. There have been many times when you have called your mother to tell me what happened at school, and even my mother has ignored it.
Son, Mom did it wrong.
I don't know if you can forgive Mom.
If you can, your mother hopes that you will come back to study well, and your mother will also plan to quit your job, and you will come back to study well in the future, and your mother will make you food every weekend at home. If you are willing to re-enter the high school in the third year of junior high school, it is the most willing thing for your mother to see, and your mother believes that you will definitely do it.
You don't have to worry about age, everyone's life trajectory and life path are different, so you just have to study and seize every opportunity, and the rest is left to Mom and Dad to deal with.
Son, the mother did not give you enough care and companionship, really sorry, in order to live the mother has been running around outside, if you do not study well, the future will really suffer losses and hardships, the mother hopes that your future will not be so like your mother.
Mom really hopes that time can slow down a little, let my son grow up slowly, mom love you again, mom must try to be a good mother.
Love your mom.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="15" >03 Mom's remorse, I hope you understand</h1>
The above is the regret of a mother, she missed the time when her child's growth needs the most companionship and care, and even when the child makes important choices in life, she does not give a clear and correct direction.
I could see that this mother was very sorry.
But life is always multi-faceted, many times it is to please life, everyone is living the one hand for life, on the other hand for the future, I hope that her son can understand the mother's heart.
In reality, every family, whether it is to cultivate children's independent ability or learning ability, is a problem that parents should pay attention to. There is a saying that living to learn from old age is not just a famous saying, nor should it be just an empty phrase.
Although everyone is advocating the importance of reading, I think everyone has not yet realized its benefits, the importance of reading, in fact, far more than we imagined, it can bring us the harvest, it is also difficult for us to estimate.
And now, we always seem to be talking about the importance of reading, how important reading is, everyone knows. Usually in life, everyone will also advocate reading more, and I believe that for reading, it should be advocated by the whole people. No matter what age, no matter what profession, no matter what status, you can go to school, which should also be the lowest threshold of an activity.
Here, if there are parents who do not know what books to read to their children during the extracurricular holidays and so on, I can recommend this set of books, the series of extracurricular books for primary school students, since they were on the shelves, the sales volume has rapidly exceeded 5,000 copies, becoming a popular extracurricular book for students, parents and teachers.
If there are parents of primary school students at home, you should take a set home to show the baby, the full set of books is general, the content is very comprehensive, the content is about the child's curiosity, cultivate the interest in extracurricular reading, history science, painting, science, nature, human body, healthy life, etc. have interesting and detailed descriptions, very grounded.
Whether it is the content font, comics, or outer packaging, the quality of this set of books is very exquisite, I bought 2 sets of myself to send friends to say that it is good, children like it, and it is not expensive.
It is really a very good choice as a parent-child reading, giving it to the baby at home or sending it to a friend's child as a gift, which is a very good choice.
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