The famous writer Qian Zhongshu once described love and marriage this way: To be honest, no matter who you marry, after marriage, you will always find that you are not marrying the original person, but another person.
When in love, I always want to show my best side to each other, but after marriage, with the passage of time, no one will live with a mask every day, and will return to their original appearance. At this time, you will be surprised to find that before it was so beautiful, so one of the immortals, will it be the one next to you? How does it feel like a different person?
Some people say that marriage is the graveyard of love, in fact, I think marriage is the continuation of love, starting with love and ending with marriage. Even if it is inevitable that there will be stumbling and noisy together after marriage, it does not prevent me from insisting that the most romantic thing is to slowly grow old with my lover.
In the world of feelings, loyalty and self-control are a person's most precious qualities.
A recent video circulating on the Internet, successfully attracted the attention of netizens, was jokingly called the "faucet incident", but also asked us to think again about the problem of loyalty and self-control in marriage, in the face of temptation and increasingly dull life, how do we keep our love fresh, how to run our marriage, in fact, this is a very important subject of life.
The video circulated online, but the filmmakers were the parties themselves. This makes many people feel incomprehensible, being green, how can they still shoot videos and upload them online, this is not enough to humiliate people in a small area, do you want to lose people in front of the people of the whole country? At first, I thought it was too unacceptable. When such a thing happens, it must be very angry and wants to kill people, but taking a video with a mobile phone and then posting it on the Internet, such a strange thing, it is really difficult to understand how the parties think.
An event that seems very clear to netizens, but it has been made up and down, the plot has been reversed repeatedly, and sure enough, life is more exciting than the TV series.
The day of the event
Mr. Rong, the party, went home to get clothes because it was cold. Who knew that the door of his house was unlocked, so he called his wife. But the wife did not open the door until 20 minutes later. He felt suspicious. Seeing that the family is in a mess, there is a man, this scene, how not to make people suspicious? Coupled with the strange appearance that his wife usually showed when he saw this man, Mr. Rong was even more suspicious.
So he confronted his wife and the man hiding in the closet with a "knife," but they claimed that the man had come to fix the faucet at home. In fact, everyone knows in their hearts that if they really come to repair the water pipe, one is not to lock the door, and the other does not have to hide in the big wardrobe.
Of course, Mr. Rong was not stupid, he was very angry, and finally the knife in his hand still stabbed the man's leg.
Then they went to the police station to solve the problem. The man sued Mr. Rong for hurting himself, but Mr. Rong sued the other party for forcing his wife. But because the wife admitted that it was voluntary, she did not force a case to be filed. So the wife changed her mind and said that she was forced. In his own home, he also said that he was forced, who believed it, the uncles were well-informed, and who listened to them blindly and directly refused to file a case.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="22" Two days after >, the other party posted an apology letter from Mr. and Mrs. Yung on the Internet</h1>
When Mr. Rong's troubles have not yet been resolved, the other party posted an apology letter on the Internet, which was an apology letter given by Mr. Rong and his wife. Roughly meaning:
He did repair the faucet for the other family, because the husband was not at home, and just when the faucet at home was broken, the wife asked the man to change the faucet at home.
Ten minutes later, the husband came home and bumped into the men who were repairing the faucets, suspecting that they had a leg and threatening with knives. After negotiation, the couple apologized to the man who repaired the faucet and compensated 3,000 yuan.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="21" mr. Rong debunked rumors online >, saying that the apology letter was fake</h1>
Mr. Rong saw that the other party posted such news on the Internet, and he was not far behind, so with the help of the media, he also fought back, and he also held his id card, swearing that everything he said was true and could be legally responsible, and that his wife was "good" with the other party.
Mr. Rong said that the other party has been pestering his wife, his wife began to be willing, and then belonged to the forced, he loved his wife very much, so he chose to believe in his wife, in order to continue to live, they chose to move.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="26" > recently interviewed, Mr. Yung said he did not want to continue living with his wife</h1>
Mr. Yung has always said that he believes that his wife and the other party must be involuntary, but he does not want to continue to live with his wife.
As soon as these words came out, everyone could understand Mr. Rong's actions at that time, and when such a thing happened, either endure or leave. It is really strange to make such a shameful thing as Mr. Yung make such a shameful thing bigger. But now that he had spoken his heart, he didn't want to continue living with his wife at all.
Then his series of operations can be understood. On the surface, he loves his wife and hides his wife, but in fact, he has two considerations, the wife is not voluntary, you can sue the other party to force his wife, call him to prison, and then divorce his wife. If the wife is voluntary, then the mobile phone video is the evidence, the other party is at fault, he is the no-fault party, the other party can clean up, it is also a lesson for the wife's infidelity.
In fact, this is his perfect plan. In the beginning, he did not intend to continue to live, in fact, it was a little bloody, and when he encountered such a thing, divorce was also a very rational choice. Out of G only 0 times and countless times. If you don't think of this in the future, you will be uncomfortable, the seeds of doubt will be buried deeply, in fact, the future days will not be happy. Divorce is actually a wise choice.
However, Mr. Rong made such an ugly and private thing public, and it seems that he said that he loved his wife, but in fact, he hated his wife and the man to the bone, deliberately making such a big deal and making them shameful. However, they are not in order, and they cannot blame others.
There are also people who suspect that Mr. Rong is taking the opportunity to attract attention to traffic, and then increase fans to bring goods live. This is also the speculation of some netizens, telling us to wait and see how things will develop in the future. Time can best see everything.
Men and women in marriage are advised to learn patience and restraint, and not to let their emotions leak out. If there is really no feeling, you can choose divorce, split your legs in marriage, it is really immoral, many times it is easy to cause a catastrophe, the disintegration of marriage is a small matter, and it is not a minority that causes tragedies.
What do you think about this? Do you really think that this woman is forced? Mr. Yung took such a video to expose on the Internet, is it really good? Even if it is a divorce, but don't forget, that woman will always be the mother of your child, why not break up peacefully, since you grabbed each other to split your legs, then choose to divorce quietly, both to save your face, the other party will also be grateful to yourself, mainly taking into account the future face of the child. So, who do you say is the winner? I think they are all losers.
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