Of all the relationships in this world, the relationship between mother and child is the most innocent and beautiful.
We invited Mrs. Yang Shuo's wife, Wang Liwen, and our two children to share the happy growth process.
In these bland but real details, share a parent-child time that is not anxious, not compared, and not measured.
Wang Liwen: Accompanying growth is the greatest satisfaction
What my children taught me: Plain love is the truest
"On my son's birthday last year, everyone blew candles to make him make a wish, we don't know what he made, and then he quietly told my mother that his wish was that the whole family could be safe and healthy. I was particularly touched, I may have been thinking about new toys and delicious food when I was his age, and I was particularly pleased that a 6-year-old made such a simple wish. ”
During the shooting, Wang Liwen returned to the dressing room to change clothes, leaving the brothers and sisters to draw villains on the ground outside to play, playing until hi's brother directly took off his shoes to the side, and his sister Xiao Tangyuan immediately went over to pick them up and gave them to his brother especially well.
Pill head, peach face, laughing with deep dimples, all the women present were melted by this little angel, but Wang Liwen laughed and commented: "She, she is a female man." ”
Seven or eight years ago, he and Yang Shuo became acquainted with the drama, fell in love in a low-key manner, and cultivated positive results. Today, her son XiaoMao is already a first-grade primary school student, but Wang Liwen is still full of girlishness, giving people the feeling of the gentle Ouyang teacher in "Happy Planet".
Mom
Printed coat: Gucci
Striped print skirt: Gucci
Orange shirt: Gucci
Leather platform shallow shoes: Gucci
Little daughter
Children's print dress: Gucci
Black butterfly leather shoes: Birkenstock
Son
Children's sports coat: Gucci
Children's printed slippers: Gucci
Children's Print School Bag: Gucci
Speaking of her son, Wang Liwen's expression revealed full of happiness and pride. When his son was 3 years old, one day he suddenly said: "Mom, you have another sister" Thinking that it was just a child talking about fun, Wang Liwen jokingly asked him: "Born, who will bring it?" Unexpectedly, my son actually replied: "I will bring it." ”
I asked him, then how do you bring it? He said with a particularly serious expression, 'I use my pocket to bring it'. ”
Remembering the serious expression of her son who said he would use his pocket to bring, Wang Liwen still couldn't help but laugh.
The picture full of childlike dialogue is so beautiful even when the onlooker imagines it. Perhaps only at this time will you deeply understand and understand why this energetic woman sitting in front of you chose to get married and have children during the rising career period, and spent two or three years to adapt to the change of her role.
When pregnant with her daughter Xiao Tangyuan, her son's thoughtfulness made Wang Liwen particularly moved. "When I was physically inconvenient, I asked my friend to come to my house to pick me up, and she jokingly complained to her son, 'You see your mother is so lazy, she doesn't want to go a few steps'. My son said for me, 'Mommy is pregnant with her sister, it's uncomfortable.'"
I really feel very warm when I hear this conversation, the child is saying the truest thoughts in his heart, and he will use his words and actions to express his love and concern for you. ”
Of course, don't look at the young age of the child, sometimes he is telling us how to be a qualified mother. "When my sister was born, the whole family may have focused on her for a while, and there was some negligence towards my brother, and at first I didn't pay much attention to it, until one time my brother made a mistake, and when I was going to educate him, he in turn began to talk to me like an adult, expressing his emotions and pointing out my problems, and then I realized that I was indeed negligent to him and did not take care of his emotions.
White print T-shirt: DOLCE & GABBANA
Pink suit pants: Comme Tu Es 2018SS family dress collection
Pink Blazer Tops: Comme Tu Es 2018SS Family Dress Collection
White shirt: Baby Dior
Black leather shoes: Baby Dior
Of course, I would admit my mistakes to him and accept criticism. At the same time, we will also tell him what mistakes he has made, and we will pull the hook together to agree to correct them together. ”
After getting along with children for a long time, you will find that adults and children get along with each other in fact, which is actually a two-way learning process, not only children are learning how to grow, but also in this process adults are constantly learning to improve themselves.
Now the two-year-old sister is not only her mother's intimate little cotton jacket, but also a loyal fan of her brother," and even seems to have played a third-party mediator's responsibility in life. Wang Liwen: "My sister especially knows how to defend my brother, yesterday my son made a mistake, when I was eating, my face was a little serious, my sister would come up and hug me to coax me, my mother was not angry, eat lollipops, chocolate." She just wanted me not to get angry and not to criticize my brother. ”
The soft little head leaned over and smiled to reveal dimples that resembled her father's, and Wang Liwen instantly felt that there was no way to put her face up again.
As a low-key and loving couple, Wang Liwen knows very well the emotional cultivation of parents and children in daily life. She will take time out to arrange the itinerary, take the children to visit the class, and try to give the children more time to spend with their fathers. This not only does not make the family of four have a shortage of time to live together, but also makes the child and the father cherish each other's time together more.
The children's science fiction drama "Happy Planet" has made Wang Liwen a goddess in the hearts of thousands of young boys and girls, and "The Line of Life and Death" and "The Struggle of the Ant Clan" have pushed her career to a high place, but in recent years, her number of works has been very small.
"Are you sorry for me? If I go to filming, I regret not being involved in the growth of my child. After my son was born, I also tried to balance family and career, but it was really difficult. As a mother, I need to take responsibility for my children, and I enjoy it all, so I don't feel sorry for that. ”
Grey check suit: Neil Barrett
Grey plaid trousers: Neil Barrett
Blue striped shirt: Gucci
Mini black and white check calfskin J'Adior handbag: Dior
White shoulder strap on black background: Christian Dior
MIDNIGHT RUN sunglasses: LOUIS VUITTON
Velvet dress: little MO & Co.
Black jacket: Baby Dior
On the issue of educating children, Wang Liwen feels that children are to release their nature, that is, to have a simple and happy childhood, not to be overwhelmed by various burdens - talent and interest classes. All the choices of children can only be guided, and the final decision is still in their hands.
"My son is now in elementary school, and there are various interest classes in the school, so I took the list and asked him, do you like it?" Which one you like, choose for yourself. But there is a point, because you choose it yourself, so you must seriously stick to it to the end. ”
As my sister grew older, she also reached the age of learning. During the shooting, Xiao Tangyuan squeezed the remaining chalk head in his hand, ran to the cleaning aunt, and seriously threw the chalk head into the garbage basket.
Grey plaid suit Neil Barrett
"How do you let your child develop good habits?" I think the best education is to teach by example, not to impose demands. Adults do this, the brother will learn to do it when he sees it, and the sister will learn to learn from the brother, so the virtuous circle, all the habits will naturally form.
Will the children consider getting back to work as they get older?
Wang Liwen: "Let it be natural, if you can arrange the family well and take good care of the two children, I will consider work, but it is certainly not as dense as before marriage, and both must be taken into account." ”
This article was originally published on Harper's Bazaar on its Mother's Day album in May
Co-ordination, Visual Planning / Wang Xiaobai
Text Editing/Literature
Photography / Shao Di
Interview, Text/Kitchen Flower Jun
Makeup / Wang Yiwei (On-time)
Hairstyle/Wenzhi The FUR
Styling / Yuri Tan Yuri
Editorial Assistant/Fan Yuyang
Styling Assistant/ Kiki, Cindy, Min Zhang
Costume Coordinator / Qiu Qiu, Wang Xuewei