Recently, the main theme OF THE TV series "Our New Era" was scheduled to be broadcast, and Chen He also broke through his own limitations and played Zhao Xiaofei, a member of the Blue Whale Rescue Team, in the "Emergency Rescue" unit.
He changed the funny nonsense image of the past, wore a uniform and a righteous spirit, and portrayed the young people of the new era who adhered to their original intentions and forged ahead.
Changing the state of not having this person in the promotion of "Hello, Li Huanying" last time, this time, Chen He not only starred in this positive energy TV series, but also played a lot of drama. People have to wonder, is Chen He successful in whitewashing?
In the past few years, Chen He's life seems to be hanging, the drama is not less filmed, the variety show is not less, the hot pot shop is blooming everywhere, the money is not less fishing, and two children have been born in a row, which can be described as a happy family and a thriving career.
Seeing Chen He mixed up so much, it would always remind people of Xu Jing, who left with full of regrets.
Once, this 14-year relationship finally ended in Chen He's apology of "I was wrong" and Xu Jing's forgiveness of "he is still a child", and many people were angry.
Now it has been 7 years since Chen He and Xu Jing divorced. Chen He, who let go first, chose Xin Huan, how is Xu Jing, who was left behind, doing now?
In 2009, as soon as the TV series "Love Apartment" was broadcast, there were countless fans, and at the same time, the main creators in the drama were also brought to the fire.
Among them, Chen He, the actor of Zeng Xiaoxian, has penetrated the hearts of the people with his iconic eyebrow-raising, mean bad smile, but affectionate "good man" image. A line of "A good man is me, I am Zeng Xiaoxian" is even more popular.
It's just that the good man in the play didn't come together with his sweetheart in the end.
Outside the play, Chen He implemented the "good man" personality to the end.
In the ascendancy of his career, he not only did not hide his feelings, but also generously admitted the fact that he already had a girlfriend. His frankness and responsibility have won the favor of many netizens.
This girl's name is Xu Jing, is Chen He's junior high school classmate, the two people met in the green onion teenager, in their teenage years to hold each other's hands, the teenager's love sinus first opened, the most pure and beautiful.
From junior high school to high school, the two people have been with each other all the way. After going to college, even if one is in Shanghai and the other is in Hangzhou, the distance is not separated by two closely connected hearts.
Four years of college, 144 tickets, a total of 38,779 kilometers of travel, and more than a dozen phone messages every day have witnessed their deepest love for each other.
On the fast show, when He Jiong asked: "Then will the two of you still feel when you are together now?" ”
Chen He said that every day when they are together, they will feel very fresh, as long as she is there, the eyes cannot leave her body.
Such a long-term confession has aroused a burst of envy from the audience, and Chen He's "good man" personality has become more solid, and he has also circled countless fans.
In September 2013, Chen He sent a Weibo message: Tomorrow you are going to marry me, the dream has come true, and it is finally complete.
Ten years of love rushed out, and the excitement and excitement between the lines were overflowing with words.
At that time, netizens who were still immersed in the regrets of Zeng Xiaoxian and Hu Yifei sent blessings to the two: this is the most beautiful look of love.
In the envious eyes of everyone, they held a grand wedding, which drew a perfect end to thirteen years of love.
Under the blue sky and white clouds in Thailand, Xu Jing wore a white garland on her head, smiled like a flower, and said emotionally that she was touched in her heart: When I first met you, I really didn't think that we could walk hand in hand for such a long time, thank you for bringing me such a perfect wedding today.
Chen He also choked up at one point: When I first met you, I had fantasized about this day, and I felt that now I am the happiest man in the world.
The details of the wedding further exposed Chen He's commitment to Xu Jing and his expectations for the future:
Xu Jing likes to travel, and Chen He specially picked a ring that can be replaced with gemstones, so that in the future, "every time she is taken to a country, she will buy a gemstone."
Across the screen, you can feel the sweetness between them, and netizens have also expressed their blessings for the newcomers.
Subsequently, the two people also participated in the love variety show together and continued to show their sweetness to the public.
They exchanged gifts on shows, celebrated wedding anniversaries, confessed to each other in interviews, and kissed each other affectionately.
Chen He did not hide his dependence on Xu Jing, tired, he lay on Xu Jing's lap to sleep, hungry the first is to find a wife.
Chen He once cried and said that it was all because of Xu Jing that he had become a better person. His affection once made the other people around him blush.
Rubbing the heat of the show, Chen He then published his new book "Keep it is called love", teaching everyone how to keep true love.
The combination of TV series characters + emotional life has steadily added a "good man" filter to himself and gained a large number of fans.
However, who would have thought that just after recording the program here, Chen He was impatient to file for divorce over there. Even the Mid-Autumn Festival could not wait to be spent together, leaving Xu Jing's own lonely figure in vain.
She is a woman of great affection, even if she is divorced, but in order to maintain Chen He's public image, she did not announce the news.
However, people are not as good as heaven, and soon, the "good man" persona that Chen He painstakingly managed collapsed.
On January 20, 2015, a topic of #Chen He cheating on married actress Zhang Zixuan instantly hammered the public's attention.
At that time, Chen He and Zhang Zixuan had just worked together on two TV series, and both times they were playing a couple relationship.
For a time, there were many opinions on the Internet, loyal fans supported Chen He's "impossible", while on the other hand, the video of "Chen He Zhang Zixuan kissing passionately" and the photos of the two traveling together were constantly released, adding a real hammer to Chen He's derailment.
Seeing that things were irreparable, after three days of struggle, Chen He used a long article "I was wrong" to prove that he had not cheated.
"It's been almost half a year since Xu Jing and I signed the divorce agreement. I'm too busy, and it's not fair to her. Please don't bother her and give her a private space, she's not from this circle. If people can't accept it, I don't act anymore. ”
On the one hand, he tried to dissect himself, and on the other hand, he staged the affectionate drama of "separating me from her for her sake", but netizens did not buy it.
According to this calculation, while he was on the show, he had already divorced Xu Jing for half a year.
Obviously, he has transferred his feelings and other love, but he still goes on the show to use affectionate people to set up circles of money and bo good feelings, is it to treat the audience as a fool?
Seeing that public opinion could not be suppressed, Zhang Zixuan finally responded and also posted a divorce certificate with her husband Yang Yiliu. Prove that you are not a little three.
Opinions are divided and noisy. At this time, as long as Xu Jing has a complaint, Chen He, who is in the ascending period of his career, may be discredited, and Zhang Zixuan will not have a day to emerge.
However, Xu Jing blocked Youyou's mouth with one sentence.
"He is my relative, please stop attacking him."
Although they were unwilling, the parties concerned were forgiven, and the indignant netizens hugged Xu Jing one after another.
Thirteen years of companionship and trust, once destroyed, Xu Jing really does not have heartache?.
She once said, "If a man is a tree, his love has grown to an unforgettable age in my world." ”
The reason why I chose to forgive, I think, is because I really loved it, unforgettable, so even if I encounter betrayal, I still can't bear to see him hurt.
No feeling will end without a disease, and looking back now, the separation of Chen He and Xu Jing, everything has traces.
When they got married, it was Chen He's career climbing period, and Xu Jing was in the empty window period of her career, Chen He was busy with her career, Xu Jing was busy with tourism, they were like two kites, flying farther and farther, there was no intersection.
And the rare time they have together, Chen He is always like a boy who has not grown up, and Xu Jing plays the role of wife and assistant.
When recording a reality show, the two people travel together, it is always Xu Jing who is planning, and Chen He is only responsible for enjoying his success.
When the road cannot be found, it is always Xu Jing who asks for directions, and her stomach is hungry, Chen He only cares about eating from the ground, while Xu Jing, who is also hungry, is busy giving Chen He vegetables.
The journey was tiring, Chen He lay down and slept, and Xu Jing willingly made a pillow.
Love or not love, the details can not deceive people.
In this marriage, Xu Jing will always be the one who pays more, while Chen He is like a child who has not grown up, relying on everything.
But she still kept joking and complaining about Xu Jing: she can't cook, won't let me play games, she thinks I'm like a child, she never stops talking..."
Much truth, in a playful way.
In the time of loneliness and namelessness, Xu Jing may be the best destination for Chen He, to accompany him to grow up and give him comfort.
But once the "boy" grows up, what he needs is freedom, and someone who admires himself, not someone who constrains himself everywhere.
Coupled with the lack of synchronization of growth, it is no longer two people in the same circle, and the gap is gradually emerging.
Chen He once said to Xu Jing: "If we want to be together all the time, then you have to get used to separation, get used to waiting, get used to blessings." ”
Marriage is different from love, when a rift occurs, what is needed is the communication and understanding, responsibility and perseverance of both parties, rather than the unconditional satisfaction of one party.
And Chen He's sentence "I'm too busy" pushed the responsibility away. Turning around, he and Zhang Zixuan continued the emotions in the play to the outside of the play, and Zhang Zixuan at that time, in Chen He's eyes, should be cute and gentle.
At the critical moment, Xu Jing not only did not tear up, but in order to protect Chen He, in the case of broken feelings, she still went on the show for Chen He.
"It's not really something she loves to do, but because we're on the show, we're going to finish recording it."
He even took the initiative to take responsibility for himself: "The most failed point is that the other party has never been taught to be responsible." ”
In the face of the program group's inquiry: Will we still be together in the next life?
Xu Jing choked up several times, almost unable to record.
And the funny thing is that In his heart, Chen He already had a new love, but he still swore an oath, saying that he would marry Xu Jing in the next life. Obviously, I didn't keep it, but I still taught others how to keep true love!
If it is really an actor, the acting skills are really not covered!
For so many years, as long as Chen He is on the hot search, the old things will inevitably be recalled, nothing more than because he has divorced but is still selling his pet wife to make money, which is essentially different from the Lin Tony who remembers his deceased wife while embracing new joy?
Fortunately, after the divorce, Xu Jing did not allow herself to grieve for too long. Without winning attention and traffic because she was "Chen He's ex-wife", nor did she mention Chen He's name again, she took her original dream and turned around and ran to the distant sea of stars.
Chen He could not accompany her to see the scenery, Xu Jing saw it alone.
She kayaked between ice floes, drifted through the Amazon basins, and walked deep into the dense forest.
She was under the beautiful cherry blossom trees, smiling like a flower. "The world is so beautiful, what reason is there not to smile?"
She wrote about the scenery and feelings of her travels in her public name, warming others and healing herself.
What's even more gratifying is that during the journey, she finally met the person she liked again. This time, someone finally made her a delicacy, traveled with her, and saw the prosperity of the world.
She published books, opened a homestay, worked as a travel blogger, and lived her life in full swing.
All the years of indebtedness return in another form.
There's a line in "Be Jane Austen" that says don't lose yourself in front of anything, even if it's dogma, even if it's someone else's gaze, even if it's love. ”
Xu Jing really did it.
Today, Chen He and Zhang Zixuan are happy and happy, and Xu Jing has also found the other half. The parties are all in their own lives, each wonderful. As for their future, the discussion of netizens has never stopped.
Some people say that the article has derailed, but there is no day to turn over, why can Chen He still be hot?
In fact, in the event of "cheating" and "being derailed", no one is the real winner.
The article almost disappeared from the entertainment circle, Yao Di has been pasted until now, and some people even say that Ma Yili chose to divorce the article after Yao Di had a fiancé, only to "disgust" her;
On the other hand, although Zhang Zixuan "successfully" married Chen He, she was ruined in her stardom, and she was always cowering and shrinking in her marriage, like a impossible existence, even if she gave birth to a second child, she did not dare to show love.
And Chen He? Although there is heat, but the audience's resistance is visible to the naked eye, "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", because of Chen He's joining, attracted a lot of scolding, starring in "Hello, Li Huanying", obviously starring, but the organizers dare not promote. The endorsed mother and baby brand was boycotted by netizens.
True love is not sinful, but marriage comes first and comes first. Marriage is not a child's play, and no one can step out of the moral barriers.
Since you have decided to take the road of "human design", you must be cautious and responsible for your own behavior.
Otherwise, those who have stood up will become slaps in the face in the future, instead of waiting for the "autumn to settle the account",
Better to be yourself! Don't be packaged, not affected by external labels, in order to not fall!
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【Text| Xuanjie 】
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