In 2015, the Internet suddenly reported "good man" Chen He,
The news of cheating on married actress Zhang Zixuan,
As soon as the news came out, netizens instantly fried pan, and netizens had different opinions for a while.
But there are many fans who support Chen He and believe in his "good man" personality.
But as more leaky videos and photos are exposed online,
Chen He's derailment is the real hammer.
In the face of the pressure of public opinion, Chen He finally issued an article "I was wrong" to clarify himself.
In this long article, Chen He blew himself up and divorced his wife Xu Jing for half a year.
It's just that the work is too busy without official announcements, and also calls on netizens not to disturb his ex-wife Xu Jing,
On the one hand, he tried his best to prove his innocence, and on the other hand, he performed the drama of "affection" for his ex-wife,
It can be said that divorce also has to preserve the attachment of human design.
After some operation, it did not improve the wind evaluation
Netizens even felt that they were deceived and began to accuse Chen He,
Events are moving towards a more uncontrollable point.
At this time, Xu Jing, as a victim, stood up and accused,
Chen He, who is in the ascending period of his career, will definitely be discredited,
But surprisingly, Xu Jing did not do this,
He even came forward to defend: "Chen He is my relative, please do not attack him." ”
After that, he stayed away from the dispute and did not respond to it in any way.
With Xu Jing's voice, chen He's derailment incident came to an end.
Now the two have been divorced for 8 years,
What are the obvious gaps between Chen He and Xu Jing's life circumstances?
Chen He, Xu Jing
01
Chen He, born in 1985 in Fuzhou Changle District, an artistic family,
Her mother is Hu Xiaoling, a national first-class actor.
His father was the famous producer Chen Zuzhao.
Chen He and his parents
After Chen He was born, his parents who worked in art all their lives,
I have high hopes for him, and I hope that he can inherit his father's business in the future.
Have a bright future.
Chen He's childhood photo
So when I was very young,
Parents guide their sons to develop on the road of art,
When Chen He was five years old, he shot a lot of advertisements with the help of his parents.
Although I have the experience of shooting commercials and grew up watching various dramas,
But Chen He does not like the actor industry,
At that time, his dream was to become a chef.
Not only that, when he was a child, Chen He's parents were always very busy, and there was little time to take care of him.
Therefore, when he was young, he often accompanied by games, which also caused his academic performance to be very poor.
For this reason, Chen He was often taught a lesson by his parents.
After a long time, parents are completely disappointed in their sons,
His father even thought that Chen He was "mud on the wall",
He gave up the cultivation of his artistic path,
Accepted the mediocrity of his son.
May be to see the disappointment of the parents,
Chen He, who has heard about acting since childhood,
In the third year of high school, he was born to take the Shanghai Theater Academy,
Prove your mind to your parents.
In the months that followed, he got up early and went dark, trying to review day after day.
After three or four months of hard work, Chen He was successfully admitted to the opera in 2004.
He became a classmate with Zheng Kai, Du Jiang and others.
After four years of study, Chen He successfully graduated from shang opera,
After graduation, he was admitted to Shanghai Dramatic Arts Center with excellent results.
Started his own acting career.
In the same year, Chen He starred in the drama "Crazy Madness 2.0".
He also appeared in the MV of Zhang Xinzhe's "That Year's Starry Sky".
A year later, Chen He collaborated with Yao Chen on the drama "Dulala",
A few months later, I heard about the casting of the comedy "Love Apartment",
Subsequently, he signed up to participate, and after layers of selection, Chen He was lucky enough to get the opportunity to participate.
Stills from "Love Apartment"
Chen He, with his play, is superficially mean,
But the role of "Zeng Xiaoxian", who is kind and affectionate in heart and single-minded and still loves to be nosy,
Successfully out of the circle, began to become a little famous.
Still
In the following years, Chen He successively starred in "Days with Flight Attendants",
A series of film and television works such as "Love Apartment II", after these works were broadcast,
Chen He's career began to gradually get on the right track.
In 2012, Chen He crossed the border for the first time, the talk show "Say Something Tonight",
After the broadcast, it received a lot of praise.
Followed by "Love Apartment 3",
In the same year, he won the Most Popular and Best Actor Award of the National Drama Festival Network.
The business entered a period of upward mobility.
In the following years, he cooperated with Lou Yixiao, Qi Wei and others to appear in "Love Has Its Own Providence",
"Love Apartment 4", "Hurry That Year",
Film and television works such as "The Gradual Entry of Micro Love into a Better State",
At the same time, Chen He married his girlfriend Xu Jingguanxuan, who had been in love for 13 years.
02
Chen He, who was at his peak, did not choose to hide his feelings.
In the face of the fact that the media and fans generously admit that they are in love,
Many netizens are fans of him because of his honesty and responsibility.
Chen He's girlfriend Xu Jing, graduated from Zhejiang University of Media,
Is a good-looking, hot model,
She and Chen He met when they were students, and they can also be regarded as green plum bamboo horses.
Xu Jing
From junior high school to high school, the two walked hand in hand through the green years,
Even after the college entrance examination, one of the two was in Shanghai and the other in Hangzhou.
Still in love.
During the four years of university, the two often traveled back and forth between Shanghai and Hangzhou.
Make a dozen phone calls a day,
Each of these actions shows the beauty of the love between the two.
Later, after Chen He became famous, he boarded the Mango Stage "Happy Base Camp",
Asked by Teacher He, he and his wife Xu Jing have been in love for more than ten years.
Are you still feeling the same about each other?
Chen He said with a deep and firm face that he and his wife were very fresh every day together.
As long as there is a wife, he can't see anyone else in his eyes.
After the program was broadcast, the audience was touched by Chen He's deep affection,
Attracted the envy of many couples,
More solid chen he's "good man" persona,
It also gained a wave of fans.
In September 2013, Chen He posted on the social platform,
The official announcement of the marriage with his girlfriend Xu Jing.
Netizens have sent sincere wishes.
Soon Chen He held a grand wedding for Xu Jing,
At the wedding scene, Chen He said to Xu Jing with deep affection:
"Your dream is to travel the world, and my dream is to accompany you around the world."
Then put on a ring symbolizing marriage for the beloved girl.
Xu Jing said to her husband Chen He with a happy smile:
"I really didn't think we could go through so many years hand in hand,
Thank you for giving me a grand wedding, a happy home. ”
Chen He also choked up at the wedding scene, facing many relatives and friends,
It is hard to hide the excitement that he can marry Xu Jing,
He became the happiest man in the world.
Judging from the details of this wedding, Chen He and Xu Jing love each other deeply.
The audience can feel the sweetness between them across the screen,
It is hard to imagine that the two will come to the end of divorce in the future.
After the wedding, Chen He took his wife to participate in a variety show "True Love in the Road",
In the program, Chen He showed unlimited dependence on his wife,
He also said in the program that with the company of his wife Xu Jing,
His life has become better, and he is very grateful to his wife.
Such an affectionate confession will be surrounded by guests and the audience in front of the TV,
They were all touched by the red eyes, and they were steadfast between the two of them.
Touched by the love that never abandons.
Relying on the performance in this show,
Chen He has become a rare good man in the entertainment industry.
People's liking for him is increasing day by day, and Chen He's career has also reached a higher level.
After this, Chen He also published a book called "Only If You Can Hold It Is Love".
A list of netizens have paid attention to,
Everyone praised Chen He as a good man with a sense of responsibility.
As Chen He's career got better and better, he became very busy,
The Mid-Autumn Festival of the year the program was broadcast, Xu Jing sent a text to celebrate,
Careful netizens found that Chen He was not around,
Xu Jing was left alone to spend it in the cold.
Gradually, the two people also gathered less and left more because of the long time,
There was a rift in the feelings, and the contradictions soon appeared.
In 2014, Chen He, who was in the middle of the day, went on a variety show, received a script, and took a notice.
365 days a year, it is difficult to return home, but also to rest upside down.
Xu Jing, who has not seen her husband for a long time,
To the resting Chen He proposed the idea of going out to travel together,
But Chen He, who was very tired, refused his wife's proposal.
He even lost his former tenderness and complained impatiently that his wife did not understand him.
Once Xu Jing did not trust Chen He and followed Chen He to record a variety show,
Just got off the plane Chen He was surrounded by fans, signed photos,
Only Xu Jing walked to the side lonely, waiting for her husband.
When it came to the recording place, a director saw Xu Jing and asked her curiously,
Whether it was Chen He's assistant or not, Xu Jing could only smile awkwardly and say nothing.
Since then, Xu Jing and Chen He's lives have been scattered,
It's just that neither of them wants to admit it and tries to maintain a precarious marriage.
03
Chen He, who became popular in 2015, was exposed to cheating on actress Zhang Zixuan,
At first, netizens did not believe it, and then the incident was further fermented,
More evidence was exposed,
I have to believe the fact that Chen He is cheating.
Eating melon netizens clearly remember that at that time, Chen He and his wife Xu Jing were newly married for 1 year.
I have also been on variety shows together, and I didn't think of it in my dreams.
"Good man" Chen He would do such a thing.
The facts were in front of him, and Chen He soon became the target of everyone.
The label of "good man" that has been painstakingly established for a long time is extremely ironic at this moment.
Chen He, Zhang Zixuan
Seeing that things have reached the point of no return,
Chen He immediately issued a document clarifying that he had divorced his wife.
There is no marital infidelity.
I thought that by coming forward to clarify, the incident could be calmed down.
Why don't netizens buy it, they feel worthless for Xu Jing,
13 years of feelings are not worth a few months of acquaintance,
It's chilling.
But Xu Jing, as a party, did not respond at the first time.
Instead, it chooses to be silent for the time being.
But this move hurt the actress Zhang Zixuan,
Zhang Zixuan has become the object of accusations from many netizens.
People put on the hat of "little three", and they can't shake it off.
In the face of flying disasters,
Zhang Zixuan immediately posted the proof of his divorce from her ex-husband,
He and Chen He are in free love, and there is no interference in the marriage of others.
But netizens still do not forgive, many netizens feel that they have been deceived by Chen He,
There is nothing wrong with divorce, the fault is that after the divorce, but also show love in public,
Treat audiences who love and support him as "fools".
Since then, the "good man" persona that Chen He has worked so hard to create has completely collapsed.
That time became the darkest moment in Chen He's career.
At that time, he was very afraid to open the phone,
Because as soon as it is opened, it is an overwhelming scolding,
No matter how you explain it yourself, it is futile.
In the face of the continuous increase in the heat of the incident, Xu Jing, who has feelings and righteousness, stood up,
As the "victim" of this incident, Xu Jing not only did not resent Chen He,
He also sent a post supporting him, hoping that the majority of netizens would no longer accuse Chen He.
Perhaps after years of getting along, Xu Jing has long since risen from love to affection for Chen He.
Seeing that Chen He was accused, Xu Jing was also very unhappy in her heart.
In order to maintain Chen He's image, the kind Xu Jing chose to be silent after the divorce,
He has never had a grudge against his ex-husband Chen He, nor has he chosen to be public because of his interests.
But even so, Chen He's deception of the audience has become irreparable,
The incident of derailment caused a big blow to Chen He's career.
After the incident subsided, Chen He's resources began to decline rapidly, and many variety shows no longer looked for him.
Fans who have worked hard for many years,
Because of the inability to accept the fact of being deceived, large quantities of depowdering.
Even many of the film and television works he starred in did not dare to mention Chen He's name when promoting.
Suddenly, Chen He fell to the point where there was no drama to film and everyone hated it.
Fortunately, at this time, his girlfriend Zhang Zixuan did not abandon him.
Always by his side.
04
Chen He and Zhang Zixuan,
As early as June 2014, the two met because of their cooperation in "Hurry That Year",
In the same year, he collaborated again on the comedy "The Legend of the Medical Hall Laugh", and because of this, he became in love for a long time and came together.
Still
During the time when the two of them met,
Chen He's marriage with his wife Xu Jing has gone wrong,
Due to the long-term gathering of less and more, Chen He's relationship with his wife has reached the brink of collapse.
Coupled with the time that Chen He has been filming in the crew and is with Zhang Zixuan,
Far more than the time that a wife Xu Jing has been together,
Therefore, the secret feelings of the two people can be regarded as reasonable.
After Chen He's accident, Zhang Zixuan, as the object of the cheating, did not choose to leave the relationship,
But it is the first time to stand up and clarify to the outside world,
Even if she caused trouble because of this, she did not abandon Chen He.
Soon Chen He and Zhang Zixuan received a license to marry, and after marriage, they faced the doubts and accusations of netizens.
Zhang Zixuan was forced to quit the show business circle and disappeared into the public eye.
A year later, Zhang Zixuan gave birth to Chen He's eldest daughter in Shanghai, and it was only when it was concerned again.
Chen He and his daughter
The couple who gave birth to the daughter were not blessed,
Many netizens are still grumpy about the events of that year,
Online attacks on Chen He and his wife have never stopped.
Chen He with two daughters
In serious cases, there are even netizens who leave messages attacking the daughter of the two who were just born,
Saying that the daughter will be as unbearable as her parents when she grows up, Zhang Zixuan, as a mother,
Can only turn off the comment function, carefully protect the daughter,
When I encounter happy things, I don't dare to share them, which is really sad.
Fortunately, her husband Chen He took good care of the mother and daughter duo,
Over the years, I have seriously tempered myself and frankly admitted my mistakes in those years.
With the passage of time, people gradually forgave Chen He.
Today's Chen He, drawing on the lessons of the past, no longer has any personal design,
It's more diligent work,
In 2020, Chen He announced the news of the second child on the social platform,
People have begun to accept him now,
There are also more and more blessing voices in the comment message.
Now Chen He, family happiness,
A solid career is also a winner in life.
05
Compared with her ex-husband Chen He, Xu Jing's life is more flavorful,
After leaving Chen He, Xu Jing embarked on a journey around the world.
Life is chic and comfortable.
At the beginning of the year, Xu Jing announced a new relationship and posted a photo with her foreign boyfriend.
Harvesting love again, she was filled with a happy smile.
In the company of her boyfriend, Xu Jing finally realized her dream of traveling around the world.
Lived a life truly free to aspire to.
Chen He and Xu Jing have been divorced for 8 years, and both of them have lived the life they want.
To this day, there will still be many netizens who feel worthless for Xu Jing.
But I think Xu Jing has long since given up on this matter.
We can't sway fate,
Even more can not predict the future, the past things are the past after all,
The important thing is to live in the moment, so that life will not leave too many regrets.
No matter who was right and who was wrong, the past has become a cloud,
All we can do is bless Chen He and Xu Jing,
For the rest of your life, forget the past and cherish the people in front of you,
Live a better life.