There are three TV series of tv personalities filmed by South Korean director Shin Won-ho, but the one with the most suspenseful story and the most deeply rooted in the hearts of the people is the "Please Answer 1988" broadcast in 2016. With this TV series, Shin Won-ho won the Best Director Award at the 52nd Korea Baeksang Arts Awards.
"Please Answer 1988" is a TV series that mainly tells the story of five families living in Shuangmun-dong, Dopong-gu, Seoul in 1988. The play not only depicts a warm picture of the parents of the Korean small citizen class and the neighbors helping each other, but also a heart-warming little story about love and friendship.
Of course, in the TV "Please Answer 1988", the most impressive characters in the TV series "Please Answer 1988" are in addition to a few students at Shuangmen High School, and the sister of the heroine Cheng Deshan, Cheng Paula, is the most eye-catching. She was called a crazy woman, but because of her very good academic performance and very high and strong personality, everyone in the family listened to her very much.
In the first half of the TV series, we can easily find that Cheng Baola belongs to the type of people who don't talk much at home, but compared to her relationship with other family members, Cheng Baola seems to have a particularly cold relationship with her father Cheng Dongri. But if you watch the whole play, you will find that Paula's mode of getting along with her father seems to be similar to most of the father-son relationship in reality.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="5" > have a hard time saying external cold and internal heat</h1>
It is often said that fatherly love is like a mountain, but it is not good at expressing it, and the same is true in "Please Answer 1988". Cheng Dongri is a bank agent, but his salary is deducted in half for helping others pay off debts. He is a middle-aged man who is not good at expressing himself, but he has a good heart, although his salary is not much, whenever he drinks too much, he will still see others pity and help them.
Cheng Dongri and his wife Li Yihua had three children in total, but because of the family's financial difficulties, they could not let the eldest daughter Cheng Paula choose her favorite major. Therefore, Cheng Dongri always harbored guilt for the eldest daughter, and because the eldest daughter said a cold personality at home, Cheng Dongri did not dare to look directly into Paula's eyes and speak, even if it was a short conversation, he spoke cautiously, and his expression was a little cowering.
In fact, cheng paula and cheng dongri's personalities are very similar, and they are not very good at expressing themselves. Cheng Baola is the biggest child besides Kim Jong-feng in Shuangmendong, and is jokingly called the nemesis of the bear child by the audience. The other children in Shuangmendong have a natural reverence for her, but in fact, they are afraid not so much in awe.
Cheng Baola, who wears glasses, gives people a feeling of sharp eyes, which may be related to her high-cold personality. In the play, there may be an age gap, Cheng Paula has never played with her younger siblings, communicated and talked, at most she dragged her sister Cheng Deshan's hair to teach her.
It can be said that in the play, in addition to Cheng Paula calmly saying a lot of words when she was talking to Cheng Shanyu at dinner, she never spoke so much calmly. Some are just her criticism and reprimand of people or things that can't be seen without a dirty word.
In the impression, Cheng Paula is comfortable in facing anything at school and work, but when facing family and friends, she always does not know how to get along. When Paula saw her sister Cheng Deshan lying to her father, she was envious. However, her personality determines that she cannot make a childish move.
As she said to Cheng Shanyu: "I envy her like that, everyone likes virtue, can be spoiled, always smiling and welcoming, has a kind of charm that makes people happy, I don't have those." 」 Generously throwing himself into his father's arms and kissing his father, how did he do it? When Sunwoo asked her, "Sister, won't you do that?" How did Paula answer, her answer was "Absolutely not, I can't do it in death."
People think that Paula had some previous knot with her father, which led to the father-daughter relationship being not close. In fact, Paula herself knows that it is a problem of her own personality, and even Paula's mother said that Paula's personality is too similar to Cheng Dongri, so the two are not close.
So when Paula got married, although the father and daughter did not have too much verbal conversation, both sides wrote a touching letter, and after reading the letter, we became Paula's feelings for her father, although not as obvious as Cheng Deshan's, but in her heart she attached great importance to her father, but she did not mean to say it.
The same is true of Cheng Dongri, in the face of the cheerful and lively second daughter Deshan and the younger son Yu Hui, he can say that the lesson is a lesson, and he can also fight twice. But in the face of this eldest daughter who was as reluctant to say anything as he was, he was embarrassed to open his mouth, and he also wanted Paula to coddle him like Deshan, whether he wanted this or that, but this was difficult to achieve.
In fact, this is similar to the situation of many people in our reality, the child's personality will always be more or less inherited from one of the parents, and if two people with similar personalities are not good at expressing, then the relationship between the two people will not be very close.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="17" > always do more than say</h1>
In "Please Answer 1988", Cheng Paula and her father are people who rarely speak but pay silently to this family. Cheng Baola has wanted to be a judge since she was a child, but because the family's economic situation is really bad, she gave up her ideals, silently changed her college entrance examination volunteers, and went to study teacher training. The father, Cheng Dongri, does not seem to care much about any child, but he will be jealous when his daughter cares about her mother, and when her daughter notices herself, she immediately smiles.
When he learned that Paula was leaving home to live in the examination hall for a while, he said that he would not send his daughter when he had a job to do, but he bought a bunch of medicines and stuffed them into Paula's arms halfway, and wrote the use of the drugs on each medicine box, so that she could eat when she was uncomfortable. He also gave Paula a sum of money and told Paula not to be too frugal and eat more meat.
In her father's eyes, no matter how strong Paula is, she is just a child who has never left herself. He wanted to give her more advice, but he didn't know how to open his mouth, afraid that Paula would hate his nagging. It feels like when we were just in college, leaving home for the first time to go to a completely unfamiliar place, and the parents knew you were too far away from them to help and did their best to give you the best of everything.
All kinds of medicines, enough clothes to change, and a question that asks every three to five minutes, "Is the money enough?" "Most mothers take on the role of the one who has the most instructions to their children, and the father doesn't talk much, still silently gives you money, and sometimes makes the nagging mother say two words less.
When you leave home, the father will not show the sadness of the child leaving home like the mother, but he will still worry about your safety on the road, will judge when you will arrive at your destination, and then send a simple message or call you and ask you "Have you arrived?" ”。
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="23" > silent love endless inclusion</h1>
"Please Answer 1988" ends with Cheng Paula's wedding, before the wedding, the family only let Cheng Paula rest and did nothing. The day before the wedding, the family was not at home except paula and her father. Paula didn't know how to get along with her father, so she hid in her room and talked to her fiancé on the phone, chatting about Paula saying that she was now like a guest in this home.
When noon came, Paula thought her father would be hungry and hung up the phone. As soon as I went out, I saw my father holding a pot of fried rice, looking at her at a loss, as if he didn't expect her to suddenly appear. Then, the father and daughter ate fried rice in silence, and the father asked her a few questions about her preparations for the wedding, and after getting an answer from his daughter, he stopped making a sound.
On the day of the wedding, Cheng Dongri delivered Paula to the groom's hand in the leather shoes that Paula had given him, and no one noticed that the shoes he wore were much larger than his feet, except for the second daughter Deshan. Deshan silently took out a tissue and stuffed it into his father's shoes to make him feel more comfortable.
During the bride's ceremony to her father, Paula discovered that her father's shoes did not fit, and the tears stayed, and she understood, because this pair of shoes was given by her, so even if it did not fit, her father had to wear them to her, just to live up to her heart.
In "Please Answer 1988", there is such a bridge section, Cheng Dongri looked at a table of meals prepared by his wife and suddenly had a small temper and asked his wife if there were no mud cockles at home? Knowing that he likes to eat mud cockles, why he doesn't buy it after eating, his wife told him to shut up. Then when his wife made him a large plate the next time she cooked, Cheng Dongri was happy like a child.
In the face of his wife, Cheng Dongri can express his dissatisfaction as he pleases, in life, at work, and in the relationship between neighbors. However, when his daughter buys herself clothes and shoes, even if they don't fit, he will wear them, and when her daughter asks him if they are suitable, he will tell her that they are very suitable, and he will be surprised and say: "How do you know my size?" ”。
It is said that art comes from life, and the closer to life art is, the more it can resonate with people. In the TV series, although Paula's father's love is always not expressed in an explicit form, it is real. The father's efforts to his children are not reciprocated, and even if he does not get what he wants, he will not say it bluntly.
It's like we as children occasionally cook a meal for our parents, no matter what we make, even if it's not very tasty, the father will praise the venue and then eat it with relish. At this time, my mother would pretend to be jealous and say, "Look how much your father is toward you, I have not praised me for so many years of cooking." ”
At this time, as children, we usually feel a little embarrassed, but we feel closer to our father. Maybe we are not good at expressing love with words, but we can make our parents feel our love for them through some things we can.