Liu Bei, a heroic name, but there is a big stain, that is, whenever he is beaten by the enemy and flees, he does not hesitate to abandon his wife and flee.
Some people often say that Liu Bei is a small strong who can't die, in fact, there is a reason, it is very simple, Liu Bei is a typical scumbag, who takes himself too seriously and takes his family too lightly.
01 A woman is like a famous saying of clothes
Liu Bei once occupied Xuzhou, and when his brother Zhang Fei was guarding Xuzhou in the town, he was mistaken for drinking alcohol, and as a result, he was secretly attacked by Lü Bu and lost Xuzhou. As a result, after Liu Bei met with his brother, he said that "women are like clothes, brothers are like brothers and sisters", which is enough to confirm Liu Bei's scumbag attributes.
Is Cao Cao the kind of scumbag who despises his family and women?
No.
Cao Cao loved his wives and concubines very much throughout his life, never discarded women as clothes, and even cherished and loved other people's wives, in contrast, Liu Bei's attitude and opinion toward women were very obscene.
02 Causing Guan Yu to ride alone
Also in Xuzhou, after the great battle between Liu Bei and Cao Cao, they were defeated in a mess, and as a result, Liu Bei still chose that move to "escape".
Although this escape saved his life, he left the problem of his wife and children to his brother Guan Yu.
It is believed that Guan Yu is a tough guy who stands tall in the sky, once scraped bones to cure poison, and went to the meeting with a single knife, but after facing Cao Cao's heavy siege, he would actually sign an agreement with Cao Cao, that is, "surrender Han does not surrender Cao Cao", would he not dare to fight with Cao Cao to the death, and finally sacrifice heroically?
Guan Yu definitely dared, but Guan Yu was very moralistic, he would take into account the feelings of the big brother, think about the big brother everywhere, and regard the big brother and even the big brother's family as more important than himself.
Therefore, we know that the most important reason why Guan Yu agreed to do things for Cao Cao was not that he was greedy for life and afraid of death, but to protect Liu Bei's wife.
After Guan Yu knew Liu Bei's whereabouts, he immediately sealed the gold hanging seal and slashed six generals after five levels... These performances are enough to prove that Guan Yu is a very responsible person, and regards the righteousness of women and brothers as more important than his own life.
In contrast, Liu Bei, who abandoned his wife and son every time, seemed very unkind, and even left his brother and wife behind, leaving people speechless.
03 I dislike Sun Shangxiang the most
In the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Liu Bei marries Sun Quan's sister and marries, and in the novel, the two are very affectionate and transcend the boundaries of age.
However, in fact, the two of them separated shortly after their marriage, and it is said that Sun Shangxiang was a good martial artist, dancing and playing with guns at home all day, which frightened Liu Bei, and in such a tense atmosphere on weekdays, Liu Bei was definitely like sitting on a needle felt, like a man stabbing his back.
Sun Shangxiang did not give birth to a man and a half woman for Liu Bei, which is the ironclad fact that Liu Bei did not like Sun Shangxiang.
In addition, Liu Bei and Sun Quan were superficially harmonious and temperamental, secretly competing with each other, fighting wits and courage, which made Liu Bei have a layer of separation from Sun Quan's sister, at least in his heart.
To put it simply, Sun Shangxiang, a great beauty of the generation that everyone envied at that time, was only a victim of politics in Liu Bei's eyes, and the life of the two after marriage was not harmonious, which was enough to prove that Liu Bei's treatment of women was so superficial, perfunctory and utilitarian.
04 Death of Lady Gan
On the slope of Changban in Dangyang, Liu Bei's wife Lady Gan, in order to avoid being insulted by the enemy, resolutely committed suicide by throwing herself into a well, showing great righteousness and awe, but also seeing that Liu Bei was obviously a scumbag.
As a husband, Liu Bei did not fulfill his responsibilities and obligations to protect the family and his wife, but instead thought about how to avoid disaster safely.
On the contrary, the good boy who stepped forward was Zhao Zilong of Changshan, a responsible man who gave up his life and desperately rushed into the siege, although he failed to save Mrs. Gan, but at least he made the best efforts he could, this is the real man.
Liu Bei, on the other hand, is an unqualified husband, an obvious scumbag.