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Lowly - Zeng Guofan
Zeng Guofan is known as the first "perfect man" of the late Qing Dynasty, and his outstanding deeds and standards of life have always influenced the study and practice of all people around him and future generations, and even the great man Mao Zedong was admired.
Chairman Mao once said: "Foolish to our neighbors, obey Zeng Wenzheng alone."
Zeng Wenzheng is Zeng Guofan. What a person is most admired for is being able to serve the country and the people: "meritorious, meritorious, and word" three immortal merits. Zeng Guofan is one of them.
And what is the superiority of Zeng Guofan, the first complete person of the late Qing Dynasty, his recognition of people is more flexible and attractive than we think.
Statue of Zeng Guofan
This is the secret of the acquaintances of the modern Zeng Guofan Temple, if you can penetrate the mysteries, it will definitely bring you unexpected gains and effects.
As the saying goes: it is difficult to draw a tiger and paint a skin, and it is difficult to draw a bone, and it is difficult to know the face of the person and not the heart.
No matter what the occasion, we have to deal with people, but in general, we don't know how the other person is, is it trustworthy?
In this case, if we can quickly identify whether the person is trustworthy, we must observe what kind of information his face, body, language, demeanor, and behavior bring to us, then we will take many detours in communication and work. At the same time, you can better understand what kind of person the other party is, and you should be suitable for doing those things.
< h1 class="pgc-h-center-line" > what do you think? </h1>
<h1 class = "pgc-h-center-line" > first, evil looks at the eyes and nose. </h1>
The last thing a man can lie about before us is his eyes, which we all know: "Eyes are windows to the soul." At the same time, the eyes are also the most talkative place.
In the process of communication between you and the other party, if the other party's eyes have been flickering, looking east and west, and dare not look directly at you, then it shows that the other party is a hypocritical and unreliable person, this kind of person can not be deeply friendly, it is best to stay away from the top.
Secondly, look at the other party's nose, the general nose is round and straight people, the heart is pure, good with people, suitable for communication, if the eagle nose, broken bridge nose, crooked nose and the like should not be deep friendship, such people are more cunning, the heart is not right, the heart and eyes are more.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > two, smart look at the lips. </h1>
Sages throughout the ages have one thing in common: large mouths and thick lips. Only with a big mouth can you eat four squares. People with large mouths have a strong personality, a good temperament, and are clean and sharp without dragging mud and water. People with thick lips are often more loyal, honest, trustworthy, do things and be honest, have a sense of responsibility, and have a strong sense of responsibility.
On the contrary, people with thin lips are usually more frivolous and unstable, dishonest, vanity, mouthless, easy to talk about, and such people should not be deeply friendly.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-center-line" > third, the name of the work to see qiyu. </h1>
Qi Yu Xuan Ang, meritorious name.
To see if a person has a breath, the most important thing is to see how his momentum is, as the saying goes: practice a breath inside, practice bones and bones outside, save dantian, and the spirit is very strong. The so-called qi yu is a person's temperament, to see if you have the courage of the sea and the river, the gentleman is frank, it is exactly so!
A person with extraordinary aura, his own aura is also very powerful, he will give you a sense of awe. Just like the great Mao Zedong, no matter where he goes, he carries a powerful momentum and aura in him, which makes you impressed and aweed. His mind, his boldness is like a mountain and a sea, giving people a strong belief.
Song Chuyong's "Dispel doubts and say evil and righteousness": "People are clear and clear-sighted, and their minds are weak, so why does evil charm enter?" ”
Therefore, it is very important to deal with people and see his momentum, if a person is soft-handed, speaks in a feminine tone, and has a vain temperament, it is not appropriate to interact with it, but it will become a negative effect on themselves.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-center-line" > fourth, career looks at the spirit. </h1>
What is the relationship between the quality of a person's career and the spirit?
What is "spirit"?
"Lü's Spring and Autumn: Exhaustion": "The saint observes the appropriateness of yin and yang, discerns the benefits of all things, and is born, so that the spirit is at ease, and the life expectancy is long." ”
Jing: The mind is in the middle, the ears and eyes are smart, the limbs are strong, and it can be a fine house. The essence of the essence, the essence of the qi also. Respect their house, and the spirit will come from itself. Think hard, think about it, and think about it. Strict and respectful, refined to the spirit.
A person's best state is his spirit. His consciousness is sharp, his thinking activities are flexible, his mental state is open-minded and innocent, and his three-dimensional consciousness is ahead of the curve. Such a person must have this superior wisdom and a foresight that ordinary people do not have. If you can interact with such a person, your career will be smooth and satisfactory.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > five, the idea looks at the claw</h1>
Whether a person is rich or poor is, to a certain extent, inseparable from our claws.
If a person has a clear and shallow pattern in the palm of his hand, his mind is fixed. The mind is fixed!
The so-called heart determination is to make up your mind and not to panic when things are imminent; on the contrary, those whose palm lines are shallow and chaotic, people's hearts are scattered and their hearts are easy to be impetuous.
The hand claw is a body tool that a person cannot lack. Generally, people with slender and long claws, palms and palms and backs are fleshy, able to write and fight, skillful in mind, and good at communicative communication. People with rough and short claws, bloated mood, blunt thinking, loose look, and are not good at moving.
It is not difficult to find that the fingers are slender and delicate, and the nails are bright, generally good at brain work, related to occupations that do more mental work, so the thinking is agile, the ideology is rich, and the insight and attention are more unique.
A person with flexible hands and feet is often physically strong, a hundred times more mentally bright and energetic, and quick thinking; on the contrary, the hands and feet are weak and weak, listless, mentally scattered, sluggish in vision, slow in thinking, most of the physical condition is not very good, such people themselves appear decadent and weak, and it is useless to interact with them.
< h1 class = "pgc-h-center-line" > six, wind waves look at the tendons. </h1>
Whether a person is stable or not has a lot to do with our heels.
As the saying goes: stand like a pine, sit like a bell, lie down like a bow. Sit motionless like a bell and walk with a gust of wind. A person who can have such a foundation is by no means a coward, but must be a capable person with rules and regulations.
A person's footsteps are stable, there is a beginning and an end, not fast nor slow, and the talent with quick thinking is reliable and trustworthy. Nowadays, many people walk in a twisted and twisted way, appearing to be very frivolous and unstable at all. In addition, people who walk on the ground with their heels usually not live too long, (kung fu superstar Bruce Lee is heelless) and this kind of person is often more impetuous, and he can do things to him quickly, but this kind of person is not practical, it is difficult to trust.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > seven, if you want to ask the question, it's all in the language. </h1>
Language is the most direct way of communicating with people. It is more direct and concise than any way of expression.
Only language can express more systematically and completely the will and way of behaving that we want to express in our hearts to each other.
People see the orderliness of a person's speech as a crucial aspect of employing people. The language is clearly expressed, the sound sense is pure and pleasant, the narrative is clear, orderly, reasonable, and moderate. The action behavior is not panicked, and it is rare to interact with such a person!
The ancients said "listening", that is, to watch whether the conversation between two people can be to the point, whether it is more clear to explain the main direction and goal of the problem. This depends on whether the other party's speech expression skills are clear, and grabbing the other party can show whether the other party's speech is organized.
Just like Cu Ding solves a cow, finds the trick, straightens out the veins, and can dissect a cow clearly and sharply. When observing a person speaking, see whether he is incoherent, or whether he answers what he asks, or his thinking is confused and unorganized; and methodical people can usually speak in a simplified, easy to understand, direct, simple and clear. Such a person must be a friend of his teacher!
Zeng Guofan's art of recognizing people examines a person's character, thinking, and way of doing things according to the characteristics of appearance, speech, action, and behavior, so as to judge the person's talent and determine what kind of work he is suitable for. In this way, the number is seated, so as not to cause unnecessary trouble and impact.
In real life, if you can master these more practical skills of recognition, you will certainly be able to let everyone play their due role and dedication in his unique special field.
In addition, this resonates mostly with psychology in the modern sense, and is especially worth learning from later generations.
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