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"Beijing Love Story" is really a TV series that refreshes three views.
Cheng Feng robbed Shi Xiaomeng's girlfriend, and Wu Di fell in love with the ex-girlfriend of the eldest brother, which may be bearable.
What I can't stand the most is that Shi Xiaomeng actually sexually assaulted Lin Xia, he obviously knew that Lin Xia loved Cheng Feng, and they were still good friends.
In fact, Shi Xiaomeng did not do this because of drunken disorder, but with revenge.
He exchanged Shen Bing for his future, but he was not willing, knowing that Lin Xia and Cheng Feng had a story, and sexually assaulting Lin Xia was equivalent to retaliating against Cheng Feng. I have to say that Shi Xiaomeng is really too dirty.
Many people say that Shi Xiaomeng was forced by life to violate his conscience.
No, each of us in the big city, which one has not been abused by life.
Yang Zixi, whom Wu Di loved deeply, followed the rich man. Cheng Feng has not had a mother since he was a child, and he and his father have a knot that cannot be solved.
Shen Bing lost her father at an early age, and her mother suffered from intermittent psychosis.
But no one, like Shi Xiaomeng, will stop at nothing for fame and fortune.
From Shi Xiaomeng's body, I saw the most disgusting side of the Phoenix Man. Shi Xiaomeng was born in a poor family, not enough to eat and wear, he has always been eager to get ahead, study hard, and work hard.
It is valuable for a person to have an enterprising spirit, but people must maintain their conscience and the bottom line.
Shi Xiaomeng has always been considered to be the kindest and honestest man, four years of college, Cheng Feng and Wu Di helped him bit by bit, he wrote it down.
He is very grateful and cherished, but behind such simplicity is an extremely twisted heart.
Shi Xiaomeng flew out of the mountain, but his soul went to an extreme. Such a man is a typical phoenix man, and we all say not to marry a phoenix man, which is not unreasonable.
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Shi Xiaomeng was extremely inferior and sensitive in his heart, and when Shen Bing was around him, he always maliciously speculated about Shen Bing, thinking that she would not suffer with him and run away if she met someone rich.
There were many times when others laughed at Shi Xiaomeng, he always barked like a mad dog.
I remember two details, one is that when the landlord came to ask for rent, he obviously couldn't get the rent, and in the face of the landlord's sneer, he was eager to fight with the landlord on the spot.
The other is that after the party, Shi Xiaomeng wanted to take a taxi home, Shen Bing felt that it was a waste of money to let the taxi driver go, and the driver came with a sentence of "don't take a taxi if you don't have money", and Shi Xiaomeng also wanted to find a driver to fight.
Growing up in a difficult environment, it is not because of the low view of the outside world, but because he looks down on himself from the heart. With a man like this, you don't know when to touch his sensitive area.
So later Shen Bing became cautious in front of him, and some words did not dare to say or could not be said. Inferiority also brings a strong sense of self-esteem, Shi Xiaomeng is difficult to do great things in Hu-style advertising, he himself knows it, but he has to die over there.
Cheng Feng said very early that he could go to his father's company, but he refused to go. He and Cheng Feng look like brothers on the surface, but in fact, he is jealous of him in his heart, he hates Cheng Feng, hates the world, why is it so difficult for only him.
In fact, Shi Xiaomeng is not without a way out, when he can't get a down payment on the house, he can completely find Cheng Feng and Wu Di to borrow. When he was calculated by Hu Rongqiang, he could leave and find a new job.
But he didn't, not the cruelty of the external environment, but his inner self-esteem.
Shi Xiaomeng's inner inferiority sensitivity and self-esteem are typical manifestations of the Phoenix man, whether poor or rich, can not be eliminated.
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Shi Xiao scolded Yang Zixi for worshipping Jin for vanity, in fact, why shouldn't he?
After having fame and fortune, Shi Xiaomeng became more vicious.
He is inconsistent in appearance, and on the surface he seems to be respectful and respectful to everyone, but in his heart he has his own small calculations.
Knowing that Cheng Feng was pursuing Shen Bing, he could tell Cheng Feng about Shen Bing's preferences, Cheng Feng thought that Shi Xiaomeng was really helping himself, but who saw the face under his smiling mask?
He could help Cheng Feng chase shen bing, or he could find an opportunity to destroy Cheng Feng. Don't think that the rich second generation are all bad people, and the poor born men are simple.
A phoenix man like Shi Xiaomeng, once he has the opportunity to climb up, he will become blind and do whatever he wants.
I know there is a question: What is the experience of having a phoenix man's boyfriend?
There is an anonymous answer that goes like this:
The ex is a phoenix man, the family is not as good as me, and the income is half of mine. But the people in his hometown thought he was very good. So over time, he himself felt that he was very good.
So he has been living in his own very good fairy tale, he feels that all the people who mix better than him are related or abnormal means, and then I can't bear to tell him the reality, and then he thinks that I am a gold worshipper.
Later, after the breakup, I vowed never to look for a phoenix man again.
Shi Xiaomeng meets all the characteristics of this. I am glad that he gave up Shen Bing, otherwise Shen Bing would have lived in purgatory sooner or later.
Everything That Shi Xiaomeng did to Shen Bing was, in the final analysis, insecurity, Shen Bing believed in Shi Xiaomeng, but Shi Xiaomeng couldn't believe it, and he unconsciously classified women into the type of gold worshipper.
With the Phoenix Man, unless you have a strong enough heart to care for his fragile heart, you will only suffer.
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I used to think that phoenix men were all a history of struggle and inspiration, until I saw Shi Xiaomeng and found that phoenix men were not worth marrying.
I sympathized with Shi Xiaomeng, but he actually sexually assaulted Lin Xia, and I was completely disappointed in him.
Shi Xiaomeng always said that she loved Shen Bing, but what did she really do for Shen Bing?
Seeing the back, I was more looking forward to Cheng Feng and Shen Bing together. Cheng Feng is a child who grew up in a honeypot, and he has a lot of warmth and love in his heart, which will slowly melt the pain in Shen Bing's heart.
Moreover, Cheng Feng got enough, not so good face, nor such a strong self-esteem, and did not need Shen Bing to be careful.
What is the phoenix man's most fatal weakness? Someone summed it up well:
Vision, the limitation of vision brought about by the family environment, a person's vision determines his view of things and also determines his decision-making, and the perennial family environment is edified, bringing him a narrow vision;
Personality, the environment determines the character, love money, buckles, etc. are brought by the environment, the country is easy to change, the disposition is difficult to move, and the most difficult thing for a person to change after adulthood is the personality;
Family, the family is not a short-term can not get rid of, the original family will continue to have a continuous impact in the decades after marriage, and even can be said to be a drag on blood sucking.
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