Three years after graduating from college, Shi Xiaomeng saved 30,000 yuan, and then found a good brother Cheng Feng to borrow 20,000 yuan, and finally paid the deposit for buying a house.
It is a small house of 38 square meters, Shi Xiaomeng has been looking forward to it for a long time, and when the company's bonus is issued, he can pay the down payment and become a house owner.
For Shi Xiaomeng, a stable residence is the guarantee of marital happiness, and he wants to give his girlfriend Shen Bing a decent home.
But the yin and yang were wrong, and Shi Xiaomeng later had a more luxurious big house, but he completely lost Shen Bing.
Stills from the TV series "Beijing Love Story"
Shi Xiaomeng in the TV series "Beijing Love Story" is a tragic character.
The unscrupulous boss deducted his bonus, the house down payment could not be paid, and the savings of several years were facing drifting; love was shaky, the beloved girl Shen Bing was looked at by Cheng Feng, and the rich second generation Cheng Feng had the strength to give Shen Bing a more superior life.
Cheng Feng's father secretly found Shi Xiaomeng and lured him to give up Shen Bing with huge benefits, and in the choice of bread and love, Shi Xiaomeng chose the former.
At first glance at "Beijing Love Story", I think that Cheng Feng snatched love with a horizontal knife and snatched away Shi Xiaomeng's girlfriend; revisiting this drama to understand: even without Cheng Feng, Shi Xiaomeng and Shen Bing still can't go to the end, and the two breakup is the cruelest reality in love.
Shi Xiaomeng is smart, self-motivated, frugal, single-minded in love, he and Shen Bing are green plum bamboo horses, more than ten years of love long-distance running did not make him tired, he only had Shen Bing this one girlfriend.
Lin Xia used to envy Shen Bing because she met a man who spoiled her and loved her.
Even such an unforgettable love could not withstand the test of reality, and Shi Xiaomeng gave up Shen Bing for money; Shen Bing did not marry Shi Xiaomeng, which was a kind of luck.
A man like Shi Xiaomeng is difficult to give Shen Bing happiness, before Cheng Feng intervened, the love between Shi Xiaomeng and Shen Bing had already had a rift, and the marriage between the two was destined to be a chicken feather.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="13" >1, Shi Xiaomeng is high and far-reaching, and lacks reasonable planning for life</h1>
Born in a poor mountainous area, Shi Xiaomeng stayed in Beijing by studying hard, and was admitted to Tsinghua with a difference of 7 points in the college entrance examination, which has always been his heart knot.
After graduation, the job was not smooth, which made him more cynical, and he looked down on Cheng Feng, a idle brother, but had to rely on Cheng Feng.
Shi Xiaomeng repeatedly asked Cheng Feng to borrow money, and even the deposit for buying a house had to ask Cheng Feng to help, Shi Xiaomeng complained that Cheng Feng was born better than him, on the one hand, he owed Cheng Feng a lot of affection.
Shen Bing reminded Shi Xiaomeng that we can't always rely on others, and we can't afford to buy a house first, because what we owe is not only a debt, but also an overdraft of our own lives.
The matter of buying a house is enough to see that Shi Xiaomeng's plan for life is unrealistic, and when the bonus is not paid, he borrows money to buy a house, and the result is not only that the down payment cannot be taken out, but also the arrears are not repaid.
Shi Xiaomeng is a typical ability is not worthy of ambition, "birth" makes his mentality unbalanced, Shi Xiaomeng's heart lacks sunshine, and darkness is his background.
A man who acts impatiently, his heart is higher than the sky, and he is dissatisfied with reality everywhere, it is difficult to give women a stable and steady life, Shen Bing wants "three meals and four seasons, the years are quiet", Shi Xiaomeng can't give her at all.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="27" >2, Shi Xiaomeng has an extreme personality and is easily influenced</h1>
Shi Xiaomeng blamed the loss of Shen Bing on Cheng Feng's head.
Cheng Feng fell in love with his brother's girlfriend, which was indeed shameless, but it was Shi Xiaomeng himself who pushed Shen Bing towards Cheng Feng.
The breakup was proposed by Shi Xiaomeng, Shen Bing was sad and painful, and had an old love for Shi Xiaomeng, but he did not know that Shi Xiaomeng absurdly exchanged her for the 200,000 yuan given by the Cheng family and the position of a company executive.
Love has become a transaction, and Shi Xiaomeng, who is "poor and reasonable", is really not much nobler than Cheng Feng, who is loved by others.
A large part of the reason why Shi Xiaomeng is so determined to give up the woman he loves most is that he is deeply affected by the feelings of his good friends Wu Di and Yang Zixi.
Wu Di and Yang Zixi fell in love for four years, after graduating from college, Wu Di, a "good man" who was ordinary in all aspects, could no longer satisfy Yang Zixi's materialistic desires, and Yang Zixi decisively threw herself into the arms of andy, a rich man.
Wu Di's deep affection and Yang Zixi's "worship of gold" formed a sharp contrast, which made Shi Xiaomeng very stimulated, and he one-sidedly believed that as long as men had no money, women would have to leave sooner or later, and Shen Bing was no exception.
After breaking up with Shen Bing, Shi Xiaomeng frantically retaliated against Cheng Feng and also harmed Shen Bing; Shi Xiaomeng's paranoia would only push his lover farther and farther away.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="40" >3, Shi Xiaomeng is sensitive and inferior, and does not trust Shen Bing</h1>
Shi Xiaomeng and Shen Bing were innocent in love when they were young; when they grew up, they found that what they loved and wanted were different.
The discord between the three views is an important issue in the love between Shi Xiaomeng and Shen Bing, Shen Bing is at ease with the encounter, and Shi Xiaomeng cannot accept his own mediocrity.
Shen Bing said, "You want too much." ”
Indeed, Shi Xiaomeng was no longer the gentle and clear teenager, Shen Bing sensed his change, she tried to repair the relationship between the two, but Shi Xiaomeng chose to leave fiercely.
The more things Shi Xiaomeng pursued, the more uneasy he became, on the surface he was talented, very conceited, very bold, but in his bones he could not get rid of sensitivity and inferiority.
Cheng Feng's love for Shen Bing made Shi Xiaomeng have no courage to compete with it, Cheng Feng's family was well-off, spent money like dirt, lived in a villa and drove a luxury car; while Shi Xiaomeng and Shen Bing lived in a rental house, and were also humiliated by the landlord from time to time.
Under this gap, Shi Xiaomeng no longer trusted Shen Bing, he became suspicious, always suspected that Shen Bing had changed his heart, and lost his temper with Shen Bing at every turn, obviously caring very much, but saying the most hurtful words hurt Shen Bing.
Love is no longer beautiful, but has become the pressure of Shi Xiaomeng and Shen Bing.
Shi Xiaomeng didn't know which day Shen Bing was going to leave, and Shen Bing didn't know when Shi Xiaomeng would erupt in emotion and become hysterical.
Shen Bing looks pure and beautiful, kind, is a kindergarten teacher, very patient with children, deeply liked by children and parents, there is a single father in the play who also likes Shen Bing, it can be seen that even if there is no Cheng Feng, Shen Bing is not short of people to like.
With Shi Xiaomeng's heart and mind, I am afraid that as long as Shen Bing has contact with the opposite sex, he will face his violent torture, and in the long run, it will be torture for both people.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="46" > conclusion</h1>
Revisiting "Beijing Love Story" to know that the breakup of Shi Xiaomeng and Shen Bing is inevitable and has nothing to do with Cheng Feng.
It was never Cheng Feng who snatched Shen Bing, and Shi Xiaomeng's act of betraying love in interest has proved his character, and such a man is really not worthy of a woman's trust for life.