In the Book of Stones, it is said: "All those who live together in partnership are finally scattered, and those who only care about love are finally reunited." ”
Love in life, there is no vigorous, only the thin water of mutual care is long, plain day after day, someone cares about your feelings, willing to do their best to protect you.
The other party may not say "I love you", but you can feel the love in his words and deeds, and feel solid around him, whether it is the end of the world.
On the Internet, I inadvertently swiped a small video that moved me.
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The video was taken by a travel blogger who, after a short walk, was ready to camp on the side of the road.
Seeing a tractor driving on the road, he was shocked, and he had seen a motorhome, a hiker, driving a tractor to Tibet, and it was really the first time he had seen it.
Out of curiosity, the blogger turned the camera at the tractor, which was driven by an old man, and coincidentally, he was also ready to rest on the side of the road for a night, and there was the following conversation.
"Uncle, are you traveling to Tibet on a tractor?"
"Yeah, this tractor was donated by netizens, you see, it's still very new."
"Uncle, how many of you are there?"
"My wife and I." With that, uncle helped his wife off the tractor, and the woman held the puppy in her hand and stood on the ground without saying a word.
Uncle explained that his wife has breast cancer, or advanced, lymph also found cancer cells, and there is depression, the doctor said that time is running out, he refused to give up, sold the house and car, spent more than 500,000 yuan to see his wife, and also owed more than 100,000 foreign debts.
After his wife's condition stabilized, he wanted to realize his wife's wish to go out for a walk, and there was no house anyway, so he made a tin cart and carried the daily necessities to the car, which was all the belongings.
Along the way, he took his wife while walking and looking at the scenery, and when he saw scrap iron on the side of the road, he picked it up, and there was a lot of waste in his carriage, which was also the source of the living expenses of the two people.
At night, he moved the scrap iron off the car, the carriage is the couple's bedroom, uncle said that since going out to travel, his wife's mental state has improved, depression has improved, and sometimes he will smile, making him feel that no matter how hard it is worth it.
At the beginning, he was pulling the carriage to go, walking very slowly, encountering the uphill road is more difficult, a day can not go far, a netizen saw that he pulled the car very hard, gave him a tractor head, he pressed in front of the carriage, so it is very easy, a day can also see more scenery.
The words were full of optimism, the uncle's face was also full of smiles, and his wife stood aside, and his eyes were all him.
Looking at the daily life of their husband and wife, full of emotions, who said that love must be a house and bread, there is a person who treats you sincerely, and does not give up when you are sick, which is the most precious.
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Such inseparable feelings can also be seen in the tong grandmother in Suzhou.
Grandma Tong is 84 years old, her husband Uncle Yang was found to have uremia, 3 years, did 500 dialysis, in order to alleviate her husband's pain, every time, Grandma Tong will play harmonica on the side to accompany.
As long as Uncle Yang feels uncomfortable, he will grab Grandma Tong's hand, and Grandma Tong will say to him, "Don't be afraid, I'm here." ”
Two people use actions to explain what is called mutual affection. Grandma Tong told everyone that they had been married for decades, they had never had a big conflict, and when they were young, the economic conditions were not good, they lived in a grass house, they had no money to buy vegetables, and the two simply lived.
Later, because of the relationship between work, the two gathered less and more, but as long as they rested, Uncle Yang would come back to see her in the car, even if he could only stay at home for 2 hours, he was willing to run back and forth.
When together, Uncle Yang will always rush to cook, although the meals are average, but Grandma Tong likes to eat, with her beloved, eating anything is very fragrant.
Later, Grandma Tong fell ill, and during the hospitalization, Uncle Yang massaged her arms, combed her braids, and accompanied her to eat liquid food, truly achieving the same happiness and suffering, and the feelings of the two were more integrated.
They have been married for so many years and have not had their own children, but it does not affect Uncle Yang's love for Grandma Tong in the slightest, they will go shopping together to buy vegetables, and also watch the flowers blossom and fall before the court together.
When encountering a problem with disagreement, it is always a tacit tolerance, such as one person's temper comes up, and the other person listens silently until the other party finishes speaking and then says his feelings.
No matter who is unwell, the other person is always by his side, this time Uncle Yang is sick, Grandma Tong deliberately took a notebook to record the details of each treatment, every line, is her deep love.
In this world, the most beautiful love is not to be rich and noble, but when you have difficulties, the other party does not abandon, good partners, are a bit of morality.
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A few days ago, I took a bus and saw a pair of elderly people coming up front and back.
There was only one seat on the car, and Grandpa stood by the seat, looking at Grandma with his eyes, and when Grandma sat down, he looked out the window with peace of mind.
Grandma naturally took the bag, and then leaned her head on Grandpa, and the two sat one by one, one guarded, even if someone next to him gave way, Grandpa would not sit.
He said: "The old woman is motion sick, and it will feel better to lean on me." ”
Everyone in the car showed envious eyes, this is the most beautiful appearance of ordinary couples.
There may be no romantic confession, but be sure to keep your needs in mind and guard you wherever you go.
Like the uncle who took his wife on a trip earlier, he sold his house and car and put down these external things, because in his heart, his wife's health was the first.
Of course, he knew that it would be hard to sleep outside in the wind, but it was worth it more than satisfying his wife's wishes.
The blogger asked the uncle a very realistic question: "What if you really can't walk?" ”
Uncle Smiled and said, "Then throw the car into the valley, as long as you are with your wife, your heart will be solid." ”
From the day he went out, Uncle Grandpa never thought of going back, he and his wife did not have a home in the traditional sense, but they always had a home, that is, this small carriage.
The small carriage carries the happiness of the two people, as well as each other's beautiful expectations for life, as long as there is a little strength, he will continue to go.
Praise for their love, we also wish them peace and happiness forever.