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There are only melon seeds, no seeds and melons.
When I was a child, I often listened to my mother nagging this sentence, at that time I didn't quite understand what it meant, and slowly I grew up, and I could feel that my parents' love for my children was very deep, and when my children grew up, it was difficult to repay my parents with the same deep love. #马丽晒儿子背影照 #
Actress Ma Li officially gave birth to a child on Mother's Day 2020, and now the child is more than a year old, and Ma Li has already begun non-stop work.
On September 13, Ma Li posted a photo of her son's back on the social platform, and the one-year-old child has learned to walk steadily, looks quite tall, and the figure is relatively symmetrical, and the whole growth and development looks very good.
Wearing a small blue hat, wearing white clothes and a pair of dark pants looks cute.
And Ma Li also wrote a small essay for her son, saying that every time she was separated from work for a while, she would be very reluctant and could only alleviate this miss by constantly watching the child's photo videos.
I feel that now mothers can't do without their children, especially dependent on children, and said that only those who are mothers can experience this magical and great love, and finally called working mothers to cheer up.
Now after women get married and have children, most of them will still struggle in the workplace, working mothers have two important identities, one is the staff of the workplace, and the other is the mother of the child. Picking up a job can't accompany your children, and you can't afford to put down your work to raise children!
Both identities are very important, one can make their own money to make life in the family better, to give children a better economy; the other identity needs the mother to have more time and energy to accompany, which is prone to various conflicts.
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▲ Breastfeeding mothers should carry milk
Many mothers have to start preparing for work when their children are 4 months or 5 months old, and their children are still breastfeeding. Many mothers will choose to carry milk.
Breastfeeding moms are also embarrassed and difficult:
● Work hours are tight, and it is necessary to squeeze out time to milk the cows
Working in the company, sometimes the meeting is a morning or a whole day, and the mother can only take advantage of the time of eating or rest to milk the milk quickly, and the time is tight and it is easy to squeeze the breast.
● The company does not have a place to milk the cows
Many mothers who carry milk can only milk in the company's utility room, or even in the toilet, there is no way to ensure hygiene, and it is particularly embarrassing, they are milking inside, and there are colleagues waiting outside.
● Breastfeeding leave is not available in every company
The state stipulates that mothers go to work for one year after childbirth, and have an hour of breastfeeding leave every day, but some companies have intentionally or unintentionally withheld them, resulting in mothers wanting to go home at noon to breastfeed.
▲Working mothers are affected by promotions and salary increases
The reason why many women do not want children after marriage is mainly because their work is busy, coupled with being in the career upswing period, they do not want to get pregnant, and after giving birth, they will affect their promotion.
It is true that the competition for work is very fierce, pregnancy will reduce competitiveness, giving birth to a child and need to take maternity leave, working mothers are easy to return to the company after giving birth to a child to feel discriminated against, and even promotion and salary increase will be affected.
▲ Working mother's guilt for her child
Just like Ma Li said, as soon as she came out to work, she felt that she missed her children very much, and she couldn't do without her children, in fact, she felt indebted to her children in her heart.
After all, the child is very much in need of the mother when he is young, and this time the mother has no way to accompany the child from time to time, many working mothers go out in the morning and the child has not yet gotten up, and when the child goes home at night, the child has slept, basically there is no time to accompany the child, so it will feel very guilty.
At this time, the role of dad is very important, and dad can help mom reduce the burden by doing so.
Dads should be actively involved in parenting:
Mom overtime, dad can accompany the child, or the two of them to raise the child to have a clear division of labor, dad busy work income, in the child after the birth of a few years, the mother can change to a relatively relaxed position, spend more time with the child.
If there is a mother-in-law relationship, the father-to-be must also help deal with it, not escape.
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Whether it is a working mother or a full-time mother, there are different difficulties, but when we see that our children look healthy, smart and cute, we will find that all the efforts are worth it.
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