<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > like the 9981 difficulties on the way for Tang monks and disciples to learn the scriptures, in our lives, there are always unexpected things that make people overwhelmed, and even want to cry without tears. But nothing, you have to believe that every broken thing you encounter is a stepping stone sent by heaven to your feet, and it will guide you step by step out of the swamp and towards the smooth road. </h1>
✮ 1 The broken thing that my daughter encountered
In the branch of the daughter's unit, there was a business supervisor who had to take some sick leave due to illness, and the daughter who worked at headquarters was sent to temporarily take over her job.
The daughter did not want to go, but the leader who sent him said that the supervisor has been working in this position for 5 years, and he has explored and built a set of work systems, accumulated rich work experience, and can take over her work, which is definitely an opportunity for the daughter who has just entered the workplace this year.
The daughter gave up her vacation and went a week early in a hurry, hoping to learn from this experienced and well-regarded supervisor.
However, the daughter's troubles came. Not to mention the experience of this supervisor, that is, her normal work handover before the leave is a problem.
Idleness can be talked about and laughed, and once it comes to work, take care of it. There is no talk of handover at all. If the daughter chased after her and asked, she said that there was nothing wrong, nothing difficult, no need to hand over.
The leader met her daughter and asked her how the handover was, and told her that this supervisor had a lot of experience and should make a good handover.
The daughter had to agree oh oh, and the supervisor did not take the initiative to hand over, and the daughter did not know what experience she had to hand over.
There is a software program that must be used in the work, and this supervisor has not been handed over. The daughter was in a hurry, afraid that once she left, her work would be difficult to carry out. Chasing after her code for the program, she said she forgot, and when she remembered to tell her daughter. The daughter kept asking, and she told her daughter a password, but the daughter could not use this password to enter. Ask her again, she said she didn't understand what was going on, and asked her daughter to ask the after-sales service staff of the program software. The daughter did not know the phone number, she asked her daughter to go online to check.
Just the day before her vacation, the daughter really had no way, and told her that if she really couldn't remember, she would have to go to the headquarters to ask the director of this program, she said that she had just remembered another one, let the daughter try it, the daughter tried it, and went in.
Opening this set of procedures, it is immediately found that the numbers that should have been collected have not been collected, many of the work that should have been done have not been done, and the daughter must first make up these numbers and work to take over her work.
The daughter immediately contacted the relevant departments, sent them a statistical form, asked them to test and fill it out, and told the supervisor who had gone home for sick leave.
As a result, the supervisor said that there was no need to be in such a hurry, and that he could wait for her to come back before doing it.
The daughter was surprised and told her that she had contacted various departments to cooperate, and that the work would be completed quickly and without difficulty.
But the supervisor was just reluctant and said that he would contact the heads of various departments and ask them to stop the work first.
Then the work stopped.
The daughter said that when she went to contact the relevant departments, they did not know her, which means that the supervisor did not even do the basic work of introducing the daughter who took over her job to the relevant project team.
The daughter was frantic. Not only did she not learn from her rich experience, but it was difficult to carry out normal work.
My daughter told me about this broken thing, and I listened to her anxious and gave her advice to let her go to the leader. My daughter disagreed, saying that this was a bad idea, people have been in this position for 5 years, I just came, to give advice to others, what will the leader think. Moreover, just work for her for a while, hold on to it.
My daughter was more mature than I was when I was younger, and that made me very happy.
She was more calm, not as anxious as I was. When I was younger, I was more arrogant and unyielding, and I was good at doing some things that broke the net of fish, so I worked hard all my life and did not achieve great things. Your career is like an online game, constantly being killed and then starting all over again.
✬ 2 Broken things that my husband encountered
Although the husband is also more calm, he can't avoid encountering broken things. No, a few days ago, because of the events before and after the fourth uncle's death, he was scolded by the fourth aunt for a dog blood sprinkler.
The first thing that made the fourth aunt angry was that the fourth uncle's grave and the fourth aunt were not satisfied. One is that the position is too biased, and the other is that the position is too small. More importantly, the first soil to be shoveled for the fourth uncle was shoveled by her husband, not by her son.
According to our local rules, when digging graves, it should be the son who shovels the first soil. If it weren't for the scolding, my husband wouldn't know this rule.
On that day, the fourth uncle was pulled back from the hospital, and the whole family came to help, cleaned up the house to set up the spiritual bed, and the yard was also cleaned up tomorrow when relatives and friends came to mourn and pay tribute.
This side was busy, and the uncle over there invited someone in the village who would dig a grave, and asked the second uncle and her husband to carry it on and leave.
When I arrived at the ancestral tomb, I chose a location for the fourth uncle, and I wanted to lift the first soil to find that the son of the fourth aunt did not come. The eldest uncle and the second uncle thought of calling him to come, but the grave-digger was unwilling to wait, saying that the nephew shoveled the first lift. The eldest uncle and the second uncle let the husband shovel the first shovel, and then everyone started to fight the grave.
After the fourth uncle was buried, the fourth aunt came to the cemetery and felt that the fourth uncle's grave was too remote and small, so she scolded her son for not expecting to see it. Her son felt aggrieved and said he was not present at the time of the grave.
When the fourth aunt knew, she cried out like a honeycomb, first scolding her son for not showing up, and his father had a son and no son. He also scolded the uncle and the second uncle and the grave, of course, the most severe scolding was the husband.
Scolding the husband is just a nephew, but pretending to be biological.
After scolding and scolding, he remembered all the rotten sesame seeds of Chen Guzi, and took out a piece and scolded again.
It is also said that when the fourth uncle was sick and hospitalized, the husband was like a relative, and when he went there to see it, he left when he saw it, and at that time, he did not regard himself as a nephew and did not wait in front of the fourth uncle's hospital bed for a few days.
The husband was scolded very depressed, and felt that the fourth aunt did not distinguish the duties of the son and nephew on the issue of serving the fourth uncle during the illness; on the issue of grave beating, he did not distinguish the duties of the son and nephew.
✬ 3 Every broken thing you encounter is a stepping stone under your feet
Life is not easy, as long as you live, you will continue to break things. Ordinary people, whose lives are not a chicken feather. It is important not to be trapped by these broken things, not to complain about the world, and to go all the way forward. In the face of broken things, the more you can't go over, the broken things are garbage heaps; the more you pass, the more broken things will become beautiful and bright scenery
Believe that all the broken things and troubles you encounter are to fulfill you, and the heavens will enhance your ability through these broken things that constantly appear in front of you, to grind away the irritability, anger and youth in you, so that you will continue to become mature, rational and harmonious, become broad-minded, and able to take on big things.
In the face of broken things, do not be arrogant, even if you can't solve these broken things for a while, don't be in a hurry. My experience with people who have come over, when you can't solve this problem, the problem will solve you. In short, in time, the problem will always disappear, as long as you can calm down, experience more broken things, life will always return to you with the years of quiet.