<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > follow me and solve your emotional puzzles</h1>
Author: The Healing Girl
I don't know how you think about Zhang Yujin in "Half Life".
Perhaps many people have a high evaluation of him, sincere and kind, self-motivated, practical and reliable, and is the best son-in-law candidate in the eyes of the elders.
Zhang Yujin in the TV series does have this trait, but he in the original work is not so good. Behind his affection is the selfishness and coolness of human nature.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >01 Zhang Yujin was too cruel to Manlu</h1>
Everyone felt that Zhang Yujin was affectionate.
Man Zhen once described him this way: "He has never been married, presumably because he has not been able to forget her." ”
She means Manlu.
When Man Lu was 17 years old, Zhang Yujin and her mother fled to Shanghai and lived in the Gu family. Mrs. Zhang especially liked Manlu and wanted her to be a daughter-in-law. Therefore, under the mediation of the elders of both sides, the two were engaged.
In the original work, their feelings are described like this: "Although Man Lu and Yu Jin did not express anything, they were very willing to see it like that. ”
Youthful love is often the purest and most beautiful. Later, Manlu's father died, she went to become a dancer, and Manlu proposed to withdraw from marriage. For the next 10 years, Zhang Yujin was single.
At that time, Zhang Yujin was no longer the child who was displaced, and he became the president of the county hospital. In that era, to sit in this position was equivalent to a diamond king old five.
In the past 10 years, Man Lu has experienced the ups and downs of her career in the dance hall, and has also been around several men. As she grew older, she faced a crisis. However, Zhang Yujin has achieved management from the bottom in these 10 years, and her future is immeasurable.
When Man Lu learned that Zhang Yujin was unmarried and had a career, she was happy. She believes that Zhang Yujin must not be able to forget herself. She even believes that her mother wants to match Zhang Yujin and Man Zhen because of her own sake.
"Because Man Lu herself is already married, and she is married so well, and she is flying yellow and tengda, and Yu Jin has not been married for her, and asks her sister to comfort and comfort him, isn't it good?"
For Zhang Yujin, Man Lu has a lot of expectations. Until we met again, her dream was completely shattered.
Zhang Yujin has a deep dislike and avoidance of Man Lu, and he is deeply afraid that Man Lu will continue the frontier with him.
He said:
"People always have to change, and I change. My temper is the same as before, I don't know if it's age, it's ridiculous to think about the past. ”
I have to say that Zhang Yujin's attitude towards old love is too terrible.
Did he ever love Manlu? I believe he loved. They used to write letters, date, and do many romantic things.
Even Man Zhen was jealous of Zhang Yujin and felt that he was going to snatch his sister away.
However, ten years have passed, but Zhang Yujin has completely changed.
He had no more feelings for Manlu, and was reluctant to give her even basic decency.
Why? One reason is that Man Lu has become a dancer, and a man like Zhang Yujin must look down on her, and another reason is that Zhang Yujin was abandoned by Man Lu, which led to a kind of unwillingness in his heart.
This unwillingness is not a matter of love or not, but means that a man's dignity has been trampled on. This relationship, I really feel unworthy for Manlu. It was she who was missing, and Zhang Yujin had long forgotten.
I also have a very puzzled thing is why Zhang Yujin did not help when Man Lu wanted to support his family in the first place, but returned to his hometown. Looking at his lover who has difficulties, but has become a deserter, can such a man be reliable?
When you desert the soldiers, even if you don't love, you have to put on a high-handed appearance, it is really disgusting. In the face of his former lover, he sells affectionate human designs while carrying out the coldness to the end.
Tearing open Zhang Yujin's true face, there was only indifference and viciousness. I used to feel sorry for The love between Zhang Yujin and Man Lu, if Man Lu married Zhang Yujin, her fate might be rewritten. After reading the original work, I found that Zhang Yujin was the most unreliable and hypocritical.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >02 His hypocrisy towards Man zhen</h1>
Zhang Yujin's devotion to Man Zhen's goodbye is also a lament.
You know, at that time, Man Zhen and Shi Jun had been together for two years, and Zhang Yujin also knew their relationship, but he planned to keep a distance from Man Zhen at all.
Even in front of Shi Jun, he thought of Man Zhen.
There is a bridge section where the light in Zhang Yujin's room is broken, and Man Zhen goes to help him change to see his inner activities:
"Her ankles are so slender and strong, just as she is human. In the past two days, her mother often talked to Yu Jin about family routines, and Yu Jin knew that their family of seven people now all relied on Man Zhen, and she could do nothing without any complaints, which he felt was really rare. Now he even had a feeling that compared to her, his sister was just a dreamy and beautiful shadow. ”
It's really ridiculous, Man Lu sacrificed himself for the life of a family of seven, Zhang Yujin can't see it, but he feels sorry for Man Zhen. Sure enough, men don't love you, and everything you do is wrong.
But is Zhang Yujin truly in love with Man Zhen? Apparently not. He fell in love with Manjung for several reasons.
First, Man Zhen is beautiful.
In the small county where Zhang Yujin works, I am afraid that it is difficult to meet a girl like Man Zhen, who has culture, temperament, and cultivation.
Second, Zhang Yujin will be wrong.
Man Zhen has always called Zhang Yujin "Brother Jin", and when Zhang Yujin and Man Lu were together, Man Zhen was also called so.
After so many years, Man Zhen's impression of Zhang Yujin is still stuck in the past, and she still remembers his preferences, such as not liking spicy food and reading books. But these are only out of concern for friends, but Zhang Yujin believes that this is love.
Third, take care of the matchmaking of parents and elders.
Both Mrs. Gu and Grandmother Gu are interested in matching them and creating space for them, while denying man zhen and Shi Jun's feelings.
You know, Zhang Yujin was already in her early thirties at that time, and she had reached the stage of desperately wanting to get married. When he met a pretty good girl, he instinctively wanted to catch it. He can arrest anyone, but he can't catch Man Zhen, why?
One is that Man Zhen already has a lover, and it is a matter of horizontal knife to take love, and the other is that he has not considered how to face Man Lu in the future.
Speaking of this, Mrs. Gu is also really stupid, Zhang Yujin can fall in love with Man Zhen so quickly, and the affection he shows is not a joke?
However, this old lady firmly believed that if Zhang Yujin was good to Man Lu, she would definitely be good to Man Zhen.
As everyone knows, Zhang Yujin is just a wolf in sheep's clothing. Fortunately, Man Zhen is a person who can carry clearly, and in the face of Zhang Yujin's confession, she politely refused. Zhang Yujin escaped again, and then returned to Lu'an in a daze.
In fact, a man like Zhang Yujin does not live well enough, and at the same time has a strong sense of inferiority in his bones.
In the face of rejection and hurt, he will turn the tide in his heart for a long time. He even gave me a childlike feeling, similar to "you don't play with me, I don't play with you", and it was very vengeful.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >03 Zhang Yujin's love is selfish</h1>
After Zhang Yujin and Man Lu broke up, they did not marry for ten years, but because they did not meet the right person. Later, when he met Man Zhen, his so-called affection became a joke.
What's even more ridiculous is that after a month or two, Zhang Yujin went to Shanghai again to invite the Gu family to drink happy wine. How did the bride meet?
In the original work, Zhang Yujin said: "The last time I came to Shanghai, I either stayed at a friend's house for two days, or he introduced me to me." We've been communicating ever since. ”
Man Zhen has a mental activity that is also very interesting: "I got married when I saw the meeting and communicating, and it was so fast, it took less than two months." ”
Why is it so fast?
Obviously, this is Zhang Yujin's revenge mentality. The last time he came to Shanghai, he was rejected by Man Zhen, and he met Man Lu who wanted to continue the frontier, which was a double stimulus for him.
He married someone else so quickly just to tell the sisters: "I'm not uninhabited, I don't have to be your son-in-law." ”
He tried to use this method to restore his dignity in the care of his family. To put it bluntly, it is a gamble. This kind of gambling is completed by Zhang Yujin, but there is another sad woman in this world.
Zhang Yujin is a man who is really terrible, and it is not enough to describe him with two words just one scumbag, he is the kind of smiling tiger and wolf in sheep's clothing. His docile and bright appearance makes you mistakenly think that he is the best person for a partner.
In fact, at the critical moment, the women's wind and rain are all brought by him. Looking at everything he did to Man Lu, it is obvious that the first love has a marriage contract, but Zhang Yujin abandoned Man Lu twice.
The first time was when Man Lu's father died, Man Lu had to bear the family's life, although the breakup was not proposed by Zhang Yujin, but Man Lu was also forced to break up. His lover is not willing to share the wind and rain with himself, what is the use of keeping it?
Unfortunately, Man Lu did not realize this at all, and she always thought that she was ashamed of Zhang Yujin. The second time was when Man Lu and Zhang Yujin were reunited, and Zhang Yujin's coldness was lamentable.
He could not love Manlu, but he didn't have the slightest warmth for Manlu, not even just a greeting between friends. Breaking up with Man Lu, even strangers are not as good, and even rush to clear their relationship, this is not a responsible performance.
Moreover, Zhang Yujin was not frank enough about Man Zhen, knowing that Man Zhen had a world jun, and also knew the relationship between Man Zhen and Man Lu, he still pursued it closely, and did not consider Man Zhen's situation at all.
This is especially true for his wife, who does not love her so much, but can make a marriage contract with her just to give a bad breath. Men like Zhang Yujin have the inferior roots of men in the old era, selfishness, machismo, face, and strong self-esteem.
One of the things that I dislike More about Zhang Yujin is that he pretends to be affectionate and lets everyone know that he has been emotionally hurt, but his affection is only to hide his ruthlessness.
Zhang Yujin's concept of love is egoistic, his eyes are only fixed on himself, but he has never considered the other party. Such a man, no matter how good he looks, can't want it.
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