<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > follow me and solve your emotional puzzles</h1>
Author: The Healing Girl
Some people say that in "Half Life", it is precisely those elders who cause tragedy.
After reading the original work, I was deeply touched by this.
Those old men and women who look harmless to people and animals, but behind them hide the greatest evil of human nature. These evils cannot be described as cannibalism. Today, I mainly write about Mrs. Gu, who is the mother of Man Zhen and Man Lu.
How could you not have imagined that the tragic fate of these two sisters was driven by Mrs. Gu.
Her ignorance, narrow-mindedness and selfishness are chilling.
< h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > parasite for daughter 01</h1>
There are always people who criticize children who are overly dependent on their parents, describing them as "mommy" and "giant babies". But there is a kind of parent who is particularly dependent on their children. She can't support her own life, so she has to cling to her child.
Mrs. Gu is this parasite. She had six children, and when Mr. Gu died, the children were still young, and the oldest Manlu was not yet an adult.
Logically, Mrs. Gu should support this family, no matter how much she earns, she must support several children. But Mrs. Gu did not, she was still immersed in the world of being provided for.
Thanks to Manlu, otherwise their family would have been finished long ago. What is puzzling is that Mrs. Gu would rather let Man Lu make money as a dancer than go out and find something to do herself.
Some people say that Mrs. Gu has to take care of several children. You know, Manlu and grandma, who are healthy and can help take care of the children.
At that time, Mrs. Gu and Man Lu both went out to work, and it was not a problem to support the family, so why should we go to the point of letting Man Lu become a dancer.
What is even more vicious is that Man Lu was forced to become a dancer, and Mrs. Gu, who was a mother, did not have any gratitude for her, but wanted her to raise herself for a lifetime.
After Man Lu and Zhu Hongcai got married, Man Zhen proposed that she should not let Man Lu pay anymore, she would support the family. Mrs. Gu said:
"Relying on your little salary, it doesn't matter if we save any more, a few small ones still have to go to school, how much should this tuition fee cost?"
You see, in Mrs. Gu's heart, Manlu is the cash cow of the family. Also her own child, her eccentricity is infuriating.
Man Lu was not in good health after marriage, and every time Mrs. Gu came back, she would take the money that Man Lu gave her.
Man Zhen repeatedly stressed that he should not take Man Lu's money again, but Mrs. Gu always had a reason, either saying that "people are now wide, not necessarily so stingy", and saying", "I really see that you are too hard." ”
Mrs. Gu's excuse was perfect every time, in fact, she hadn't thought about It for Manlu at all. Man Lu is old, she blindly nagged her marriage, but did not know the identity of Man Lu's dancer, how to let her marry out.
If you really want to be good for Manlu, don't let her raise a family anymore. Zhu Hongcai is not a good person at all, he has a wife and children in the countryside, but Mrs. Gu thinks that it is good for Man Lu to marry him, because Zhu Hong can afford to raise a large family of them.
Zhang Yujin and Man Lu once had a marriage contract, but Mrs. Gu wanted to match Zhang Yujin and Man Zhen, how could she think about Man Lu's feelings?
What Mrs. Gu did to Manlu did didn't seem to be anything, but in fact it was all soft violence, which made Manlu lack and uneasy.
Mrs. Gu and Man Lu did not have a very good relationship, and often quarreled without saying a few words.
In fact, Man Lu is filial on the surface, but in fact, she has hatred for Mrs. Gu in her heart. It's just that this hatred is covered up by Manlu.
Why hate? Because Mrs. Gu's eccentricity made her heart lose balance.
Mrs. Gu considered the future of each child, but did not consider Man Lu.
Man Lu is like an old scalper at home, the more he does, the less he gets. This imbalance makes Manlu paranoid and twisted, so there will be a series of absurd things to follow.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >02 absurd values</h1>
Mrs. Gu's values are completely old-fashioned, stupid, and she doesn't know it at all.
Man Lu and Zhu Hongcai's relationship is not good, Zhu Hongcai made a little money, and he spent all day drinking. At the same time, Man Lu was unable to get pregnant for a long time.
In the original work, Mrs. Gu said:
"How old is my uncle this year, and I want to be forty, right?" Don't say that men are not rare children, at an age, they also want to be fierce! I thought, there is nothing else to be sorry for him, there is only this one. ”
To tell the truth, to say sorry is also a matter for the Gu family. Why can't Manlu get pregnant? Because I've had two previous abortions with my child. Mrs. Gu couldn't think of this layer at all, she felt that it was Man Lu's fault that she couldn't have children.
I think Mrs. Gu has given birth to 6 children, which is her grooming technique.
Faced with Man Lu's predicament, Mrs. Gu came up with another bad idea:
"To put it again, if only you had a son!" If only it had been easy to do before, the wife would have made a man for the old man and borrowed someone else's belly to raise a child. ”
Mrs. Gu would never have thought that her idea would be verified on Man Zhen. It can be said that Mrs. Gu is the indirect murderer who destroyed Man Zhen, of course, this is only the first step.
In the matter of matching Zhang Yujin and Man Zhen, she is even more stupid to the extreme, of course, she is not thinking about Man Zhen's happiness at all, but her own interests.
"How good she is to marry Yu Jin, you think!" Then she didn't need to be so tired, the old lady always wanted to go back to her hometown, and the old lady was also satisfied. Our two families became one, but fortunately, we were old relatives, and it cannot be said that we leaned up. ”
In this matter, she completely regarded Man Lu as an outsider. For Mrs. Gu, as long as the people and things that are beneficial to her family are worth fighting for, as for the happiness of her children, she has never put it first.
It wasn't until Man Zhen was abused by Zhu Hong that Mrs. Gu's true face was completely torn apart.
Mrs. Gu obviously knew what Man Lu and Zhu Hongcai had done to Man Zhen, and she did not have the slightest concept of saving Man Zhen, but instead blamed Man Zhen:
"This child is so ignorant, how can this kind of thing be shouted out, he has no face."
Her daughter was going to be killed, and she felt that she deserved it, and this kind of mother was even inferior to an animal. The only solution she thought of was to let Man Zhen marry Zhu Hongcai.
"Mrs. Gu was sad at this time, and it was also because of Man Zhen that she followed Zhu Hongcai from then on, and she must have been unwilling, but now, she had to ask for perfection."
Later, Man Lu gave Mrs. Gu a sum of money to move to Nanjing, and she agreed without hesitation. As for Man Zhen's life and death, she didn't pay any attention to it at all. Until she left Shanghai, she did not look at Man Zhen, and handed over the letter written by Shi Jun to Man Zhen.
In Man Zhen's tragedy, Man Lu and Zhu Hong are the masterminds, and Mrs. Gu is the accomplice. In her values, there is a stench of utilitarianism and selfishness. She values profit, wants face, and at the same time has a set of women's guilt theory.
With such a mother, you don't expect to be sheltered, in the face of heavy winds and rain, she will drive you out of the house and lock you.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > a product of the old society of 03</h1>
Mrs. Gu is a representative of the women of the old era, and their evil is due to the distortion of the whole environment. If you think about it, in those days, there was a lack of materialism, the idea of patriarchy prevailed, and women had no status.
Various difficult situations allow women to survive in a cramped space, and naturally form narrow and selfish values. Because the cultural water is limited and the cognitive ability is very weak, it is impossible to get secondary growth.
As a result, she can only take the thought life instilled in her by others. These thoughts include: a woman must listen to her husband, a woman must have children, a woman who is spoiled is dirty, a woman must marry when she reaches the age...
From this dimension, it is not difficult to understand all the absurd things that Mrs. Gu has done.
The most hateful thing is that she enjoys the money she earns as a dancer while enjoying all kinds of things to Manlu, and at the same time disgusting her identity as a dancer.
In the depths of Mrs. Gu's heart, she looked down on this daughter, and she felt that Manlu had lost her price, as long as someone was willing to marry her. And Man Lu is also a very proud person, and many of Mrs. Gu's words have hurt her self-esteem.
Man Lu chose Zhu Hongcai, quite a "revenge" mentality, she wants to prove herself, through the realization of personal value, get the favor of her family. However, Mrs. Gu has always been alienated from Man Lu.
This comb has left a gap in Man Lu's heart, she is inferior and sensitive, and she is extremely lacking in love, so she will be deceived by a scumbag like Zhu Hongcai.
Someone once asked, Man Lu and Yi Ping in "Love Deep rain" are both working in the dance hall, why the ending is completely different?
One reason that cannot be ignored is that Yiping has a good mother. Yi Ping's mother would rather starve to death than let Yi Ping sing to support her family, her vision is long-term, she is afraid that Yi Ping will fall in that environment, thus losing the possibility of life.
Later, YiPing persuaded her mother, who was also guilty and grateful to her. Yi Ping came home late from work, and the tables were steaming late at night. Afraid that Yi Ping would come back late and the road was not safe, he asked the driver to pick her up.
Yiping's mother loves and cares for her daughter in all aspects.
No matter what difficulties she encountered, she was on Yi Ping's side. Yi Ping, who grew up in love, does not have so much imbalance and uneasiness in her heart, and more often she is willing to eat.
But what did Mrs. Gu do for Manlu? There is no emotional care, let alone material help. She only had endless exploitation and exploitation, And Manlu married on the front foot, and she rented out Manlu's room on the back foot.
Man Lu got married, and Mrs. Gu did not consider not dragging her down, and she also changed her ways to get money.
Man Lu encountered a problem, and she thought that Man Lu had a problem herself. In her opinion, this daughter is stubborn and willful, and does not deserve the best thing in the world at all.
For Man Zhen, on the surface, it seems to be good, but on key issues, she is a deserter. At that time, Man Zhen was locked in the room, covered with scars, desperate to death, Mrs. Gu was one step away from her, she did not look at it.
Only later did Man Zhen realize this:
"What kind of attitude her mother has is not yet known, otherwise why wouldn't she have managed to rescue her for almost a year after she lost her freedom?" This was the point that she felt the most painful, and she couldn't imagine that her own mother was like this to her, but it was not as good as a stranger like Cai Jinfang. ”
As a mother, Mrs. Gu, not to mention the greatness of her mother, does not even have the basic goodwill of a person, which is the evil in the depths of human nature. She was always a selfish person, but at the same time timid and fearful, cowardly and incompetent.
In a way, her patheticness is that of the women of the whole old society.
Their whole lives have only been muddled, and they have never had themselves. The values of those old societies became their cages, and they imposed them on their children. Even more tragically, they are unaware of this. If you had an explanation, they would only tell you: This is fate!
END.
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Healing Girl: Emotional author, focusing on the growth and emotions of women in the new era.
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