Wen | Gu Ziyu
01.
"You grew up with me, I grew up with you", this is the most emotional confession in the world, but also the most beautiful scenery, but in real life, there are always some unsatisfactory things that make people annoyed.
Mr. Chen has three brothers, his mother passed away a few years ago, and the remaining 75-year-old father has also formed a new family to live with his stepmother's family.
The father threatened that he did not need to support his own son, but Mr. Chen's brothers were unwilling, and he was also a person who wanted face, so why did his father not have to support himself, and at the same time they also suspected that the stepmother his father was looking for was another plan.
Mr. Chen said that when his mother was alive, his eyes were not very good, their father often smuggled women home, and was caught several times by his mother's smear, this stepmother was the woman, and his father also sold the old house for 350,000 yuan to buy a new house for his stepson.
However, his father strenuously denied this matter, saying that this wife was introduced to him a year after his wife's death, and he bought a house for his stepson, because he wanted to live with the stepson's family, and his own affairs a hundred years later were also responsible for the stepson's family.
Mr. Chen said that his father's stepson family of five people, originally there was no house, the father gave the money from the sale of the house to the stepson, the stepson filled in a part, the loan to buy a large house of more than 100 square meters, now a family of six people living together, the house book does not have the father's name.
Mr. Chen said that the old house originally had half of the mother's, and the father's treatment was very unfair, which made them feel particularly uncomfortable, and at the same time, they were also worried that their father was deceived, and it would be more embarrassing to be thrown out when he was old and sick, and it would be more embarrassing for them to clean up the mess when the time came.
02.
Mr. Chen's appeal is that he hopes that his father will get back the part of the money that belongs to their mother, and at the same time, the three brothers are also willing to pay living expenses for the old father, and they will also be responsible for the problem of life, old age, illness and death.
However, Mr. Chen refused to negotiate, he was determined to break off relations with his own children, he said that he did not need them to retire, and he would not return the money from the sale of the house.
Later, with the efforts of the mediators, Mr. Chen promised that as long as the three sons paid for their living expenses, he could consider selling the house and taking out a copy that was originally given to his own son.
However, when it comes to the cost of living, there is a contradiction, the sons are only willing to pay the father's living expenses, they say that their father can spend whatever they want, other women can not spend, they believe that this stepmother is the woman who was related to her father when her mother was alive.
They also heard some old neighbors say that this woman's life style problem is not good, and when she is with their father, she also has an improper relationship with other men, and she is optimistic that her father actually has a house.
Mr. Chen lao wants to live with this wife's family, he is worried that he will take the sale of the house to his son, but can not get back the living expenses, he decided to use the sale of the house to deduct living expenses, as long as he lives, how much deduction is calculated, and finally how much is left to wait for himself to say after a hundred years.
Because father and son can not find mutual trust, things can only be handled in this way, it seems to have a result, in fact, how much indescribable sadness there is.
Fathers want to pursue a happy life in their old age, but the children are very disappointed in their fathers, they think that the father not only broke the mother's heart, but also gave the things that the mother left to them, and gave them to others, and in the eyes of the father they were not as good as a person who was not related by blood.
03.
It is said that every family has a difficult scripture to read, every family has its own story, especially on the issue of remarriage of the elderly, there are indeed many things that cannot be said clearly, and if you meet someone with a heart, it is really very difficult to deal with.
For example, in the TV series "Children of the Qiao Family", Qiao Zuwang has been single for most of his life, and when he is old, he wants to marry the nanny Qu Aying into the door, and he also has to do a lot of work, which makes the children extremely disgusted.
The children of the Qiao family had long seen that this nanny had bad intentions, and she established herself in the Qiao family little by little, and then brought the son and daughter-in-law from the countryside to the house, and finally drove the sick Qiao Zuwang to the hall house, so that the son and daughter-in-law lived in the back room.
Qiao Zuwang once swore that the house was his own territory, and he would leave this house in a hundred years, but when he was old and sick, he was bombarded by the nanny.
In order to become the owner of this old house and let her children become city people from now on, Qu Aying asked Qiao Zuwang for a name, and Qiao Zuwang agreed, but on the first night of the first day of the license, he hit his head on the ground, and with a tragic ceremony, he failed to let Qu Aying's plan succeed.
Qiao Zuwang, the failed father, did not make any contribution to his children in his life, and he used his life to guard this old house for his children, which seemed sad and so hateful.
The love-hate entanglement in this world always makes it unclear how many people are for true feelings, and how many people are for interests, and the true and false of this is afraid that many people themselves are not clear.
Write at the end:
A person can come to this world, is not an independent individual, has their own responsibilities to pay, but also have their own concerns, and the involvement is also mutual, there is love to respect, there is pay to gain.
At the same time, in the face of this materialistic and impetuous reality, a person must also have a clear judgment thinking, do not be blinded by some people, and finally lose face and hurt emotions.
Although everything must follow my heart, but there must also be a certain bottom line as a person, what can be done, what can not be done must consider whether I can accept the final result, can not leave myself regrets and regrets.
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