The Han Dynasty poet Su Wu wrote in the poem "Leaving a Farewell Wife": "Married as a husband and wife, there is no doubt about love and affection." Rejoicing on this evening, grace and good time. "Many couples never want to separate when they are married, and they think that staying together for a lifetime is the end.
The famous mathematician Hua Luogeng and his wife have been in love with each other for 58 years, and have been accompanying each other around each other, but in their later years, they have conflicts again and again, and finally led to separation.
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Hua Luogeng was born in a county town in Jiangsu Province, and his family opened a small shop, barely enough to make ends meet. The father was a middle-aged man, who did not ask his son to be able to do a great career, but only wanted him to live a rich life, so he named his son Hua Luogeng, which means that there is surplus grain in the family.
Hua Luogeng did not have good grades since he was a child, and he repeatedly hung up the subject to retake the exam, but he calculated the account quickly and accurately in the small shop at home. In this regard, his family was angry and happy, thinking how well he would use his mind and skills in accounting to study.
In addition to the family members know that Hua Luogeng is good at settling accounts, his teacher Wang Wei also discovered this matter, so Wang Wei focused on training Hua Luogeng, and single-handedly taught him from the bottom of the class to the second in the class.
After graduating from junior high school, Hua Luogeng went to Shanghai to study and learned fluent English. Unfortunately, Hua Luogeng's family's source of funds only depended on a small shop that did business with acquaintances, and it was impossible for him to continue his studies. So Hua Luogeng dropped out of school and returned to his home in Jiangsu from Shanghai.
At the age of 17, Hua Luogeng's family began to worry about his life events and arranged many girl blind dates for him. In the end, he married a girl named Wu Xiaoyuan, although it was the order of his parents, and there was no actual feeling when they got married, but the two had similar interests and got along well.
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The family of three lived a dull and happy life. Unfortunately, a plague broke out in the area, and many people lost their lives, including Hua Luogeng's mother. The family is still free from grief, and Hua Luogeng is also unfortunately infected with the disease and needs to stay in bed all the time.
After a series of diagnoses, the doctor gently expressed the difficulty of treatment to Wu Xiaoyuan, and people around him also said that Hua Luogeng's time was not long. But Wu Xiaoyuan did not believe it, and she took Hua Luogeng home and took care of it with all her heart.
In order to take care of Hua Luogeng without distraction, Wu Xiaoyuan sent his daughter to his mother's house. Not only eating and living, when Hua Luogeng was in a bad mood, she also enlightened him on the side and encouraged him to try to live.
In order to treat Hua Luogeng, Wu Xiaoyuan went to the county town to ask for a famous doctor, whether it was a doctor or a prescription, it was very expensive, which added a lot of pressure to the family that was not rich in the first place. But Wu Xiaoyuan did not hesitate to take off her ornaments. If it wasn't enough, she borrowed money everywhere, as long as she could cure Hua Luogeng's illness, she would not hesitate.
At Wu Xiaoyuan's insistence, Hua Luogeng's condition actually improved day by day, he did not have to lie on the bed, he could sit up, and even walk under the support.
Unfortunately, due to the viral infection and long-term bed rest, Hua Luogeng's left leg fell disabled. However, Hua Luogeng did not become decadent because of this, in order to keep his left leg from shrinking, he exercised every day and was very optimistic.
After recovering from his illness, Hua Luogeng regained his strength and regained his favorite mathematics, during which he made many research results, all of which were submitted to the magazine one by one. Sometimes he was rejected, and his wife Wu Xiaoyuan would comfort and enlighten him on the side.
With excellent mathematical ability, Hua Luogeng was favored by Tsinghua University and entered Tsinghua University, during which he completed a number of papers and published mathematical works. During these days, Wu Xiaoyuan took care of all the big and small affairs of the family, supported Hua Luogeng's cause with practical actions, and relieved him of his worries.
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After the founding of New China, Hua Luogeng, who had achieved success in his studies, decided to give up the high salary and benefits abroad and resolutely returned to China. Because he and his wife both know that at this time, the country is in ruins, and people from all walks of life need to work together to build together and help the country get back on track.
After returning to China, Wu Xiaoyuan not only took care of family affairs as before, taking care of his elderly father-in-law in his hometown, but also participated in Hua Luogeng's career, helping him copy papers, replying to letters under his guidance, receiving guests, and so on.
Soon after, the country was in turmoil, and Hua Luogeng, a member of the Mathematical Research Institute, was also affected. Homes were smashed, offices were disrupted, manuscripts painstakingly researched were destroyed, and Hua Luogeng's years of hard work were wasted. Even Hua Luogeng himself was beaten, causing multiple injuries.
During this period, Hua Luogeng was very seriously persecuted physically and mentally, suffered from myocardial infarction due to overwork, and did not wake up for six weeks after trying to coma, and almost declared critically ill. Wu Xiaoyuan saw all this in his eyes, but there was nothing he could do, and he could only feel sorry for it.
After the end of the turmoil, Hua Luogeng continued to engage in mathematical research, but Wu Xiaoyuan recalled the past ten years, his heart was full of panic, as long as he left Hua Luogeng, his heart would come up with the picture of his home being smashed and he being injured.
As a result, there was a contradiction between the two, on the one hand, Hua Luogeng had to run around in order to study, and even needed to go abroad for exchanges, on the other hand, Wu Xiaoyuan hoped that he would always stay by his side. The two quarreled many times as a result, and they could not come up with a solution.
The children, worried that their parents would be too emotionally agitated to cause an accident, so they separated the two and calmed down before continuing the discussion. Who knew that once separated, they would never see each other.
In 1985, Hua Luogeng was invited by the University of Tokyo in Japan to give a lecture. At the scene of the report, due to a sudden myocardial infarction, Hua Luogeng unfortunately passed away. By this time, he had been separated from his wife Wu Xiaoyuan for five years.
After learning that Hua Luogeng passed away, Wu Xiaoyuan returned to the old house where he once lived and lived his life. In 2003, Wu Xiaoyuan died, and their children buried the two together, and the husband and wife, who had been separated for many years, finally got together.
Hua Luogeng is a mathematician of national civilization, most people will think of him, he is an academician of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, a professor of Tsinghua University, the first Chinese of the American Academy of Sciences to be awarded a foreign academician, and his research and writings have also solved many mathematical problems.
However, not many people mentioned Hua Luogeng's family, nor did they know that he had a hard-working wife by his side, who was handling family affairs and allowed him to devote himself to his work.
Wu Xiaoyuan loves Hua Luogeng very much, so much so that he doesn't mind being a woman behind him who silently supports him. From home to abroad, from calm to turmoil, from poor to rich, whether it is following her husband or taking care of her family alone in her hometown, Wu Xiaoyuan has no complaints.
It was also because he loved too much, and Wu Xiaoyuan, who witnessed her husband being hurt, had more worries in his heart than reason, and made a request for Hua Luogeng to stay by his side, which led to constant quarrels, and he did not even see the last side.