There is a saying: dogs that bite people, don't bark. In a word, the same is true of people, and those who know how to be silent are the most powerful people.
When a person appears in front of you and talks loudly about something, he can't find a few opinions on the matter, but endless nagging and endless complaints.
And another person, appearing in front of you, is only occasionally a few words in advance of this matter, but he is precise and accurate, and he can grasp it well every time, and his attitude towards this matter.
When such two people appear at the same time, they are naturally the more silent person, and they are more pleasing to people.
Some words, when to say, when not to say, this is a kind of learning, people who can control this kind of learning very well, can be better, in the society like a fish.
Similarly, people who know how to be silent are more worthy of admiration by others. People who know how to shut up are capable people.
In the workplace, you may encounter such a situation, usually talkative people, when encountering problems, will only continue to shirk responsibility, but those who work hard, the greater their ability, the responsibility will be pressed on him, and will only be brave to bear.
The more people know how to shut up, the more capable they are, they don't need to ask for credit, leaders and bosses will naturally see his ability, and no matter how much he says, it will only be icing on the cake.
And only those who have no ability will ask for credit, and use his three inches of uncorrupted tongue to attribute all the credit to themselves.
Although such a person can be temporarily reused, if his ability is not as good as he says, sooner or later he will be discovered by others, and the higher he climbs, the more miserable he falls.
A capable person naturally does not need to say anything more, and his ability is his best language and the best business card.
He who does not speak is a wise man.
There are nine times out of ten in life that life is not satisfactory, but in the face of these things, everyone can choose their own attitude.
Some people can't stop complaining when they encounter things, and they have to say that everyone knows it to be finished, and let the incident break the jar.
And there are some people, you rarely hear their complaints, when asked, they are just laughing and silent, when the news comes to them, they have overcome the difficulties and embarked on the road to success.
Their choice is often wise, rather than breaking the jar in life, it is better to readjust their mentality and start again.
Wise people often do not open their mouths, and when they open their mouths, they are a blockbuster. In fact, when you chat with others, you can see which people's heads are full of wisdom and which people's heads are empty.
Wise people never despise long speeches, their words are expensive in short and concise, and after chatting with them, they often have a feeling of sudden enlightenment. And when talking to a stupid person, all he has in his heart is his complaints about the world.
Those who do not refute must be competent.
Competent people will never covet those verbal disputes. For them, fighting in vain for those nice names is only a waste of time. More important time should be spent on the blade of the knife, and use this time to better improve yourself.
Competent people, they often like to think quietly, let their thinking come alive, and do what they think is right independently.
They understand their shortcomings, understand their own shortcomings, so they understand better to shut up and try to make up for their shortcomings, rather than pretending to turn a blind eye like others.
Those so-called shortcomings, in the tempering of time, will sooner or later become their advantages, and this is their real strength.
Those who practice silence are the most able to understand how to behave for others.
Nine out of ten strategies succeed, and others praise you at most for your talent, but if you fail one, everything in front of you will be shattered to pieces.
People who know how to practice silence will not choose not to speak before they are sure of things, preferring to remain silent rather than be clever.
They are very clear about how to deal with people, and they will not easily open their mouths when talking with friends, but use their eyes to observe and understand with their hearts.
Their ability to observe is greater than their ability to speak, and what kind of people they meet, what kind of words they say, and what kind of happiness they get are their greatest skills.
On the road to doing things, they will never let you down. It will be comfortable to spend time with them, and there is no need to worry about anything at all, because they know what to say and what not to say.
Don't treat people who know how to be silent as an honest person, they are willing to be silent, they can keep their loneliness, they can endure it. 、
Such people will often work hard at the lowest point of life, rise up, and emit all their light when they are at the highest point of life. Their hearts are strong, and all the humiliations they have suffered before will fulfill their later glory.
For the rest of your life, be a person who knows how to be silent, feel your own thoughts in silence, listen to your own heart, and strengthen your heart. Go down to earth, don't care about the noise of the outside world, don't fight with the outside world, and be silent in the true sense.