Most of the people who are becoming more and more silent are inseparable from these major reasons

As I got older, the more I found that the people around me became more and more silent.

Looking at the circle of friends, many people have quietly disappeared.

Some people only update a circle of friends in a few months, and some people have not updated the circle of friends for several years.

Occasionally, I also frequently send circles of friends, most of them are doing marketing.

Circle of friends, more and more calm.

Not only is the circle of friends deserted, but our phones are also less, and even QQ, WeChat, etc., have become quiet.

In the recent news list, most of the people who contacted me were talking about work.

Many of the groups have also become extremely quiet, and only the work groups will occasionally ring a few sounds.

Not only have online chats become deserted, but offline, there are fewer and fewer gatherings of friends.

Old classmates, old friends and former colleagues who used to be in regular contact, everyone gradually went farther away.

Everyone has become more and more silent, less and less visible.

Why is that? In fact, it is mainly the following reasons:

1) Circles have become different.

In the past, you were in the same circle as someone, and everyone would interact with each other.

But with the needs of life or work, everyone is separated, the distance has become farther, and they are gradually out of touch.

For example, there are a few classmates who used to work in the same city as me, and they are very close.

Almost every weekend, everyone gets together and is in regular contact.

But later, because of the change of jobs, everyone no longer developed in the same city.

As a result, it gradually stopped contacting.

Everyone has their own new circles, on weekends and holidays, they will meet with people in their new circles, and naturally, there is no time and energy to maintain the previous circles.

Occasionally chat, say a few words of greeting, and even don't know what to talk about.

Because everyone's common experience has become less, after asking about various work and life, I can't find too many topics.

What used to be very familiar gradually became strange, so they were silent.

2, mixed very badly, do not want to show their faces.

Over time.

What used to be on the same starting line will now be divided into several classes.

There are tens of thousands of annual salaries, there are annual salaries of more than 100,000, there are annual salaries of hundreds of thousands, there are annual salaries of millions and so on.

The class is different, the channel is different, and the topic is different.

Especially if you mix very badly, you will feel that your face is particularly dull, and you dare not show your face.

The circle of friends will not be updated, I really don't know what to say.

There is nothing to show off, and I don't want others to know that I am not satisfied, so I choose silence and choose to disappear quietly.

Mixed well, but also busy with their own careers, busy maintaining new circles, naturally, there is no time to find the old circle of people, occasionally send a circle of friends, it is likely to choose some people to see, because they are also afraid that others mistakenly think that they are showing off.

3, everyone is getting more and more mature.

Whether the mixture is good or not, as we get older, everyone becomes more and more mature.

When you encounter something happy or unhappy, you will not easily say it to others.

Except for the people closest to them, no one wants to say too much about other people.

Years of social experience have made everyone deeply understand that some words cannot be said, and some can only be said to certain people.

Everyone is becoming more and more mature, encountering difficulties or unsatisfactory, and gradually learning to bear it on their own, digesting it themselves, and no longer spreading their emotions to others.

There is a saying that if you experience too few setbacks, you will feel that everything is troublesome.

When I experienced more and more, I gradually saw through many things, and I also looked down on many things, learned to let go, and became more and more silent.