Li Zongsheng said: "The world is so noisy that it makes silent people look a little silly. ”
A silent person, always unremarkable, not even feel his presence, a little silly, but all this is a superficial phenomenon, when you really understand a silent person, you will know that his heart is very strong, he is with a strong heart, inclusive of all things, so that all restless things, tend to calm, become invisible.
People who are very silent in the following five aspects, look ordinary, but are actually really powerful people. If you can do it, it will become more and more powerful: strong inside, experienced in doing things, sincere, sonorous and powerful, ideal and firm and persistent...
Lu Xun wrote in "Hometown": "I think: Hope is nothing to have, nothing to have. This is like the way on the earth; in fact, there is no road on the earth, and the more people who walk, the more it becomes the road. ”
If there is anything in the world that is worth making a fuss about, everything can be indifferent. "In this life, except for life and death, everything is a small thing." A person's success is not to go to the black on a road, but to know how to adjust the direction, even if there is no road, as long as you insist on walking, every mountain opens the road, meets the water to build a bridge, will also walk over.
The really powerful person, when confronted with anything, remains silent, controls the mood, and looks for an exit in the calm. He knows that there is no road in life that cannot be followed, only people who do not want to go. Instead of complaining about life everywhere and complaining about God, it is better to "forge ahead". A person, the more silent, the stronger and broader the heart.
Those who have a big mood and can't keep calm, always impetuous when doing things, and even easy to give up halfway. It's not that things are hard to do, it's a lack of patience, there's no perseverance. As soon as the heart is confused, it messes up the square inches of doing things and creates a chaotic situation by itself.
Entangled things, are troublesome, wordy things, if you are very impetuous, every day to worry, the result is to do things worse and worse. It is better to remain silent, like a person "bystander", "to static brake".
Really powerful people can always withdraw from those tedious things, and may lose some of their own interests for a while and a half, but loss is also gain. At least I got a chance to start over.
If a person is always entangled in letting go or not worrying about the past, it will slowly lose himself, and the current days will not last forever.
A person, the more things entangled, then the more time and energy is wasted, and when pestering others, it is a lose-lose situation. Even to form hatred for their own next generation, they have to guard against "revenge" from others at any time and anywhere. Smart people know that "it is not appropriate to solve the knot", be kind to people, and get rich in harmony. Entangled things, or put down all, keep silent, let others be embarrassed to say anything, but also give themselves a "sigh of relief".
A man' greatest success is meeting a good woman and having a good family. As a woman, if you marry the right husband, you will be happy for the rest of your life. Therefore, the success of love is one of the criteria for measuring whether a person is strong or not.
The really powerful people are not rhetorical, not "rhetoric", but use actions to tell each other "I love you". The act of love, once is a lifetime. Once holding hands, never letting go; once smiling, a lifetime of spiritual happiness blossoms.
"If you do it, it's true love", it doesn't matter. If you can warm each other with actions, then you can "husband and wife with one heart, and their profits are broken.". If love doesn't feel warm anymore, it's disappointed and even breaks up.
Man, finding a good wife, is the greatest success, is the greatest point. In turn, women are the same, with the love of good men, the happiness index will be higher, and it is easier to become the "great man" behind men.
The really powerful people will also be richer, but not the kind of local tycoons, who will not show off, but keep a low profile. We see people who show off, who also have money, but are not really "big bosses", those who don't like to talk in the corner when they get together, often deserve our admiration, and if you dig deeper, you will also find that among them, there are people who are much better than themselves.
Many people, just a little bit of money, are proud, causing others to be jealous of you, plotting against you behind your back, making you invincible, and the result is a loss of wealth.
"Humble benefits, full of losses". On the way to making money, please keep a low profile, but also a little more love, get the respect and admiration of others, rather than being jealous, it is possible to make more money.
Do you find a good project and immediately can't help but share it with others? That is to expose your development direction, maybe others are one step faster than you, and they are successful first, resulting in your development being hindered.
Really powerful people, always "unexpected" to achieve success, are doing unique things, they can stand out. Therefore, you should seize the opportunity when the opportunity to turn around in life comes, instead of telling others and spreading your development everywhere.
"Everything is the Best Arrangement" writes: "When you are finally silent, maturity has just begun." "Silent people, often more mature, look ordinary, but can always be in silence, insight into everything, find the exit of life; always in the complicated society, quiet and far-reaching.
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